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zyzxx:
OP mention his name

wait for it

diddydiva:
@op

whisper it to me. I swear I won't tell anyone. not even mirexxx, or dotwillis1 or Twaci.

I will keep it safe.

who is the lucky guy?

oya come closer

chemmerfrank:
your an arsenal fan?? Well this your public letter no carry stamp sef

abi now

missjenna:
I hope he loves you too, if not you are just wasting your time

true

akinsadeez:
awwwwwwwwww. That's so romantic. Nice use of words. I just hope he is aware of your feelings.

I hope so tooo else i'll be standing on a long tin

leeport:
Loove is bliss when found...

I dey tell u

Tandullceblog:
How will he know you are referring to him nau?

trust me!

Cutehector:
Damn

y u dey damn

ArchEnemy:
mba post office no go fast reach this one

abeg tell am.....

ronald4lif:
I will take that as a compliment but wouldn't want to fly just yet.

But you actually is not obligated to tell who the addressee is, he sure knows himself.

Na amebo make me pokenose

stick around! U maay just fish him out

chemmerfrank:
Odi egwu, you no sabi where post office dey?

I no sabi o!

Cutehector:
I knw say na me Mzflexydeeva dey love. No doubts

hmmmmmmm!

obongproff:
Is he ur husband or ur boyfriend?

lemme aask

ronald4lif:
Sweet sweet but would have been sweeter if you had stated the recipient of the letter. But what do I know. All the best with your new found love

wat if it was 4 u?

ArchEnemy:
Love is a beautiful thing

you can say that again

For many, this forum is always going to be a site to visit for aproko gist, a few information and some of us a place to relax. For me, well it's a lot of things but I must say this letter is way over due.

Nairaland forum,
22nd Feb, 2015.
Nigeria, Africa.


Dear NLer,
I would have written you all this while but I just couldn't find the words or best time to so i'm writing now because i've realised there's never going to be a perfect time.
I love you.
I'm in love with you.
I'm loving everything about you.

In my dreams I only imagined you but now i've met you my dreams are no longer figment of imagination. I would always feel like the term "I love you" is insufficient because love doesn't even begin to describe this feeling. Over & again you would be my number 1 choice. One naira or one million you'll always have me. I'm tempted to shout to the world but I guess now isn't the time. My smile you have made your priority, my joy your concern my laughter your job. You changed heartbreak to heartbeat, some say guys are the same but I say you are the exception. Roses, gifts, cash isn't what we are based on but our genuine affection blossoms like flowers by the sea shore. We do not seek perfection least we fall prey but we know we are different but we want to turn our differences into distinct. I won't have asked for anything better, I won't even ask for anything more but i'll ask that as you found your way to my life and heart, you remain close. My friend, my companion, my all. Lots of people don't understand it but we know where and how we soar high just like on angels wings. I'll love you now and always.

cacali:
We are very fine thank you. Appreciate your asking.

good to know. You've been quiet so I tot. To draw you from d kids a bit.

talk2odim:
Add?

okay

yemicoal:
OK dear, v a nice day!!

you too

yemicoal:
yh, so wah u up too today?

not much, in d office

I can imagine

yemicoal:
same here dear, had to wake up early tho, hustlers don't sleep much

talk2odim:
BBM?

yea!

talk2odim:
your pic is cutie though....pweetie

thanks a bunch

yemicoal:
how was your night?

my night was cool & urs?

ceefwesh:
Hello

hi

temi4fash:
Hello people...

How are you doing?

Mis deeva.. Happy Belated Birthday. ..

Hoep u had fun....

Peace..

Thank God its friday

thanks dear

Cacali, how r u & d kids?

yemicoal:
Hi guys

hello

talk2odim:
Quite stressful i must confess....

yea yea

talk2odim:
Just the usual lagos hustle n bustle......

I. Can imagine. Hope not too stressful for u though

emusmith:
This thread is especially for all those whom have had to undergo the pain of a break up or perhaps divorce AND those whose current serious relationship is dwindling at the edge of a cliff .

<<<I pray this article helps>>>


Probably, you're now casting rocks at him or her but I tell you, if you look keenly, you are responsible in a way.

Almost every one is in a relationship: Platonic, Love or Marriage. Break up or Divorce as it were is an ANTI-RELATIONSHIP virus. It's always sticking its ugly nose at both of you- for separation. The ball, however is in your court.

How Do I Prevent Break Up Situations In My Relationship?


1. Be The Bigger Person.

Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why? You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today. Don't try to defend your actions anymore.


2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.


Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call, so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.



3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some Slack


Sometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him, "Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation, Morals, Dignity and Chastity This is the period where some impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!



4. Don't Plan To Retaliate


If she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to keep the relationship strong and going.



5. Forgive Ahead.

Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.

Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?



6. Being Hasty To Conclude


You hear something said against him and the next thing you're calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you discover it wasn't him. You feel like a... child.



7. Always Speak Up!



Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation might have led to your breaking up... because you didn't speak!

This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should know when to speak and when to be still joor!

You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.

Discretion: Use wise words.

Respect: Use magic words.

Maturity: Know when to say what.



ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way you disregard him or her, even in the public.

Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get Married?)

Have a nice day.

well said

talk2odim:
Im gud n u?

am very fine. Waats happening with ya?