Please no one should message me again offering a job. I don't need it. Thanks for the job offers in ibadan and one in Benin. Thanks guy's. I won't dignify those that think I'm lying with a response. I don't have to lie for sympathy, I don't know seun osewa to lie in nairaland. I purposely asked him to give me the screenshot after I deleted our chats. No one has to believe me. I owe no one an explanation. It's fine. If you think I'm lying it's ok. I know what happened and I'm finding peace and tonight I would find peace when I tell babe. It's fine.

I didn't have to post this but I would. Thanks for your abuses when I needed advice..I guess you can't get that from strangers. When wifey gets back from the shop I would tell her. Thanks and let's never take advantage of anyone needing help

Ritzybeauty:
This your story isn't straightforward.. The screenshot story is also not real because this said man will never send any screenshot because he would detect you wanna blackmail or report him... Again you replying every comments on doubt by others means you are lying... I really don't know what would make you do this but its clearly not worth it..

the reason I got this screenshot was for something like this. But I would maybe delete the thread and do what's on my mind. Take care and thanks

Sterope:
Neverwill

I don't think you have done anything wrong. A very cruel man tried to take advantage of you and he almost succeeded.

You considered cheating on your wife because you were desperate and hopeless. That animal knew that and he tried to use it against you. That is what cruel people do, they take advantage of other's frustrations, hopelessness and misery.

You don't need to share the whole detail with your wife. You need to forgive yourself, you were never at a fault. You are the victim and move on. I don't know if there are free mental health NGO you can seek help from in Nigeria, you should look for one.

thanks babe always told me everything and I would tell her to clear my conscience. I know my self, I Wish I have a stronger mind to let things go. But thanks I would be fine

mmadu5:


we done catch u fake ass nigga. this is 2021 not 2009 we can detect a fake story before even reading it . try again and be more creative .. the whatsapp chat screenshot furthermore proved how fake the story is.

hey I won't dignify you all with a respond. For the screenshot I deleted my chat with him immediately because I didn't wanted babe to have my phone and see our chats because she knows my pin code to unlock my phone as we don't hide anything from one another , so I asked him yesterday night to send me some screenshots of all our chat and he did innocently . But it's fine if you all think I'm lying. Did I asked anyone for a job, did I beg anyone for money, but I understand. We can't be trusted so we see everyone as scammers and liars. It's ok bro. Take care

ford101:
as a Young Nigerian tell me what situation have I not seen.am 33 an still single do u think am a fool.even if I marry next yr.it ll be just on child.till I see need that I take care of more people.so ur story is scripted.

ok

mmadu5:
please no body should believe this story i personally read this same story last year 2020 i knew it was fabricated though i dont know if the op was expecting someone to say send me your acct let me send you something or he was expecting sympathy or job i dont really get his motive . no one should send anything or give him anything too many fake members on nairaland . with different fake stories . sympathy scammers everywhere . ... 419 419 419

I won't dignify you with a response again Sir. I only came here needing advice because my friends would judge me if I tell them this. I don't need a job, I don't need money from anyone. But it's fine. Thank you and enjoy your day. May you never be in a difficult situation and please can you show me the thread from 2020 and I swear I would delete this immediately and apologise. Can you please show me the thread from last year

SavageMaster:
From your story, your wife is a good woman and has a good heart. Tell her everything as it happened. She needs to be there for you. I don't think she will judge you.

As for the kids, leave them to your wife. She will know how to communicate to them that something bad happened to Daddy.

That said, I think some good Samaritan here should assist Op get a good job with no strings attached.
I may not be in that position right now, and I'm not in Lagos

I wish you the best, man

thank you bro. I would tell her, I know she would feel Disappointed but I know she would understand and no I don't need a job from nairaland please. I would sought my self and family out. Thanks and God bless

decatalyst:


Op, you replied his text and said you wouldn't tell anyone.


Why? Why? Why?

Here you are telling the whole universe! You promised and failed. That's bad!

As for the story being true or a fake tale, may God not allow us get into desperation that will allow another human being exploit us.

As for the

I meant I won't tell anyone to maybe embarrass him all I just need is advice if I should tell wifey that's it

mmadu5:


oga i read this same story last year here on nairaland . use your time and do something better .stop spreading fake stories we are not fools here . this was posted sometime last time . and when i read it then i knew it was fake . . GO FVCK YOUR SELF .

my God why mean, why the insult sir. Can you show me the thread from last year and I would apologise to you. But it's fine. Thanks for the insult. Bye Sir

Kings999:
This is funny and this is sad at the same time...
Don't let them see you finish... Life na packaging... you no package yourself well, don't bring yourself too low when looking for a job...



No tell your wife, it's a sin to you and your God, ask God for forgiveness and move on...
You have any right to teach the man a lesson... But you are matured for this oga... Why you no punch him for mouth or beat the hell out of him....

I understand the kind of person you are, you are too quiet... Ahh this kind people no dey meet me... I will stab any gay man that reason me nonsense... I say make I warn some gay people for nairaland....

bros you know when you are under a lot of pressure na. Normally the act disgust me even tho I'm learned enough not to judge anyone. I just feel so dirty. Babe Knows something is off with me, I'm in the seating room here just so filled with guilt. We promised never to hide anything from each other, I have never cheated on her with a woman and this. I have brushed my teeth More than 20 times, have had a bath since Wednesday more than 10 times even twice this morning but I still feel dirty and guilty

mmadu5:
this is fake has been posted before . Oga OP . GET BUSY WITH YOUR FUVKING LIFE DONT WASTE OUR TIME WITH NONSENSE

Jesus Christ. Why are we Nigerians so mean. Please show me a thread like this and I would delete this immediately and apologise. What do I gain by making a fake post. Please be mindful of what you say ok

ford101:
I think nairaland is scripted just like WWE.cos I can't see any Nigerian who has a job to do that will start writing a long story.even if we do write, it will be to sale our product or service.the unemployed Nigerians will only use nairaland to pass time or begg for a job or for money.useless nairaland.

you think I would come online by 5am to write something for pity. Are you serious. You think I was awake from 1am crying in the bathroom to write a fake thread. For what reason, would nairaland pay me? I'm just confused and need advice on what to do. Did I beg for a job or money? Please never mock a situation you haven't felt. Good morning. If I see this Kind of comment again maybe I would just delete the thread

I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning