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Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by Romanoff(f): 9:24pm On Apr 30
NickNyce:


You seem to young to understand the Bible. God didn't intend sex to be for man and his wife but for a man and a woman who he made to be a man's helper. That was before it became marriage.
Joseph had a girlfriend named Mary and it was his choice to keep her a virgin till they got married but then she got pregnant. If you study the Bible well you will see that Mary was not the only virgin per say and there were other ladies who had boyfriends like Mary and was having sex already and even bearing children for their boyfriends before they married them. Mary was chosen for a purpose not because keeping her virginity was the main point but because of her personality and believe in God. The Bible makes you understand that the moment you are born, you are already born into sin so it is your responsibility to identify sin and flee from it but many of us fail to understand what sin really is especially when it comes to relationships and sex.


Please, don't lie against the Bible, in the time of Mary and Joseph, Fornication and adultery was so frowned upon that the angel had to appear to Joseph to tell him not to put Mary away.

I no know where you read say them dey cohabit dey born children out of wedlock for Bible o.

Wait, why are you making it look like the virginity is the whole point and not a relationship with God?

I am not too young to understand the Bible. I made a decision when I was barely 15 to submit myself to God and by God's grace, I achieved that till I got married.

Being born into sin doesn't mean God doesn't expect us to get born again. Being born again means turning away from sinful ways, including fornication. I'll leave you with Hebrews 13:4

I rest my case.
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by NickNyce: 9:32pm On Apr 30
Romanoff:



Please, don't lie against the Bible, in the time of Mary and Joseph, Fornication and adultery was so frowned upon that the angel had to appear to Joseph to tell him not to put Mary away.

I no know where you read say them dey cohabit dey born children out of wedlock for Bible o.

Wait, why are you making it look like the virginity is the whole point and not a relationship with God?

I am not too young to understand the Bible. I made a decision when I was barely 15 to submit myself to God and by God's grace, I achieved that till I got married.

Being born into sin doesn't mean God doesn't expect us to get born again. Being born again means turning away from sinful ways, including fornication. I'll leave you with Hebrews 13:4

I rest my case.

No don't get me wrong, I only tried to explain certain things based on your response to my post. I made the post not to discredit any virgin but based on another post I mentioned where I see people thinking otherwise about sex on first date or sex before marriage. I am not saying its a good or bad thing but only trying to make people understand you should not judge others or feel things must be the way they imagine. Everyone can find happiness in their own way regardless of what circumstances.

So don't get me wrong, I'm not against you
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by Romanoff(f): 9:35pm On Apr 30
NickNyce:


No don't get me wrong, I only tried to explain certain things based on your response to my post. I made the post not to discredit any virgin but based on another post I mentioned where I see people thinking otherwise about sex on first date or sex before marriage. I am not saying its a good or bad thing but only trying to make people understand you should not judge others or feel things must be the way they imagine. Everyone can find happiness in their own way regardless of what circumstances.

So don't get me wrong, I'm not against you

I am saying it strongly that it's a bad thing, coming from my Christian upbringing.

I am not speaking for everyone sha, just Christians.
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by NickNyce: 9:51pm On Apr 30
Romanoff:


I am saying it strongly that it's a bad thing, coming from my Christian upbringing.

I am not speaking for everyone sha, just Christians.

Sure I totally understand. I'm also from a strong Christian home and even my wife is. Our circumstance might have come in the wrong way as many people put it but it has been the best thing that happened to me and I'm a happy married man. I believe God has forgiven us for sex before marriage and all because I have found favours since I married her and I can't even imagine leaving her.

That our sex before marriage helped me somehow because I thought I was a bad guy looking for a fun moment but we grew beyond sex from her character and personality. Sometimes I go out with friends and they want the fun and clean mouth stuff but then, I can only imagine that with my wife. One funny thing is that even with two kids, sometimes I might be in the mood once she decide to sleep naked and she is not in the mood due to work stress, I just need to maintain and understand. Those times doesn't mean I need to go outside for fun when she is with me 24/7 building our home. This is also vise versa and I honestly adore her understanding as well especially when we can go for months without making love if am busy busy.
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by Romanoff(f): 9:53pm On Apr 30
NickNyce:


Sure I totally understand. I'm also from a strong Christian home and even my wife is. Our circumstance might have come in the wrong way as many people put it but it has been the best thing that happened to me and I'm a happy married man. I believe God has forgiven us for sex before marriage and all because I have found favours since I married her and I can't even imagine leaving her.

That our sex before marriage helped me somehow because I thought I was a bad guy looking for a fun moment but we grew beyond sex from her character and personality. Sometimes I go out with friends and they want the fun and clean mouth stuff but then, I can only imagine that with my wife. One funny thing is that even with two kids, sometimes I might be in the mood once she decide to sleep naked and she is not in the mood due to work stress, I just need to maintain and understand. Those times doesn't mean I need to go outside for fun when she is with me 24/7 building our home. This is also vise versa and I honestly adore her understanding as well especially when we can go for months without making love if am busy busy.

If you're forgiven for premarital sex, it's not wise to encourage others to continue on it.

Shall we continue to sin that grace may abound?

If you're enjoying God's favour cause you've been forgiven, it doesn't mean there aren't people paying for the shaky foundation of their marriages.

Let's try to edify each other in the things of God, not to lead others astray.

All the best brother.

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Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by NickNyce: 9:57pm On Apr 30
Romanoff:


If you're forgiven for premarital sex, it's not wise to encourage others to continue on it.

Shall we continue to sin that grace may abound?

If you're enjoying God's favour cause you've been forgiven, it doesn't mean there aren't people paying for the shaky foundation of their marriages.

Let's try to edify each other in the things of God, not to lead others astray.

All the best brother.

You sound like a potential pastor or pastors wife. I am not encouraging people about premarital sex. I just made it obvious to people making careless comments about it that it happens and not a criteria to condemn any lady or man for finding through love in that manner. My sister I am not against you in any way.

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Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by Telstar: 10:02pm On Apr 30
NickNyce:
I decided to make this post because of a post I saw about sex on a first date making a lady look cheap. For me that's absolutely bullshit and obviously it all depends on the people. I don't believe in all those sex before marriage is a sin while you sin in other different ways. Whether you have sex before marriage or not, a relationship or marriage that will last will surely last and that which will crash will still crash because relationship or marriage is not built on sex but understanding and trust.

I met a lady on a Tuesday at her work place, we chatted and flowed well then exchanged numbers. The next day being Wednesday was her off day from work so we booked it for our first date. After hanging out that Wednesday she followed me home, spent the night and we made love. From that day whenever she closes from work she comes to mine place and pass the night then goes home very early to prepare and go to work. Then she later introduced me to her family and we started building a stronger relationship from there and as I type this post, we are married with two lovely kids and she has been the best wife, mother and friend in my life.

I can travel to anywhere and leave her at home knowing fully well that sex is not her problem and I will come back to my beautiful family intact. Life is all about people's choice and personality so you only just have to pray to have a good partner be it sex before marriage or not.
That's right. Sex on a first date is never wrong provided that there's chemistry between you and the girl.
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by Romanoff(f): 10:02pm On Apr 30
NickNyce:


You sound like a potential pastor or pastors wife. I am not encouraging people about premarital sex. I just made it obvious to people making careless comments about it that it happens and not a criteria to condemn any lady or man for finding through love in that manner. My sister I am not against you in any way.

Any Christian is a potential pastor or pastor's wife. 1peter 2:9

No Christian should choose to find love through fornication, once you do that, you deviate from God's plan for marriage and our lives as His Children. Unbelievers can be excused due to their ignorance but if you call yourself a Christian, fornication should even repulse you, you should flee from it.

Let's always say the truth so it can set us free.

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Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by poshestmina(f): 12:05am On May 01
NickNyce:


You seem to young to understand the Bible. God didn't intend sex to be for man and his wife but for a man and a woman who he made to be a man's helper. That was before it became marriage.
Joseph had a girlfriend named Mary and it was his choice to keep her a virgin till they got married but then she got pregnant. If you study the Bible well you will see that Mary was not the only virgin per say and there were other ladies who had boyfriends like Mary and was having sex already and even bearing children for their boyfriends before they married them. Mary was chosen for a purpose not because keeping her virginity was the main point but because of her personality and believe in God. The Bible makes you understand that the moment you are born, you are already born into sin so it is your responsibility to identify sin and flee from it but many of us fail to understand what sin really is especially when it comes to relationships and sex.


This is totally wrong Sir.
Please don't twist the Bible.

Cheers.
Re: Sex On A First Date Can Lead To True Love And Marriage. by gbowoade85142: 12:29am On May 01
:Well said Your quoted message is well stated.

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