₦airaland Forum

We don't need to argue much.
It is evident that it is not an issue of avoiding pregnancy at all. I think the woman has recently learnt of some escapades the man is doing recently, and she is avoiding STDs!!!.
In this generation, most women know that the different family planning procedures usually effective. For her to accept it to be done on her body, which is the difficult aspect, I believe she doesn't trust the husband and she is avoiding STDs by all means.

Tufanja:
I doubt if you understood my points...if you would have understood you would never give this comment.

So it gives the husband enough justification to follow his selfish desires and sentence the woman to a chance of another pregnancy? She is only asking him to use a condom, not even to deprive of it at all, not even demanding of him a sterilisation. What a big deal! Man can use condom when they go and sleep around but not when it is for a good purpose? #totallybiased

Do you know that with every pregnancy a woman put her body and life at risk? I would welcome you to spend some serious period in the labour room, you would never open your mouth like this anymore. Period. This lady might have much more serious arguments why the risk to have another child would not be a good idea. Why the heck are you guys even thinking about dropping a stone in her direction without knowing all the inside outs in the first place?

Besides...some fundamental reasoning problems here:

- Intercourse is no a right but a privilege. Nobody else has any say about your body but you and cant claim any right on it. Never. If the man doesnt want to use a condom, okay perfect, the woman has as much right to refuse intercourse without condom. To be honest, this should not even become an issue. One should seriously wonder what the lovebasis of your relationship is when you cant even find loving solutions on such minor issues.
- A woman who is in fear can never give her body and mind fully and in a loving way to a man. How do you think it feels when you sleeping with your man out of duty and only thinking while he is doing his thing "I hope I don't get pregnant"? Do you have even the smallest clue about how the female brain works and how we can stress and think about so many other things on such a moment while you are only thinking about satisfying yourself? And then those men come her on NL with a big mouth complaining the intercourse with their wife is not good and that she is holding back and they even give themselves reasons to cheat? WTF# What is the fun of the intercourse when you cant be both fully engaged in it and make it an instrument to communicate your love instead of making an instrument showing the lack of love?
- Where is the man taking responsibility? Where is he showing care for the fertility that is inherent part of his woman's life? He is not giving her the comfort that she needs to flourish and flow with him when he is not part of the solution.
- Sex and love are again totally mixed up here

With all due respect maam, are you married?

Why are peoole so paralysed with ethnic bigotry.
If the Chancellor of UI is
Amirul Mumineen Sultan Muhammadu Sa'ad Abubakar IV
Sultan of Sokoto
And that of ABU is
Igwe Nnayelugo Alfred Nnaemeka Achebe, the Obi of Onitsha,
What specifically is wrong in Ooni of Ife as the Chancellor of UNN.
Our people sef.

Armaggedon:
Was that why he was kneeling before the dullard, saraki and tinubu? Just to be made ordinary chancellor? The chancellor that the dein of agbor got when he was younger than him.

The waste is known for producing touts as 'kings'. This facebook boy they call oni is one of them, including alake(that has leaking mouth) deji of akure that fights with his wife and the infamous oba akiolu.

Later they will come to challenge oba of benin

Catch your breath

Please house
Anything on recommendation for agric engineering and agric economics.
I am asking for friends

kadon007:
Well, it's a "waiting game" as far as UI PG School is concerned. Just wait patiently till you receive another mail from them. This last one will tell you that your admission letter has been signed and some detailed instructions will follow. These instructions will answer your questions (as to what to do after getting the signed letter).
In my case, my signed letter came the next day after the first email. Next, print out your acceptance form and Admission Letter. Print out your acceptance invoice, then go defray the payment. Hope that was helpful?

You were soo helpful. Thanks very much.

Please house
What exactly is to be done after recommendation notice but admission letter not yet signed.
It takes how long before it is signed, will I be notified by mail or I have to keep checking. And lastly, what do I do after I get the signed admission letter.

Justdulla:
why must every thrash be posted on nairaland, Is there anywhere the constitution which stated that swearing in must be carried out at a particular venue? Get facts before you come here to post nonsense u hate when Nigerians rely on hear say and not hear facts

That is why common sense comes in. Even if the constitution is not clear about a particular issue, we still don't have the right to behave like animals or anarchists.
Swearing in in the sitting room of the governor? You want to justify that because the constitution did not clearly stipulate a venue for the event?

UI pg school, na wa o

tataiwo09:
1. urp no dey do exam
2. they won't do dis year
3. if u don't know, dey ve shortlisted 21 people up to two weeks now
4. just tell d person to be prayerful not to dey mk mouth, lol, mr no shaking

Please I will like to know if they have sent recommendation mails to those people

Eddygourdo:
I awoke this morning to a loud noise of a the typical yoruba couple fight (very early in the morning with husband on towel and wife in scanty wrapper) .

That sounds discriminatory.

What if the paternity test shows the baby belongs to the man but the revelations have already wrecked the family?
One way or the other,some lives are gonna be shattered now and some hearts broken.

Ndeewonu:
After the elections, about 40% of NIGERIANS believed that GOODLUCK JONATHAN was a hero...
Three months after, over 50% agreed...
Six months after, over 60% agreed...
Surely, before one year, at least, 90% of Nigerians will agree
Shame of people who used deceit and lies to grab power. A BIG shame!!!

Brother, nobody is believing that.
One look at the present state of the economy he managed for 6 years should tell the whole story.

Onyocha:
this is when APC was apparently begging for Shiite votes. he needed votes, so you see the respectful handshake and the bending down posture. where was El Rufai when soldiers were attacking this cleric's house, beating him and firing four bullets into him this past Sunday and killing hundreds of his followers extra-judicially? if it was during Jonathan's days, El Rufai would have politicized the incident, milk it, and be 24/7 online to post inciting partisan comments. shame!

El Rufai has abandoned his Facebook page since the killings of the Shiites happened in his state. the government spokespersons have not said anything.

Hundreds?
You points are all valid, but it helps to state figures as exactly as possible.

menxer:
Na wa for some people...

So all the goat head una dey chop if it's prepared whole won't it look like this?

This is probably monkey head pepper soup, I would eat with relish.

Onijekuje
May God have mercy on ur belly
Amen

This is a proverbial statement o.
Na to decode the meaning and run as a fast as my legs can carry me

Lizabeth25:
Is this worthy of front Page? there are some educative post that are suppose to make FP, yet the Admin go dey do anyhow in selecting post for FP.


come 2016, Nairaland will start begging people to visit their page!

Bitterness

Guys and ladies, how true is this?

ebosie11:
Wonders they say shall never end. Under normal circumstances, men wear boxers shorts or full pants but the issue of wearing g-strings is totally weird and rare.An unidentified man was spotted wearing a g-string which was exposed as he was scratching his body publicly. People on social media have reacted negatively to this weird development. An official at a stadium was caught on camera wearing a g-string underwear meant for females.

You females love to chant the word "gender equality". Welcome to a gender-equal world.

Idrismusty97:
LOL. This case is complex. But logically considering the price of a goat, the goat can't possibly eat all the money in the Buyer's hand unless it is N5000 note. And even if is 5k note the buyer will notice immediately before the goat chew it no matter how distracted(Nna this is money we are talking about). So this scenario is purely fictional and unrealistic, It doesn't deserves any opinion.

Where is your sense of humour, it's obviously a story on a light mood.

kekakuz:
Parting with 17k to save a sea turtles is pure extravagant spending
You could use that money to us 2 bags of rice and take it to IDP camp and humanity will thank you
If you wana save something go save animal's flagged nearly extinct and note some weird turtle that can be found in their millions

You have no right to judge him. At least he has done something, even if it's an animal he saved, it showed a good heart.
The question you should ask urself is if u will save even an human being if u hold a free 17k at hand.

Believe me, u did an exceedingly good and great thing. God bless you.
The moral of the issue is not only in ur mind at conserving rare species, but in ur good mind and the extent u can go to inconvenient urself for the convenience of anoda, in this case an animal.
Kudos.

toluene23:
Please people here, I'm having. Serious problem now...I've done my Interview already...but it was later I realised my transcript not found anymore at UI coz I reapplied ds year hoped they will be able to retrieve it but eventually told I have to reapply for it and that was after I've done my interview...so I ve to reapply for it since 23rd last month and I was told they will send it nxt year january that there's nothg they can do abt it in my schl. That those that even applied september, october, november...say na next year dey re sending everything...and I heard this admission list coming out soon...sey ds thg never Bleep me up again like thiss please all comment an this abeg...I'm so perplexed on this now...I've begged them a lot this time to jst manage assist help me send it...dey said I'm not d only one.

Try to make adequate enquiries if ur school have options for e-transcript that could be sent via e-channels. UI has an email address where ur school can send ur transcript, it should be faster, but that's only if ur school can utilise such a channel.

Jaiyekay:
Please what do you think Food technology department did not show us out test score. And I/we haven't heard from then since. Anyone has an idea what admission criteria is going to be in this case? Pls share ur view. Cos it's leaving me worried

No need to be worried, u will likely hear from the pg school next and not the dept. Most likely if that's all the assessment they will conduct for you, the next is to compile admission list and send it to pg school who will contact you next.

Proper education starts from proper references and quality facts.
WE UNIVERSITY GRADUATES SHOULD DEMAND TO SEE A PROOF THAT NUC MADE THIS LIST.
Even though the 2 universities I attended had favourable ratings of 19 and 1, I am yet to obtain a proof that directly links this list to the NUC.
It baffles me only a few people have questioned the authenticity of a list before pouring comments. Proof is the first thing on an educated mind.
This could have been composed by anybody.

PhonePlanet:
Good day guys. There is something now that is very common among us here in Nigeria now, which is the fact that people carry a 7-Inch device or bigger about as a mobile phone. One example of such devices which seem to be most popular amongst users is the Tecno Droipad, and while this seem inappropriate, it also seems to be what most Average Nigerians have settled for.

I don't understand what reasons are responsible for this act and would love to if someone could explain to me, but yet I'm 100% convinced already that there is not explanation for such.

Its Just so so akward for people to call a 7-inch device "My Phone" or "phone" self, using it to make calls by placing the full 7-inch on their face, and collecting people number with it, or even using whatsapp with it especially in public places like a bus! cos 7-inch device is obviously a tablet!! And tablets where built to serve a different purpose from Phones.

I just felt like letting this out of my mind. Please if you are among them, save money and buy a phone! Even if na touch lite. And keep your tab at home. Or use it in private for other stuffs, not as a regular phone. Its not proper.

There are so many things that you consider normal, which a lot of people see as awkward. It's just the basis of life. As for me, nothing wrong in using a 7 inch tab as a primary phone, though it is not too ok to place it on the face while receiving calls.

It seems unbelievable that some people are almost itching for war and violence, a war that will happen in their homeland. I think people should remember their mothers, wives and children when beating their chests and clamouring for violence. You should reason first and act later, not the other way round.

[quote author=NwaNimo1 post=40606675]Rubbish Uni - I thought I would see Oxford or Cambridge!

Which institution of learning did you attend.

Mrbigman1:
Nonsense!!!

And Abuja had the right to withhold a Biafran leader and u dnt call for his release?

Secession is not in the country's constitution yet you seceded out bakasi to Cameron.

My friend shut ur hole and goan eat.

Seceded out bakassi?

lantessy:
Mechanical engineering test today.... The questions were tough, although copied from one website

Which website is that

rakumiii:
My brother ... or sister... anybody who tells you otherwise is not your friend.... How can you even compare getting Masters degree to going to hustle as a modern day slave in a country that you cannot even speak their language? You have a 1st degree in metallurgical and materials engineering and you want to go wash toilet in Europe? Why not wash toilet in Nigeria since you just want to make money and put your degree in the trash? Please do not make the mistake of a lifetime.... I know hundreds of folks in the US and Europe who are regretting that decision they made when they were young to run away from Nigeria and the same guys they left behind are now Bank managers, Engineering Managers or running very successful business all over the Nigeria.... They visit the US and spend dollars as if it is Naira......If you believe in yourself like you said, you shouldn't even giving it a 2nd thought. Go get your Masters and make sure this time you give it everything you got and become the best student in the class..... Door will open for you....

Please forget modern day slave work in Italy and focus on making yourself a better candidate for employment with your initial plan of getting a Masters....

God bless you.