Romanoff:



Please, don't lie against the Bible, in the time of Mary and Joseph, Fornication and adultery was so frowned upon that the angel had to appear to Joseph to tell him not to put Mary away.

I no know where you read say them dey cohabit dey born children out of wedlock for Bible o.

Wait, why are you making it look like the virginity is the whole point and not a relationship with God?

I am not too young to understand the Bible. I made a decision when I was barely 15 to submit myself to God and by God's grace, I achieved that till I got married.

Being born into sin doesn't mean God doesn't expect us to get born again. Being born again means turning away from sinful ways, including fornication. I'll leave you with Hebrews 13:4

I rest my case.

No don't get me wrong, I only tried to explain certain things based on your response to my post. I made the post not to discredit any virgin but based on another post I mentioned where I see people thinking otherwise about sex on first date or sex before marriage. I am not saying its a good or bad thing but only trying to make people understand you should not judge others or feel things must be the way they imagine. Everyone can find happiness in their own way regardless of what circumstances.

So don't get me wrong, I'm not against you

Very sad what Nigeria has turned into. No one is safe anymore even for finding a job. Really painful and I pray she is found alife

Romanoff:


God intended for sex to be between a man and his wife.

Not a man and woman sampling randomly till they get married.

We are to be undefiled before we get married.

Don't twist the word of God abeg.

You seem to young to understand the Bible. God didn't intend sex to be for man and his wife but for a man and a woman who he made to be a man's helper. That was before it became marriage.
Joseph had a girlfriend named Mary and it was his choice to keep her a virgin till they got married but then she got pregnant. If you study the Bible well you will see that Mary was not the only virgin per say and there were other ladies who had boyfriends like Mary and was having sex already and even bearing children for their boyfriends before they married them. Mary was chosen for a purpose not because keeping her virginity was the main point but because of her personality and believe in God. The Bible makes you understand that the moment you are born, you are already born into sin so it is your responsibility to identify sin and flee from it but many of us fail to understand what sin really is especially when it comes to relationships and sex.

Romanoff:


A marriage whose foundation is built on God and not fornication will withstand any storm, virgin or not.

Shalom.

God will not come from heaven to help you build it. A marriage built with a good heart, trust and understanding matters alot.
The Bible says "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from God".
From this you already know God has given man the chance to find a wife for himself regardless of how he finds his wife. After finding that wife then man needs to seek the face of God to obtain favour from God because he has put it in his mind that this is the woman he found as a wife and wants to spend the rest of his life wife.

To be honest I think this Eboyi governor has really been doing well for his state. He is always in the news for developing that state that was almost like a village entirely before.

Good

Narnah:
Well said

Your quoted message is well stated.

blackboy:
Tales by moonlight. Believe this tall tale at your own risk. The curse, n witch that will play ping pong with someone ....

Meaning you haven't known much about life and relationship.

Romanoff:


That is not your business.

To the ladies out there who have lost their virginity to premarital sex, it is not enough reason to continue in fornication.


You can still ask God for mercy and stay away from it, the man God has for you will wait cause he Loves God and knows it's the right thing to do.

Shalom.

Some men can marry a virgin and that marriage will not still last dear. At the end if the marriage crash will she not still remarry as a non virgin and that marriage could probably last.

Romanoff:


The 20 dates can be at different times in your life. Movie dates, strolls, hikes, swimming, etc.

Whoever you go on a date with is probably someone you want to build something with so it will definitely take time to do that. Making love on a first date should only be with someone you have already placed in your heart you want to be with and build a good relationship with. Then if you try your best to build it and it doesn't work you can move on and that doesn't make you cheap or anything. It only shows you tried finding love in the wrong place. Love is built gradually whether with sex or not.

Franzinni:
E nor mean ... But there is difference between sex and making love.

If you have sex on the first date .. well nah you sabi.

But you can make love on the first date. And pray you don't go back home with shit you will be needing medications for.wink.

You are right. There is a big difference between sex and making love which is why I used the phrase "made love".
Having sex is not from the heart and it's just like having fun for whatever reason. Making love comes from the heart and it's more like you want to adore the person for who they are.

Romanoff:
Imagine if you go for 20 dates and have sex with all of them on the first date.

One guy will now ask you your body count, if you tell him the truth, he'll call you Olosho.

I don't subscribe to sex on the first date or premarital sex at all.

It is not a solid foundation for a relationship.

Why would you think of going for 20 dates in the first place. That means your eyes are with 20 different people probably to know who is real. I think you are only suppose to go on a date with someone you already want to give your attention and build something with. So giving 20 people such attention in the name of searching for which one will favour you is very wrong and not a good foundation.

Xscape1993:
It is very rare to find this happen.

Yes it might be rare but it happens and it's my personal testimony not a story I got from somewhere.

I decided to make this post because of a post I saw about sex on a first date making a lady look cheap. For me that's absolutely bullshit and obviously it all depends on the people. I don't believe in all those sex before marriage is a sin while you sin in other different ways. Whether you have sex before marriage or not, a relationship or marriage that will last will surely last and that which will crash will still crash because relationship or marriage is not built on sex but understanding and trust.

I met a lady on a Tuesday at her work place, we chatted and flowed well then exchanged numbers. The next day being Wednesday was her off day from work so we booked it for our first date. After hanging out that Wednesday she followed me home, spent the night and we made love. From that day whenever she closes from work she comes to mine place and pass the night then goes home very early to prepare and go to work. Then she later introduced me to her family and we started building a stronger relationship from there and as I type this post, we are married with two lovely kids and she has been the best wife, mother and friend in my life.

I can travel to anywhere and leave her at home knowing fully well that sex is not her problem and I will come back to my beautiful family intact. Life is all about people's choice and personality so you only just have to pray to have a good partner be it sex before marriage or not.

Thinking of sex on a first date only shows you have been sleeping around and obviously also shows the girl has also had sex before.

If you are a virgin and the said girl is also a virgin, would you think of sex on a first date?

I thought it was this same man that said God showed him Hope is coming to Imo through Hope Uzodima. He said he didn't know how but Hope was coming and his so called prophecy came true after the Supreme Court saga.

So my question is that if God showed him hope for Imo through Supreme Court saga, where the hope now and did his so called god not show him what will happen to his Supreme Court hope?

Now he is ranting because his prophecy has failed him.

The masses of stupid Nigerians are more than the elites. This social media in Nigeria is really a curse. Always thesame useless politicians they keep supporting that will end up doing nothing. Nigerian political system has to be restructured if not Nigeria is finished already. It has only just started

Shukushaka:
Where's Hope Uzodimma?

Go to Abuja and see he has relocated.

I pity the people still residing in Nigeria and calling themselves Nigerians.

Where are Ronaldo fans in Nigeria

This is a post for up growing kids. Every point made works in different ways in different relationships. Focus on building a good understanding with your partner and not all these misleading post

Nigeria is already too casted as a Name and Nation. There is hardly any respect for a Nigerian anywhere in the World.

What will this change?

Before nko, is it a country that is insecure and don't even have light they will invest their company.
I weep so much for Nigeria. When countries are moving forward Nigeria is just running backwards everyday.

Long overdue. Nigeria is a curse to Africa. Giant my foot

pepperdemzombie:

E pain am! Guilty conscience!
Can you ask yourself how many times they went out when she was with Davido?
Why is she dressing almost nude with her over bleached body to follow him about? Who is posting the pictures? Is she not the one telling people about their outings and posting pictures?
Chioma and her fan abused people emotionally. May your curse be upon you and all who insulted these people publicly because of Chioma. That's why she has no happiness in the relationship. Please help us to curse these posters.
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The only good thing Buhari has done so far was to identify lazy youths and he was correct about that. Go get a life for yourself and stop interpreting another person's life the way you want like if you know everything. From all you wrote here it only shows your low mentality.

MansoryMX:
Who they cause all these confusion sef!

It's Buhari and APC as usual

Only a fool will think Chioma is dating Davido's cousin. As a matter of fact, may people who wish others bad by posting things like this to tarnish their imagine never see happiness in their own relationship for the rest of their lives.

I still don't understand these Nigerian pastors. You have money to buy a private jet but you can not build your own social media platform. One pastors is building a church worth 160 billion but yet almost all his members don't have a home of their own. I can't blame these pastors much the followers are suppose to have the same brain as their pastors but they fail to use their brains