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Princeboca12:
How often do you masturbate?

Fvck NO! I've never done that before

Urfavouritegirl:
Draw close to God.
Fight it spiritually

God first! A more sane approach. Perhaps, you could remember me in your prayers. I really need it.
Gracias señorita!

gregyboy:
Learn to beat that feelings and learn to relove that particular person everyday, if you dont now you will be messed up


And again before you go and meet a lady carefully montitor her get to see if you will get tired of her beauty easily, i believe there is a lady who her beauty you like would make you not get bored easily


If you dont beat it now, bro you will be fucking messed up

Exactly my fear. If I don't beat it now, wtf happens.
Anyways, Thanks man!

McSquishi:
Maybe you have some self-esteem issue where you don’t think you are good enough for anyone and so anyone who accepts your advances you can no longer respect or be attracted to because you wonder how they can be attracted to someone like you?

I don’t know, maybe consult with a therapist?

I don't think that's the issue. Buh I do seriously think I should consult one. Know any good one?
Thanks BTW

GodWrites:
It's time for introspection. Have you tried the same gender? Maybe you're gay, who knows....

What the fvck man. That is fucking disgusting, mere thoughts of it is making me puke.

oglalasioux:
This happens to most men so let it not bother you. What you need to know is that relationship or marriage is a tough thing for a man because we easily get bored with one woman. You just need to be matured and look for other nice things in your woman apart from sex and you'll have a great relationship.

Gracias señor

Ademola47:
You're probably not in a settled mode. No insult is meant whatsoever.

This could be caused by three things..
1. You didn't really like her in the first place. May be you asked her out to fulfill your fantasy of getting her (and may be lust).
2. She was far different from what you imagined of her in terms of characters and feminine features.
3. You have a very high strong ambition and you see relationship in general as the major potential setback. You passively have no 'plan' for any lady.

None taken sir. By your words, I think I've never been in a settled all my life. May God help me

Pierocash:
You aren't mature yet,wait until your hormones are fully developed before going into any relationship.

Relationship isn't for kids

Not matured yet, I'm 26 years old bruv
If not now, then when?
It's not like I love this, it just fucking happens. I'm in a quandary here and you think I'm not mature.

yomi007k:
You experience both pre-nut and post-nut clarity.



You realise that the p**sy aint worth the hustle,which is the utmost truth.



You are blessed.

That's not the point, the point is at a point in my life, I will get married. How do I maintain it?

I tend to lose total interest once a girl agreed to date me.
There was this babe that u really liked, I thought finally I've found the one. I had to suffer before I got her number, then suffered a lot of indignation before she eventually turn up. Suddenly again, after dating for a measly 5 days, It happened again. She just isn't it again, I lost interest in her without even having sex with her. And this was actually a girl I went through thick and thin before she agreed to be my GF. Now, it seems she's fallen hard buh I can't continue. I'm not feeling it. I told her and she berserk, called me different sort of names. She came to my house this evening to beg, asked what she did wrong and I can't even pinpoint to a reason why I ended it coz there isn't one.
Many girls have come and gone like that. They've called me names. Some I had sex with before ending it, some I don't.
Please house, what is wrong with me? Wtf is happening to me?

PS: I've only had one relationship that lasted a little, and that was during my service year. Eventually, I ended it for no reason. I just don't feel the vibe.
This is really messing me up, HELP!