₦airaland Forum

Soup beans and Eba was a normal delicacy.
Egusi soup without fish / meat was a good soup then.

To me,I think these are some of the things that will make you up as a man and man of wisdom for that matter in the nearest future.It will also help to know what to look out for when looking for a life partner.This will also help you to save for the future.
I will advice you that you should not let it have a negative impact on you,look at the brighter side of the
situation and move on. Where do you want to stay that will not have a heavy financial toll on you.
To make peace with your mother try to contribute little financial support.At times you may give her some money to add to the purchasing of food or payments of bills such as PHCN.You may also from time recharge her mobile phone.With these contributions next time her money get missed she would not accuse you.
Some parents don't think of the implications their actions have on their children.May the Almighty God help us all.

Is this not a way of promoting self interest,and putting the lives of our children at risk all in the name of profit.And moreover all the protocols he mentioned refers to private tertiary institutions.
The other school levels from secondary to nursery whether private or public should stay at home.If any move is made to open either the secondary/ nursery levels it means endangering the lives of Nigerian youths.

Rada Rada,obe oloka.Isssh!

May the Almighty God Locate and re -unite him with his parents.(Amen).

Your marriage is still young,do not introduce sex as the almighty instrument that can make your marriage last.
She is a first timer as a mother,and she got the motherhood status in a hard way.She is still trying to get her mind settled at what could have led to such experience. So,for you to put sex forward,she might start thinking that you are a self centred man.
You have to wipe off the idea of her having an extra marital affair.Your efforts in this her emotional trying time will determine if she's going to love you more or hate you.I bet you once she comes out of her present state loving you,you will enjoy your marriage with her.Because she would be willing to go extra mile at satisfying you sexually to the point of you saying it's enough.Have you discussed about any family planning method with your wife? If not please do.To build her confidence and trust in you.
She is still gripped with fear and so try more by alleviating the fear be gentle with her and try as much as possible not express yourself angrily to her and do not establish any form of absolutism in your marriage. Ask for the Grace of God to carry out this task.Do not entertain any form of negative advice against your marriage. If you love your wife and daughter you can make it .work