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Ub4sure:
Hello. I have been buying from AliExpress and all safely delivered on time. In case you need my help, you can call/WhatsApp on 08164369241. Welcome on board.

thank you for responding, will give you a call

Hi guys, please if you reside in Bauchi and you have successfully bought anything from aliexpress please can we link up, I have been trying to do so without any luck,thanks

Born2Breed:
Now you have let out the steam,hope you are now okay.

Since you don't need ADVICE and want to quit the marriage, what are you waiting for?

When you are done,please show us the divorce paper and goodluck in your single motherhood or next marriage.

Me,I will only warn you, cos you didn't say you don't want warning...The day you quit the marriage, your neighbour will waka in jejely and take over.

then let her, who no go no know.

Stevecyes:
Nice piece there.

quote author=kennygee post=79013719]Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one.

Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter.

Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem.

You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave.

All the best.

I hope you have a job or a business sha?

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Nice piece

thank you, I have a job. In the past I prayed for him but my patience ran out so I stopped. Still don't feel like. I am the only one that matters now

Thank you all for your kind words, I am putting myself together piece by piece and saving up gradually. Still at the house because of my baby. I will wait it out, but am planning my exit. I won't do anything that will land me in trouble because of my baby. Learning to be selfish too.

Hi nairalanders this post is going to be quite disorganized, as I am not such a good writer. Just need an avenue to let our some steam. No advise needed too. The only way forward for me is to quit my marriage.

The reason for this write up is to ease the pain of betrayal that comes from my husband cheating on me with a our neighbor,what really hurts is that after I investigated and found out her identity, I presented him with hard evidence ,instead of an apology he said he is an African man o and polygamy is allowed. He says I should better mind my business as the said girl is not disturbing me. He further stated that the girl is crazy o, so I should not even think of confronting her

Just this morning she had the nerve to come to my apartment with her room mate to clarify some house issues. The nerve of all of them. Really want to make them pay. Really want to make my husband suffer.
This guy body shames me at any chance he gets. (I have a four month old baby) he says am ugly and shapless, and my breast are flat

I want African men to know that women have feelings too, am expected to bottle up my pain and be a woman. When I react violently he calls me mad woman. He is still with her and I am still expected to mind my business.
I will though, but they will both get it.