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girlsupersonic: pls on the 500n form we are buying for reg can i print it online? Can you tell me how you went about your reg from the first step, mine is tomorrow

after d online req. U will need 3 screening form.,once u r tru @ m/purpose go 4 bio data @ akintunde ojo its behind d senate building close 2 d library. Buy a data capture form 4 10naira, Wen u get ur bio print out make ur sch fee payment. U can pay @ eco bank dey will help u activate ur payment den u go 2 unilag website 4 bio data, medical n id card.

Pls guyz, i've done my bio n paid my fees. Bank said after 24hrs i should go online 4 data capture. So am wondering what n what i can do within d free hrs apart 4rm facaulty, dept n medical reg. Thanks

Mishytee: Wat course r u going for?

bus admin

Good ev. Fwenz. Pls those who have completed dia reg kindly post ur num i've got some question to ask about d reg process. Thanks

Twistkihd: @ochubas bin tryin ur fone num buh nt goin tru buh hv snt u an email n a fb msg

me too

To God be the absolute glory. I've been admitted in for bus admin.

This is becoming worrysome

Nigeria - Sick


Iceland - cold

Give me d chance to marry anoda caribbean girl

Not trying to draw attention but sincerely i started when i was 4yrs and we're still 2geda.

Since there's an ugl celeb thread, let's have an attractive one. And I don't mean fake attractive, mean actually very attractive . Males and females, post pics. these aren't based on who you like, you can think they're a terrible singer/actor whatever. Just whether you find them attractive. They are all foreigner so dont be offended. Mine are..

Liv Tyler
http://s165.photobucket.com/albums/u73/cyarena/celebrities/liv-tyler/94130.jpg

Jensen Akles
http://jessefox1968.files./2009/06/jensenackles_95.jpg

Hilary Duff
http://richclark.files./2009/09/hilary-duff.jpg

Katie Cassidy
http://editorial.sidereel.com/Images/Posts/kcassidy.jpg

Jessica Alba
http://s165.photobucket.com/albums/u73/cyarena/celebrities/jessica-alba/87042.jpg


http://s165.photobucket.com/albums/u73/cyarena/celebrities/jessica-alba/87079.jpg


http://s165.photobucket.com/albums/u73/cyarena/celebrities/jessica-alba/87110.jpg


(something is wrong with my pics uploader)

So many more. Lol. I think these ones are all naturally pretty/handsome.

We all know the classic love story,or have at least heard of, Romeo and Juliet. The dark tale, written by none other than William Shakespeare, tells the story of two young lovers who, because of their feuding families, can’t have their relationship known. The story ends with the unification of the families (Montagues and Capulets) after Romeo and Juliet kill themselves. However, this traditional tale of love may be nothing more than a tragic tale of lust.


While most good relationships take years to build, Romeo and Juliet met two hours before they decided to get married. They had never met before and didn’t even know each other’s names before they exchanged passionate kisses at the Capulet’s party. Talk about rushing things! Second, Romeo and Juliet are supposed to be very young. Romeo is seventeen or eighteen while Juliet is only thirteen. Their feelings are hormone-driven. Romeo decided he was in love with Juliet, just from her looks, before they even spoke to each other. They are so young and haven’t met enough people to know who their “soul-mate” is. Many adults don’t even know exactly what they’re looking for in love. Why should they rush into things with one person when they have their adult lives ahead of them to decide whom they want to be with?


Finally, Romeo and Juliet are broken-hearted. Romeo was still in love with a girl named Rosaline the night he met Juliet. This young lady was going to become a nun and couldn’t possibly have a relationship with Romeo. However, Rosaline was the reason Romeo attended the party in the first place! Juliet was supposed to marry a man named Paris, but marriage was not what she wanted. When she met Romeo, he provided somewhat of an escape from that broken-heartedness for her as she did for him. Romeo was someone Juliet could choose and vice-versa, which made them seem more attractive to one another. Both Romeo and Juliet had broken hearts, which fueled their sudden changes in emotion. This is not what a healthy relationship should be based on.


The story of Romeo and Juliet is used by society to represent true love, but love is not the real name for what is felt between the two. The relationship between young Romeo and Juliet was rushed and immature. It was hormone-driven (those darn teenagers!) and fueled by their broken hearts. While the story is entertaining and classic, it is not an accurate representation of a healthy relationship, much less a good representation of love. This story is one of tragedy, conflict, and most of all, lust.

Your opinions are highly needed before some so called teens crashland in the name of love. Thank you.

U need to see a vet doc if u want answers

E be like say d juju content no complete

Kenistry: R u shittin me? Jst get me ha info......i will jst do dat for ya, if u dnt mind homie

i got mouth so dont worry man

Am in love with my bestfriend

I think I may be falling for my best female friend. We've been friends for over 15 years now and just recently I have started to like her more and more but I have no idea if she likes me more than a friend.


The whole story started back in 1995 when she was celebrating her 4th year b/day. Me and my aunt were both returning from a christmas service when she saw an old friend and they decided to have a little chat. Looking to my left, i saw that they were having a birthday party and so i decided to peep. Few minutes later, they organised a dancing competition and i opted in uninvited. Luckily for me i won and emerging as a winner i have d privilege to sit beside d celebrant, take pics with her and cut the cake 2geda. So that was how we met and my aunt had no choice than to sit like a guest. unknowingly, we were both attending the same primary sch, and since then we've been friends till now.


She's amazing. When we first started hanging out I had a bit of a crush on her but what i feel now is more than just a crush, am in love with her and i dont know what to do. She'll turn 21 this december and its gonna be a grand one but i dont wanna wait till then so that its not gonna be a sorry case. I want to tell her but I'm too afraid, any ideas on how I can tell her that I like her without freaking her out and changing our friendship forever? Pls Help!!! Cos am feeling like a busted bubble already

He's nuffin but a muggle in d muzik world

Clemzy16: The article became somewhat boring and hard to comprehend the moment you wrote FIRST MIRROR which one be mirror for relationship again? Abeg? Learn to write in simple english next time. Cus i didn't get a thing.

try reading with ur mind

Guyz u might wanna read this too if u haven't
www.nairaland.com/1050769/hidden-issues-marriage

emsquare: Interesting!

thanks

*FIFTH MIRROR reflects back to us Father/Mother. It is often said we marry our father or mother. We also often become them by acting out the same healthy and unhealthy patterns we learned as a child. Our fathers and mothers to us as children are Gods. It will often reflect the same relationship we have with others and the Father/Mother God principle.


*SIXTH MIRROR reflects back to us the Quest for Darkness or what is often referred to as the Dark Night of the Soul. This is when we meet our greatest challenges, our greatest fears and have been gathering the tools and understandings in life to confront them. God never gives one any more than they can handle and we have a choice in every experience to greet it as a powerful manifesting God/Goddessor a victim.


*SEVENTH MIRROR reflects back to us our self perception. Others will perceive and treat us according to how we perceive and treat ourselves. If we have a low self-esteem and do not acknowledge our wisdom and beauty, others will not acknowledge them. If we are angry, bitter and unloving to others, they in turn will often react in the same way towards us. If we change our perception of ourselves, we change the world. Maybe it is time to be kind, loving and compassionate to ourselves and others. Remember the saying,"The only reason anyone has power over you is you want something from them?" Maybe that something whether it be love, joy, or a personal God connection can all be found from within?

FIRST MIRROR reflects to us that which we are. It is something we ourselves are doing or where we ourselves have been in error or wounded.

*SECOND MIRROR reflects to us that which we judge. It is something we have an emotional charge with, something we have either been wounded by in the past and have not forgiven. It is good to discern; however if we judge and condemn with an emotional charge, we will attract exactly what we judge into our lives.

*THIRD MIRROR reflects back to us something we Lost, Gave Away, or had Taken Away. When we see something we love and desire in another, it is often something we have lost, given away or had stolen in our own lives. Every relationship is a relationship with self and often we try to reclaim what was lost, we gave away, or had taken away as a child. It could be joy, innocence, honesty and integrity, courage or love. All of which can be reclaimed within self.

*FOURTH MIRROR reflects back to us our most forgotten love. This could be a way of life, a lost or unfinished relationship. Often it is a past life where a wrong conclusion from past experience was created. These will recreate themselves over and over until the right conclusion is registered in the soul as wisdom.

Relationships are challenging, exciting, scary, fulfilling, disappointing, sometimes lacking and sometimes blissful. It doesn't really matter what the nature of the relationship is,....the bottom line is that we all need relationships as human beings. We think of relationships as a part of everyday life...but how often do you think of your relationships .... whether they be friendships, lovers, spousal, life-partnerships, siblings or parents... as potential for your spiritual growth and evolution? Well, they are! They are also mirrors of ourselves. We live in an Action Reaction World known as the Plane of Demonstration where Consciousness Creates Reality. We manifest and magnetize people and events into our lives according to our consciousness. The Seven mirrors is a way of understanding how this process works. We can use what seem to be negative experiences as stepping stones to healing and empowerment. "When life rolls boulders, build stairs."

The ending of a relationship is anenormous life change. It will taketime, patience, and practice in order for successful adjustment to take place. We often experience the belief that, if something feels foreign or wrong, then it must, in fact, be wrong. Due to the emotional involvement that characterizes romantic relationships, there will undoubtedly be times when life without this person feels wrong or “funny,” but this does not mean that it truly is, or that you are doing something wrong. Feelings such as these do not indicate that you cannot managethe separation. What they do mean, however, is that you are adjusting. Imagine swinging a baseball bat or golf club in the hand that is not your dominant one (the one you have been using your whole life). It would take practice to become used tothis process but, in time, you would grow to be more skillful atit. With practice, you will better able to adjust to life after your breakup.

Irrational Thought: “I can’t live without this person. I need them in my life!”
Rational Replacement Thought: “I can live without thisperson. There are definitely things I need in order to live, likeair, food, and water. I do not need this person to stay alive. Sure, I miss them, but my life willnot end if they are not in it, and I do not need them.”


Irrational Thought: “My life has no meaning without my partner.”
Rational Replacement Thought: “My relationship was merely one meaningful aspect of my life. There are many ways for my life to have meaning, and my relationship is not the only way to achieve that meaning. My work, my family, my friends, and ___________ all bring meaning to my life.”


Irrational Thought: “I am no longer me without my partner.”
Rational Replacement Thought: “I have always been myself. Nothing can change that I am me, just like I cannot change who others are. It is possible that I may have simply lost sightof some of my interests outside of my relationship, but these can be regained.”


Irrational Thought: “I can’t weather the ending of my relationship. I would rather die. There is nothing to live for anymore.”
Rational Replacement Thought: “It isn’t a matter of wanting to die. It is a matter of wanting my partner back. I can and will survive this. There are plenty of things to live for. For example, I have my friends, my family, my pet, my meaningful job, etc. I have merely experienced a sudden life change, and I have all of these other things to live for. I refuse to let one negative life experience cancel out all of the other good that I have in my life.”

Irrational Thought: “There must be something wrong with me if my partner left me.”
Rational Replacement Thought: “There is nothing wrong with me. My partner and Iending our relationship is not a reflection of my character or overall worth. This situation simply means that might not have seen eye-to-eye on things.There is someone else out therewho I will be compatible with.”


Irrational Thought: “I will walk the Earth alone for the rest of my life and I will never meet anyone else.”
Rational Replacement Thought: “There is no evidence to say that I will never find another partner. One failed relationship does not foreshadow future failed relationships. The only thing my ended relationship means is that we were not as compatible as we thought. There are plenty of other people out there who things might work out with. It is just a matter of finding them.”

Irrational Thought: “I can’t be alone.”
Rational Replacement Tho ught: “I can manage being alone, although it might be uncomfortable. The fact that I am single at this very moment indicates that I can be alone. I am doing it and nothing bad has happened, aside from being uncomfortable. Sure, I’d certainly like to not be alone right now, but I will live. After all, this is only temporary.”

As a society, we place great emphasis on finding “the one.” We pressure ourselves to find the perfect lifemate for ourselves. Often, this process can be nerve-racking in itself. However, what happens when a relationship ends?
Our thinking will dictate how we feel about, and ultimately cope with, a breakup, as well as any other occurrencesin our lives. Irrational thoughts and beliefs that cause us to feelhopeless or depressed about ourbreakup can be replaced with more rational ones. This will make the ending of a relationship feel much more bearable.

While talking about talent, some people suggest that those who are gifted, for example, in sport or music can obtain higher achievement. Others nevertheless, claim that throughan apprroprate education, any individual can gain specific abilities.


Both sides are supported by good reasons. Those who believe in talents have cogent reasons.

First, it makes easier for talented men to learn specific subjects. They learn much quicker than others, thus plenty of time can be saved. That is to say, they haveextra time to learn additional knowledges.

Furthermore, talent person can be more creative than conformed. Their creativity, as a result, bring their career to a higher level.

Finally, talented people are capable of breaking the laws, hence they will establish their own style and make contribution to the subject.

However, there are also some others who contend that training is more important to individual. To begin with, they assert that the loss of talent can be compensated by hardly training. It also narrows the gap between the low and high achievers.

In the second place, a great tutor can adject materials and methods of instruction, which in order to dig out one's potential.


Admittedly, both sides are reasonable. As for me, talent is much more important than training. Diligent practicing do make efforts in training athletes and musical experts, for instance.


However, those who once achieved higher goals or composed immortal masterpieces are always those people who have talent. "Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration." Perspiration may be acquired, but the inspiration is indispensable.

It is generally believed that some people are born with certain talents, for instance for sport or music, and others are not.
However, it is sometimes claimed that any child can be taught to become a good sports person or musician.

amyg: I v got work 2 do.can't we v a shorter version of d epistle?

the concluding part is all you need

In conclusion, The hidden themes of marriage are variations on acceptance. Unconditional acceptance is life's first gift, and our lifetime task is to recover and amplify, in the specifics of our relationships, the infinite variations on this theme.


Care is acceptance as we recapitulate the mother's tender loving gaze and gentle ministrations for each others' wellbeing.


Respect is acceptance as wehonor the particularity of our partners in ways that they feel their life "as is" is highly esteemed.


Interest is acceptance as we let our partners know thatthey draw our energy positively and vigorously.


Play is acceptance as partners' flowing, mindless, expressions connect with high pleasure with one another and all life.


Attention is acceptance as we feel heard and known by one another, and by this experience confirm our entitled place in life.


Power is the energy of acceptance fostered when one surrenders to being with one another, never dominating thus relieving fear, and gathering the synergy of true mutuality.