Consider putting conversations about relationships, commitment and the future on hold for a while.  Learn to enjoy your time together each day.  It seems that you're both interested in being with each other.  So, instead of stressing about the future, take the time to gain knew experiences with each other, use this period to enjoy new life experiences (i.e. conversation, outings, friends, etc.), learn more about each other as individuals.  If this is the woman for you it will happen.   This is not to say that you should spend your life waiting for her but pushing for an answer may not yield a genuine response, in matters of the heart force isn't a good tool.

I've had the same problem for years, while I'm not a doctor or anything, here are some options to consider.

Stop tweezing it, as per my dermotologist it increase bloods supply to the hair follicle. shaving or hair removal creams are better (they don't interfer with the follical). If you do have a Dermotologist (or a good primary dr.) ask them to prescribe Clindamycim Phosphate, it really helped me with ingrown hairs.

I've recently began laser hair removal, specifically the Lara Laser and it has been successful (as I have dark skin). I did try the Saprono laser and had two horrible experiences (burns). It is expensive but I've been using my employer's flex spending program, since my insurance considers lasar hair removal as cosmetic (if they only knew). In a few months I will finalize things with electrolysis to take care of my last few stubber hairs.

Please keep in mind that I did go to an endocronoligst (sp?) to make sure that my hormone levels were norm (that is something to look into prior to making a financial comment to lazers considering the cost).

I hope this information helps! I know how overwhelming facial hairs can be. Keep the faith.