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BeeBeeOoh:


This moniker shock me o

I had to check it again to be sure

saintopus:
In the case of hate of in-laws by a wife, its rather a difficult issue. The easiest way is to call the wife and ask her the reason behind the anger and hate. Encourage her to forgive all preconceived wrongs and poor uterances if there are any in the passed or present.
Like I said these things are common even in overseas.
My boss, retired lecturer in the university whose last son married a Norwegian young lady faced a similar embarrassed situation when she visited her son under omugwo runs. It was a serious matter.
So this things happen.
For me no need to divorce the wife unless she became violent.
Family matter, wife and husband problem è no easy ooooooo my brother.

Exactly. It's not easy. they have had several meetings. asked her what the issue is but she is not coming up with any tangible points. Nothing whatsoever. This man is the first born and stands In the gap of the father who is late. will he chase away his family because of a woman? No! I have given him my consent already. The ball is left in his court

saintopus:
I've been in marriage for more than 20 years, most of what you stated here can all be settled with 2 attitudes.

1. Patience

2. Forgiveness

You see, no marriage on earth is without problems.

Let me ask you, assuming you got married to a chubby lady, do you think none of what you mentioned here would happen?

Or would you because of the lady's chubby nature and stay?

Lets say she was a virgin. Does that mean that she wouldn't have exhibited these attitudes?

Go back again and read those 2 words above. Then think again.

He made the mistake in the onset by allowing a woman to trick/ cajole him into marrying her.
Op, women have caustic tongues and no one is good not even your female family members.
Just do what makes you happy. Frankly, there are a lot of childish behaviour from the both of you. You were supposed to be the man and control the narrative in your home but if she is set in her ways and won't change, and it's becoming violent and also depriving you of your peace, then seek separation first to see how things pans out.
@saintopus I'm trying to settle a cousin s issue and I need other perspectives. There will be a meeting of family this Sunday and I will be there. In a situation where a lady doesn't want to see her husband's family members ( the mum and brothers) and hate? Them so much for no concrete reasons, what is your opinion? My cousin wants to end the marriage as all attempt to talk sense into the woman is not working
What's your take?

Miggs:
I am neither igbo nor yoruba but instead of a moderator to close this divisive thread,it will be moved to the frontpage because it will generate clicks which means access to adsense money.Nairaland has got to do better.

I am so disgusted at all of these. Our politicians have divided us completely. Seun and his mod are just allowing this nonsense to continue. Quite shameful. The mods keeps getting incompetent by the day

Mckraz01:
Make she suffer wetin we dey suffer... Lolz

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What's that?

ravensckar:
Helinues no be aide, he's a political robot. Wetin robot wan use car do?

MANABBQGRILLZ wey do pass am don "relax" after being dumped like a used tissue paper.

Just noticed that now that you mentioned it. The guy rarely comment.

PortHarcourtcit:
This is a good leader, and not OBI the tribal bigot from AGULU brewery Biafruad labourer...

Still better than your entire lineage. Deal with it

Lifestone:
Guy, it seems abusing Nigeria even for no just cause makes you high and feel good

That's a fact not abuse. Na all these kind of defence from the same oppressed Nigerians give our politicians evil wings. Call a. Spade a spade. Even the white criticise theirs more than we do

vanbonattel:
Funny protesting

Go and work hard for your money and stop wasting your precious time with protest that will change nothing.

That one holding a placard saying house rent should be monthly, but ask him how much to build one flat and he will not know. Trying to reap where you didn't sow.

With comments like this, it's no wonder why we are where we are and why our rulers have the guts to steal to high heaven and misbehave. Una well-done.

tamdun:
God punish u for eternity if u no name that person who offered you 800k

He already did mention the organisation

The class of political thieves should know it's drawing closer home. One day, the mob will feast on them. Just one day

datola:
The wife's even laughing at the young and innocent looking man.

Very simple man

airsaylongcome:
How do you know he made money?

He made some money. May not be as much as this present crop of players but he did. Amuneke, Oruma, jay jay, Papilo were same era with this guy.

Onyeigbo10000:
National chairman Simp association of Nigeria.

Kai you made me burst into laughter in the club.

Amuluonyenaego:
I swear if they played when football is lucrative, to pray might even be hard for them. They only switched to a lucrative business. Na Taribo own even pained me pass imagine praying for Tinubu to become president just cos of stomach infrastructure, tufiakwa.

Taribo made some money tho. Don't know what happened

Anybody still believing these thieves needs to be pitied. Under Tinubu, these refineries will not work. Maybe August 2034

Salewa97:
Nigerians need to understand that change takes time. Tinubu's government is working behind the scenes to stabilize the economy. Let’s give him the chance to deliver on his promises instead of jumping to conclusions. Patience is key!

All these paid chimpanzees. Una no dey tire?
See them all up there masturbating on every thread singing the same worn out song. This was the same patience they preached during buhari era. 8 years went down under the watch of that disaster. Now they have started a new song

Philipponzaghi:
Tinubu is doing his best under tough circumstances. Let's not forget the previous administrations that left us in this mess. Patience is key; Rome wasn’t built in a day. We need to support our leaders as they navigate these challenges!

Thunder go fia Ur left ball quietly. What nonsense are you guys spewing! That's how they told us to be patient with buhari till the walking stick finished his eight years. Now they have come again

Phoenix990:
it has been 5 months I knack do I doubt if is std

Don't rule out HIV though. Takes a while to show up

Usmanovic95:
Remain that man wey naked himself for bar bishhh😩😩😝🤣😄.Dem no know say rain no dey fall on one person head, everyone is feel the wotowoto pro max.

I will really like to know how he is faring these days

I'm sure regret will be gnawing at the corner of his heart

Botragelad:
Whereabouts in Birmingham are you then?

I recall mentioning in my previous response that I could suggest a random location, didn't I? Now, tell me, did this incident actually take place or not?

Leave those people alone they are pained when you catch them pants down.

Chinkoalhaji34:
Another day, another protest.

I guess they think Wike's house is a hotel for their complaints.

If only they could channel this energy into something productive instead of following the Peter Obi playbook of noise without sense.

You never tire. Why are you deceiving and fooling yourself. It's a shame for one to do this because of crumbs

Maysdevices:
You don’t know northerners if na that one, you think their regional heads are happy that they are not in the seat of power?

They believe the country belongs to them, all it takes is for a popular face from the north like Shettima or Atiku to say they are contesting

That is the end, they will die to put him there

Yes you are right. I forgot that tiny detail. I was looking more at the south where our belly is our god

Maysdevices:
Most regions will; even most of his people are against him, don’t let these 5k for hire E-rats fool you

What a time to be alive

My fear is, come election time, most of these people will sell their votes for a morsel of porridge. But I like what is happening. This is sending a message to the political class that their is a rewakening

mrkings84:
But bro, in the past, if someone manages to own a land, he will manage to put something more befitting to live in.
But with cement at about 10k per bag, where does someone who is not prepared for building begin with?

Very apt. I would rather say APC destroyed this country.

R

[quote author=Wotowotoman post=130403345]People dey talk better job, you dey compare their talk with your 50k jobs. Go and work at Shell or Total where you dey see guaranteed millions plus all kind benefits and come back and repeat this comment [/quote
This is harsh and uncalled for. Why I see points in your reasoning, I have long passed that benchmark you rolled out for me bro

mrkings84:
Don't blame the landlords for increase in rents, rather blame Tinubu and APC for making Nigerians poorer each passing minute.

APC and Tinubu is a curse to this nation.

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While I agree Tinubu aggravated the issue, the unreasonableness of most landlords predates Tinubu era

Simpleshafee:
One of the biggest smugglers in Nigeria.

How come everyone knows this guy's story and I don't? Wetin dey sup

Blessme4ever:
Lol.. This is t tell you that power belongs to the people… Not PDP ooo and the populace can break the unbreakable

Meanwhile, if you’re interested in going into agriculture like the Naija First Lady advised’

You can check this thread I created in the Agricultural section. Link below 👇👇

{ https://www.nairaland.com/8174438/how-made-millions-less-than }

I discussed How I made millions with less than 2 plots in the Tomato and pepper farming niche….
I’ll be teaching for Free aswell this Wednesday!!!!

If you can farm, say bye to poverty Tinubu might really not be your problem.. He might aswell be your nightmare from your own perspective…

Nice one bro

They are becoming increasingly popular as Shylock landlords keep driving rents upward. People will be forced to put up such structures to avoid harassment from landlords. like someone mentioned up there, this person is now a landlord. EOD

Sonnobax15:

Why is Rudeboy avoiding the message and decided to attack the messenger instead?

Tho we all know Joe isn't a good statesman but life isn't all about politics and let's call a spade a spade.....Na wa

What stops him from reaching out to them privately? We like in a social media era