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2 be sincere me i cant oh.

If na u nko.

U av really tried lady, more greece.

Ur contribution & advice is highly neede pls, i am just so confused & dont know exactly wot 2 do. Dis story of mine is SOMEHOW 2 d hearin & i want u my ppl 2 tell me exactly wot i shd do.
I am a young lady of 27yrs of age, tall, black @ list physically ok, i av a frend dat is of d same age wt me, we av been frends since childhood, we did almost evrytin 2geda, we were very close 2 d xtend dat we do nt hide anytin 4rm each other, & we stays 2geda as friend since finish 4rm d university & now workin,.
Dis my frend as a boyfrend dat loved her wholehrtedly, bt cos my frend noticed dat dis guy really loved her, she is now takin d guy 4 granted, my frend is also avin an affairs outside, dis guy knew, but always believe she will change as time goes on.
On my own part, i realise dat d person i was datin is even married wt 2 kids, in which he was hiding 4rm me, bt i decided 2 quit, d day i knew he was a family man, so one faithful day, my frend's boyfrend came 2 our house at nite, where i stays wt my frend, & my frend was going out dat nite wt her other boyfrend, so she told her boyfrend dat she was going out, & dat if he likes he can stay ovenite meanwhile dat i shd take very good kia of him 4 her. D boyfrend was very annoid, he stood on d floor & startd crying watchin her so called woman going out at nite wt anoda man.
I decided 2 plead on behalf of my frend, but instead of dis guy 2 stop cryin, he cried d more, b/4 we cud realise it, it was 12.00am in d mid-nite, so d guy decided to sleep in our one room apartment
In d middle of d nite, i noticed d guy on top of me & b/4 i cud realise it, i found out dat tinss has gone out of hand, D GUY MADE LUV 2 ME DAT NITE.

Wen my frend returned d foolowin day, she ask after d guy & i told her dat d guy slept in our house, so my frend said ok. instead of my frend to go 2 d guy's house d followin day 2 beg him, she decided 2 stay believin d guy will still come back 2 her.
I was so ashamed of myself 2 d xtend dat i culdnt tell my frend wot happend btw me & her boyfrend dat nite.
A month after, i noticed i had missed my period, meanwhile my frend knows dat i was not havin anybody i was datin at dat period, so i decided 2 wait till d following month, so as to be sure of wot was happeinig.
After two (2) month of not seen my period, i decided to visit a nearby clinic where it was confirmed dat i was two (2) month pregnant, wen i got home dat day, my frend realise somtin was wrong wt me, she ask me, & i told her dat i was peregnant, but i culdnt open up, later i decided to go to my frends boyfrend house & i told him evrytin, 2 my greatest surprice, he threthend me not to touch his pregnancy, & dat if i shd, he will sue me to court
I later summoned courage & told my frend evrytin,but my fear now is dat, my frend insisted dat i shd abort d prgnancy, dat she is in luv wt her boyfrend & has decided to marry him now, i now realise since den d changes in my frend, she is now madly in luv wt d guy, but d guy is after me, i dont no wot to do cos i luv my frend, she as always been there tru thick & thin,, and dis guy said i must not abort his pregnancy,
I am confused, i dont know wot to do pls ppl tell me, wot shd i do?