New Angel:

your contribution & advice is highly neede pls, i am just so confused & dont know exactly wot 2 do. Dis story of mine is SOMEHOW 2 d hearin & i want u my ppl 2 tell me exactly wot i shd do.
I am a young lady of 27yrs of age, tall, black @ list physically ok, i av a frend dat is of d same age wt me, we av been frends since childhood, we did almost evrytin 2geda, we were very close 2 d xtend dat we do nt hide anytin 4rm each other, & we stays 2geda as friend since finish 4rm d university & now workin,.
Dis my frend as a boyfrend dat loved her wholehrtedly, bt cos my frend noticed dat dis guy really loved her, she is now takin d guy 4 granted, my frend is also avin an affairs outside, dis guy knew, but always believe she will change as time goes on.
On my own part, i realise dat d person i was datin is even married wt 2 kids, in which he was hiding 4rm me, bt i decided 2 quit, d day i knew he was a family man, so one faithful day, my frend's boyfrend came 2 our house at nite, where i stays wt my frend, & my frend was going out dat nite wt her other boyfrend, so she told her boyfrend dat she was going out, & dat if he likes he can stay ovenite meanwhile dat i shd take very good kia of him 4 her. D boyfrend was very annoid, he stood on d floor & startd crying watchin her so called woman going out at nite wt anoda man.
I decided 2 plead on behalf of my frend, but instead of dis guy 2 stop cryin, he cried d more, b/4 we cud realise it, it was 12.00am in d mid-nite, so d guy decided to sleep in our one room apartment
[size=18pt] In d middle of d nite, i noticed d guy on top of me & b/4 i cud realise it, i found out dat tinss has gone out of hand, D GUY MADE LUV 2 ME DAT NITE. [/size] Wen my frend returned d foolowin day, she ask after d guy & i told her dat d guy slept in our house, so my frend said ok. instead of my frend to go 2 d guy's house d followin day 2 beg him, she decided 2 stay believin d guy will still come back 2 her.
I was so ashamed of myself 2 d xtend dat i culdnt tell my frend wot happend btw me & her boyfrend dat nite.
A month after, i noticed i had missed my period, meanwhile my frend knows dat i was not havin anybody i was datin at dat period, so i decided 2 wait till d following month, so as to be sure of wot was happeinig.
I am confused, i dont know wot to do pls ppl tell me, wot shd i do?

joeyfire:

It is too late to turn back. You cant abort the baby. just marry the guy and life goes on. That is the best option you have. Abeg your friend should get lost

akinreals:

abort d gaddem baby and move on with your life, the guy cannot do anything, who dash money banana? except you really love dat guy and sure he is also ready to spend d rest of his life with you.

johnterry1:

[size=16pt]SEE THIS BABE O.U WAN bleep BUT U NO WAN CARRY BELLE.ARRRRRRH.WOMEN ARE EVIL[/size]

Orton1_0:


Gurl, get 'em cervix of yours widened and 'em womb linings scraped off !!!. Peace.

2buff:

^^AAH MY EYES!!

@poster sendlessly call them both to a meeting and divulge what needs to be divulged so everyone can understand what the next step is so everyone can move on with their lives.
though that did kinda sound like violation. . . unless it was allowed.

evilspirit:

that is exactly  what your mother should have done to you    killer

New Angel:

your contribution & advice is highly neede pls, i am just so confused & dont know exactly wot 2 do. Dis story of mine is SOMEHOW 2 d hearin & i want u my ppl 2 tell me exactly wot i shd do.
I am a young lady of 27yrs of age, tall, black @ list physically ok, i av a frend dat is of d same age wt me, we av been frends since childhood, we did almost evrytin 2geda, we were very close 2 d xtend dat we do nt hide anytin 4rm each other, & we stays 2geda as friend since finish 4rm d university & now workin,.
Dis my frend as a boyfrend dat loved her wholehrtedly, bt cos my frend noticed dat dis guy really loved her, she is now takin d guy 4 granted, my frend is also avin an affairs outside, dis guy knew, but always believe she will change as time goes on.
On my own part, i realise dat d person i was datin is even married wt 2 kids, in which he was hiding 4rm me, bt i decided 2 quit, d day i knew he was a family man, so one faithful day, my frend's boyfrend came 2 our house at nite, where i stays wt my frend, & my frend was going out dat nite wt her other boyfrend, so she told her boyfrend dat she was going out, & dat if he likes he can stay ovenite meanwhile dat i shd take very good kia of him 4 her. D boyfrend was very annoid, he stood on d floor & startd crying watchin her so called woman going out at nite wt anoda man.
I decided 2 plead on behalf of my frend, but instead of dis guy 2 stop cryin, he cried d more, b/4 we cud realise it, it was 12.00am in d mid-nite, so d guy decided to sleep in our one room apartment
In d middle of d nite, i noticed d guy on top of me & b/4 i cud realise it, i found out dat tinss has gone out of hand, D GUY MADE LUV 2 ME DAT NITE.

Wen my frend returned d foolowin day, she ask after d guy & i told her dat d guy slept in our house, so my frend said ok. instead of my frend to go 2 d guy's house d followin day 2 beg him, she decided 2 stay believin d guy will still come back 2 her.
I was so ashamed of myself 2 d xtend dat i culdnt tell my frend wot happend btw me & her boyfrend dat nite.
A month after, i noticed i had missed my period, meanwhile my frend knows dat i was not havin anybody i was datin at dat period, so i decided 2 wait till d following month, so as to be sure of wot was happeinig.
After two (2) month of not seen my period, i decided to visit a nearby clinic where it was confirmed dat i was two (2) month pregnant, wen i got home dat day, my frend realise somtin was wrong wt me, she ask me, & i told her dat i was peregnant, but i culdnt open up, later i decided to go to my frends boyfrend house & i told him evrytin, 2 my greatest surprice, he threthend me not to touch his pregnancy, & dat if i shd, he will sue me to court
I later summoned courage & told my frend evrytin,but my fear now is dat, my frend insisted dat i shd abort d prgnancy, dat she is in luv wt her boyfrend & has decided to marry him now, i now realise since den d changes in my frend, she is now madly in luv wt d guy, but d guy is after me, i dont no wot to do cos i luv my frend, she as always been there tru thick & thin,, and dis guy said i must not abort his pregnancy,
I am confused, i dont know wot to do pls ppl tell me, wot shd i do?