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You should not be renting if you are spending such an amount monthly on food. 62 Likes 5 Shares |
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You mentioned you did a "skin endoscopy" test. Did you mean skin biopsy? What was the result of the test? Is it an infection? What kind - bacterial, fungal, or viral? Or is it simply an eczema (dermatitis)? You can't just be applying stuff on your skin without first understanding the cause. The best way to effectively treat an ailment is to first figure what is causing or exacerbating it. |
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You have not really written anything that answered my question. How would closing businesses in the South East affect the price of goods and services in other regions? Please explain it to me like I am primary school. I presume you are an advocate, based on your submissions. So, this is your opportunity to articulate the merits, in the large scheme of things, of sit-at-home - going on now for about three years - and destruction of lives and properties in the South East. aestake: |
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How does the self inflicted pain and chaos affect those that are not from or have anything to do with the South East? Please enlighten me. aestake: |
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Exchange rate is correct. OP posted an old news. painite02: |
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Somehow you've managed to put the blame for the woman's failure in business on the man. Is she a child? So when she started nagging the man about opening a business for her, what would you have expected the man to do? If the same man had asked the wife to try and learn the business first under the tutelage of an established business, the likes of you would still crucify the man for not supporting the wife. Kobojunkie: 2 Likes 1 Share |
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OP used 100k received from husband, plus her own savings, to start business six years ago. She has since borrowed 190k to add to the business. Yet the business is failing. Now she is hoping for another cash infusion to a failing business. If I am in your husband's shoes, I would not put another dime in it, as this business has become a value trap. It will be like throwing good money after bad. Figure out first what you are doing wrong in the business before asking for additional financial support. At this rate, even if you are given 1 million naira, it will soon be gone, with nothing to show for it. 3 Likes |
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She works full time, does not financially contribute to the running of the household, and yet you give her transport money for work? This does not make sense. 9 Likes |
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Probably for the Super Bowl 🏈 game. finallybusy: |
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If you must pay tithe, give it to a motherless babies home. |
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If you are driving an automatic vehicle, you can always switch to the manual mode. Drivers typically do this in snow driving where suddenly applying brakes is highly discouraged. The vehicle will eventually slow down as you keep downshifting the gears. Once in gear 1, you may then use the hand brake to stop the vehicle. |
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The illiteracy is nauseating. These people forget that a serious government can easily use a Trojan Horse to destroy them. Maybe the Nigerian government is deliberately allowing them free hand to destroy their own region, thus making it harder for the general population to accept anyone from the region to ever rule the country. If ever Biafra comes to fruition (which I highly doubt by using this terrorist format), the kind of civil war that will envelop the region will make 1967-1970 war look like child's play. |
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I wish you didn't include the monetary figures in your post, as it has caused individuals that have no idea about your home dynamics to focus on it rather than the gist of your post. I would not recommend you divorcing your spouse at this stage, as it is still premature. Sexual intimacy is very important in any relationship, especially in marriage, no doubt. After you've exhausted all forms of open communication and you still feel lacking, then you may consider a trial separation, without cheating. During this period, there's a good possibility that you may rekindle what you had prior to the kids coming. You said you still love her, so obviously there's still a great chance that you two will work out. I'm not sure if you do this currently, but date nights, some weekends away from home (from kids) do wonders to couples intimacy. God's blessings as you and your family navigate through this trying period. But how do you propose to stay alone, according to you, when you mentioned that you have a high sex drive? 35 Likes 2 Shares |
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Fear of failure. He doesn't want to free his mind and take a chance at life. Content with only his present. 1 Like |
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Is it that you cannot read between the lines? You expect him to take ownership of the prison break? I'm not sure where you reside, but I resided in Owerri for the past six to seven years. I have a house there. Prior to that, I visit there every year since 2007. Owerri used to be a very serene and peaceful town, prior to 2016. Few years ago, I brought my kids back to Imo, from the U.S, to get the Igbo experience. Unfortunately, I had to take them back last year. The reason has all to do with the state of security in the region. This security problem I am talking about is unique to the Igbo land, and it started when your "supreme leader" started beating the drum of violence to his followers. From 2019 till date, Igbo land has turned into something else, and it got worse after ESN raided the prison to release deadly criminals, who later joined their ranks. And what shocks and perplexes me the most is how docile and afraid the inhabitants of the region have become. IPOB started okay, as it was echoing the marginalization grumbles of Igbo people, but the violence and vituperations from its leader has made it lose relevance. I'll tell you what I have always told to some IPOB foot soldiers I have met. The only way to get what you are demanding for in a civil society is through politics and not through violence. Hitler tried it first and he failed. Violence only makes you look like a tout to the international community. IPOB had a great opportunity in 2017 to form a political party or stand behind someone that supports their ideology. Instead, your leader went off the rails. Unfortunately, that opportunity is almost gone, because they resorted to violence, and worst of all, against their own people. The people have seen a glimpse of the kind of society that's achievable in Nnamdi Kanu's Biafra, and I doubt they'll want that. horsepower102: 1 Like |
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https://www.nairaland.com/6492212/nnamdi-kanu-imo-prison-break#100504428 horsepower102: 1 Like |
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Which faction of IPOB made the prison run in Imo state and released all the inmates (1844)? horsepower102: |
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You forget that if not that Kanu and IPOB started this madness in the first place others will not have used the loophole to cause mayhem in Igbo land. Jostoman: 3 Likes |
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I'm not sure if you are deliberately missing the point. The 18 year old girl does not need consent to date. The main issue here is an 18 years old girl co-habiting with a 19/20 years old boy. This is a disaster waiting to happen. How are you not seeing that the cards are against this girl child in such union, especially in a dysfunctional society like Nigeria. Kobojunkie: |
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Please stop this sanctimonious bullshit. You and I know this is a completely wrong living situation, especially in Nigeria, irrespective of what year it is. Only in very rare occasions can something positive emanate from such lifestyle. Kobojunkie: |
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Wait, your mom was aware you were in cohabitation with an 18 year old girl that ran away from home, and she was okay with it? 1 Like |
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The kids can add Disulfiram, if available near you, to his drugs. This will make him get sick (not critical) each time he takes alcohol. |
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Were the South East governors, senators, and Reps. from Yoruba or Hausa/Fulani states? What have they done to improve the lot of their people? Unaevince: |
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Is it not mental sickness that someone will stay in a marriage filled with abuse and suffering just so that she'll get an opportunity to maltreat the spouse at old age or in sickness? I consider it a wasted life. If you are not happy in your marriage or relationship, just move on. You only have one life to live. 1 Like |
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What's this guy smoking? The tincture I buy from my NorCal dispensary has 98% THC content. 2 Likes |
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You are too emotional, and it's clouding your reasoning. Assumptions are not facts/proofs, and definitely not enough for police to arrest. richie240: |
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Last time I checked, adultery occurs when there's sexual intercourse between a married person and another individual. Since when is visitation considered adultery? complexstuffs: |
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As you have read it, why don't you quote where it says a married person shall not visit opposite gender. Maybe I'll learn something new from you. [quote author=complexstuffs post=123955412 Go and read about the penal code because ignorance is not an excuse before the law[/quote] |
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The woman disrespected the husband by meeting another man in a hotel room. Irrespective of the country this happens, it is ethically wrong for both of them to meet in the room rather than the lobby. However, the police have no right to interfere. These are two adults that have not committed any crime. This is simply a family matter between husband and wife. If the husband has to go to such lengths though, it means it may be time for him to move on. 1 Like |
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Thank you for seeing through this. You are always on point in your assertions. Unlike most that identify as female here, you always are able to say it like it is, irrespective of who will be affected. It is, rather, about the right thing. I appreciate you for that. You truly understand marriage. Imagine someone above saying that OP should go and apologize to the family? This person could not in the same breath rebuke the wife for discussing what transpired between her and husband with her family. She could not rebuke the wife about bringing the dad into their business without first consulting with the husband. A business the husband set up for her. bukatyne: 1 Like |
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Last time I checked, Nigeria has a free market system. The market determines the price. No one is forcing you to apply for the job, so it cannot be an enslavement. If people refuse to apply for the job, it may force the hand of the employer to increase the starting salary. yolada: 3 Likes |
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