Thanks all for all your responses

I have a similar situation,i posted here yesterday ,your comments will be appreciated ,Mine is not saying she wont cook,she clearly and proudly states that she cannot cook ,she does not know how to and not willing to learn ,is she crazy or am i insane


https://www.nairaland.com/2603942/edo-girlfriend-says-she-does

Thanks for your comments i appreciate ... some times you need to see issues like this from various perspectives ....

I chose to use an anonymous ID


I am a young man in my thirties, I met this attractive lady on a social media, we had long chats and eventually she agreed we talk on the phone. We eventually we agreed to meet in person at a public place of which we did and eventually at home. She turned out to be a lady I am interested in but very skeptical about her activities (u know what I mean,,,, her ways don’t seem pure) I am a returnee from Europe with a stable job that takes me around.


If I am correct she should be in her early thirties, but does not act it, she is so arrogant and full of herself, she assumes she is doing you a favour by even picking your calls, or even agreeing to go out with you. I have met several women but her level of aggression can’t be compared.

At some point she will restrict my calls barring me from calling her …. Not sure what she is up to


The saddest part of this is that she insists that she does not know how to cook and not willing to learn either, she will prefer to have a maid that will do all that .Initially I assumed it was a joke but she told me it’s the truth.I have ponder over this several times and can’t comprehend how a thirty something year old woman will insist that she can’t cook and not willing to learn how to cook


PLEASE DO NOT GET ME WRONG,I AM NOT ASKING HER TO COOK FOR ME,SHE IS SAYING EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE SHE CANNOT COOK AT ALL



*********We are both from EDO State but different parts***********



My good people before I fall inside this trap I have a few questions:


Do we have girls in this country that cannot even cook and also not willing to learn?

Do we have girls that are into customer service job that can afford to live in a flat at ikeja area ? (She does not mind coming to see me odd hours claiming her job is flexible)

Is it typical of Nigerian lady to be very rude even after you have mentioned marriage?

Do you think she is only after money and material things I have to offer?

Or is she just a heart breaker

Do you think I should pretend I agree and have my fun while it lasts because this is totally unacceptable


Your advice and opinion will be appreciated