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Am From Adamawa State
Born In Awka
Brought Up In Asaba, Delta State

Peter Obi Has My VOTE

Greetings
I Know The Subject Should Explain What This Topic Is All About Already
But To Add To It Please Try And Recommend From Your Very Own Experience And Not Just Recommend Because You Heard Someone Said Or You Read Online
Please Recommend From Your Own Very Experience, I Think This Will Educate And Help Alot Of Person's Not Only My Very Self
Thanks!!

Kriss216:
No reason is justified to accept a cheating partner.

Anyone preaching to you to accept back a cheating partner is demonic. Afford the person and the partner.

Thanks Man

MrBrownJay1:
the fact that a woman gave you a kidney etc STILL does not matter... if a woman doesnt value/respect you as a man that she goes on the be disrespectful,dishonest/deceitful/untrustworthy and unfaithful, then you need to get rid of her asap!

in life, r/ships are based on ALL THAT YOU DO...not just one thing that you do good dismissing all the negative things you do.

you evaluate a r/ship through everyday's action, not just one action of the past.

Okay!

rickpat:
now...see bro... there is something I call COMPENSATION RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE...it means being with someone because of what he or she did for you in the past.


compensation someone with a relationship or MARRIAGE is the worst thing to ever happen to you and that person..cus you both will never enjoy that relationship.

now,what of the person continues to cheat, disrespect or even abuse you knowing you will not leave cus you are indebted to him or her?

Finally bro..if you know you can't forgive the person for cheating on you...QUIT IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT HE OR SHE DID FOR YOU.

if you the person that cheated is not genuinely sorry and repentant...QUIT

IF THE PERSON LOVES AND RESPECTS YOU..HE OR SHE WON'T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF WHATEVER THEY HAVE DONE FOR YOU IN THE PAST... NOTHING CAN EQUATE TO SOMEONE'S EMOTION AND SANITY

Hmmm Okay
Really Makes Sense
Thanks!

Please Take Your Time And Read This Article Till The Very End Because It Might Be Of Interest To Your Very Self And Also Do Well By Dropping Your Candid Opinion If You Have Any

I Know Most Guys Or Many Percentage Of Guys Like Myself Who Have The Same Opinion Or Doctrine Like Myself That The Moment You Catch Your Partner Cheating On You, You Should Be Done And Dusted With The Relationship Immediately

I Have A Question Or I Need Matured Opinions On This!

Now For A Partner Either You Are Both Married Or Not, But For A Partner Who Somehow Is The Reason For You Still Been Alive , That Means Maybe Somehow In The Past She Contributed To You Still Been Alive, It Can Be Before You Guy's Started Dating, Maybe That Was Even The Reason You Fell In Love With Her And You Both Got That Far, It Can Be While You Guy's Were Still Dating, It Can Still Be In Marriage

Let's Say She Paid A Huge Sum For A Treatment That Saved Your Life Or She Donated A Kidney, Let's Say She Rescued You During The Event Of An Accident That Should Have Taken Your Life Or Saved You From An Arm Robbery Attack That Should Have Taken Your Life, Or Maybe An Assassination Attack That Should Have Taken Your Life E.T.C There Are Many Events And Situations Whereby One Can Save Your Life In One Way Or The Other, But This Are The Few I Can Get My Brains On Now.


So In Such A Scenario Whereby You Catch Such A Partner Cheating On You

What Will You Do?!

Will You Still Stand By Your Opinion And Doctrine By Ending The Relationship And Chasing Your Partner Away OR ?!



As You Send In Your Matured Response
May You Be Blessed!

gift0123:
What happened to female gender??

Wonderful Creatures

Kaymicheal852:
She will be somewhere right now, telling his friends that you're a mumu and you don't even have sex with her but gives her money every time she ask


And she may might actually be giving some if the money you're giving her to her broke ,thug ,jerk boyfriend that's fucking her well and taking her to cloud 9 ,it's just opportunistic love ,the only reason a woman can love you a little is if you're the one that poops her cherry and always bleeps her good

Give her less money from now,start monitoring her movement and her phone conversation,you will be disappointed

You're just a philanthropy to her

Thanks my nigga

fineberry:
Guy what gives you the confidence that she love you........bro na mumu dey love o.


When I entered my last relationship, she will always be like babe (me) you don't trust me, and I will be like "dear It not my fault, I don't trust anyone but I love you to the core.......and the r/ship continued in peace..... Bro it was still this same girl that gave me her phone one evening to look at funny WhatsApp video sent to her......so I decided to scrow up, to my greatest surprise.....I saw Nude picture she has been sending just few days ago to another guy.

See bro, becarefull the way you go about this dating thing......No talk so guys no warn you oooo.

Hmmmmm I see

fineberry:
Op ....Op.....Op how many times I call you?



I wish I can seat down with you one on one so I can gist you what this others gender is capable of doing.



* Op, what gives you the assurance that she love you?
* Have you taken time to ask people around her vicinity area about her?
* Has she gist you what led to breaking up with her former bf?

Op reason out all this pont listed above, you may think I'm just exaggerating hahaha......i know what am talking about bro.

Never Ever trust this other gender unless she's your mother. Op good luck o.

I seriously still have this doctrine bro
I don't trust the female Gender apart from my MUM
I work alot with this doctrine

But on the other hand we are talking about my girlfriend here

Beebah2000:
I am not the type that support any awful act done by some of my fellow gender.
If she's wrong, I'll say she's wrong.
Well, we should learn to tell one another the bitter truth.

Really
Ohh thanks Alot
You're blessed

jaxxy:
Act broke even tho Ure not to test the ropes. It will show u sides of her and how she handles storms in relationship.

Have transparency to a good extent. Does she let u check her fone??

Teach or have discussions self reliant to know if she’s just the lazy and dependent time or not.

Know her future plans and how she plans to achieve them independently.

Make sure Ure not the only one sacrificing in the relationship. What is she bringing to the table interns of value? No matter how small.

When ur acting broke and she’s feeling the heat ask her if she wants to end the relationship since it’s no longer convenient for her. Lol

Theses are nice games to play to spice up and keep ur relationship sane. It’s not when ure really broke u will find out she doesn’t send u that’s double sorrow. Lol

Obviously u also treat her right when she deserves it aswell.

Thanks brother man
I really appreciate

Beebah2000:
bro??
I am a girl.

Uhhh
I had to really go back and check your comment again

I Was surprised you came out very tough and sincere

jaxxy:
Does that mean anything? It’s all cruise. There are guys who follow more females here anyways.


Take ur time and make little adjustments so it doesn’t become a materialistic time of relationship. Practice some tough love and test the ropes.

Hmmmm I see you're really smart
Can you coach me

jaxxy:
Nope bt I have experience and I can dissect ur dilemma and give u my candid advice.

Sounds very interesting and I see you follow lots of females here too

DoggoneDogg:
Putin is the World's Most Powerful Man
Take it or leave it.

We already knew this for a long time now

shege45:
I won’t say u should not give her money, just act broke for a month or two. Tell her things are not going well. If possible ask her for subscription like thrice in that period. Learn how she behaves in that period. You just need to know who you want to marry

Thanks brother man

Adeife2:
If you truly love her,I don't think there is any problem in giving her

My own personal believe is that,in as much you can't spend on me while dating,it will not be easy for the guy to spend for his wife ,when they got married......

Is not that am depending on him,but it's from courtship you will learn how to give...,.....

Thanks so much
I really appreciate

Gee64:
In summary, money sustains love.

Just don't let her go hungry and cater for her essential needs only for now like I do to my young lover. I bet you, in these hard times, she really needs it, brother.

Thanks for the advice brother man

Firecross:
Judging from what you write down,you already showed her that your capable which brought up the billing.
Again the way your going about your relationship will only make her fall in love with your money and not you(same goes with how girls fall in love with sugar daddies)
You need to find a way to stop the billing, either tell her that you have for months(though she might starting awkard then) but this is the only way to avoid such.
Again I read where someone mentioned that girls who can bill who ever they love
A girl can't geniunely be in love with you and still ask for money like that, shows that she clearly loves the money for you so she can do anything to show you that she loves you,but if she sees someone else that spends on her more than you do(bye bye to the relationship)
Then again I want to point out to one guy that mentioned that a girl can genuinely be in love with you and still bill you with an example of a girl having a mental breakdown after the breakup...........okay I once met my ex in a hotel and her then boy friend who spoils her with money (like she worships him because of money) broke up with her..........she cried till day break and she tried calling the guy but the guy wouldn't pick up
She mentioned something to me sha,that she really loved the guy because of how he tales Care of her needs and she didn't have any body that spends on her like the guy always does.....so she clearly fell in love with him cause of the money meaning that if the money disappears the girl would too

I get your point brother man

remsonik:
I have never asked a man for money. I live on my own funds. When I get married, my husband will take care of the home.

wow, this really got me
Thumbs Up babe

treziMcCarthy:
Bro, you are a very brilliant guy man, if OP refuse to listen to this advice... He will regret it later, your words were spoken with matured experience and this is what I would have love to drop on the comment box, but you made it easy for me.
OP no de mumu, be a rugged cool guyman... Adn the world will be at your feet.

Thanks brother man
I really appreciate it

qekng40:
There's no affirmative answer here Op, she might love you genuinely or not. But if you are already having doubts, seriously I don't think I can help.

You actually responded like a female,even if I didn't see any Gender after your moniker , I definitely know your Gender

qekng40:
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Another One

gift0123:
I

All these female genders here

jaxxy:
What is love? How do u know she loves u and not trading her love in exchange for the money u give her??

The truth is any gal u bay her bills will act or pretend like she loves u or might confuse herself into thinking she loves u. Bt love is only confirmed and strengthed by storms and tests.


As it stands now there is no way to know if she loves u or not cos everything is convenient, it’s a relationship of convenience for her bt a relationship of love for u. U are the only one sacrificing in the relationship and the only one to get hurt by it if it goes south.

My advice to comfortable guys seeking “genuine” relationships is to know how to act broke and play the script for ur love one and see how they react over time.

For instance if u loves a rich gal and she suddenly told u she didn’t have money. How would u react if u loved her against if u only came for her money? This should guide ur thinking.

Bt hey if ure not seeking anything genuine bt a love of convenience also just enjoy urselves bt don’t deceive urself into thinking it’s real love or else u loose if anything goes wrong. Lol

Love that is Not TESTED or TRIED cannot be called genuine. It can be anything.

Are you a relationship counsellor?
Cus you really got me thinking!

Beebah2000:
hmmm
So, you're trying to say that all those drama she acted stated that she truly love him?

U also said the break up affected them both mentality, physically and in health.
Did your friend also try to commit suicide after the break up??
Na only the girl wan end her life na.
She was the world to him, then why couldn't he forgive her and accept her back??

Bros, everybody is different. If u break up with your babe, she might not behave the same way your friend's ex behaved.
You're only saying all this because your friend relationship story is a bit related to what you're going through now.

Woman way truly love you, go hustle for her OWN money and she won't demand shishi from you, except you choose to give her your money.

If u don't believe that, then continue giving her money without doubting her love for you.

I don talk my own finish.

I Concur bro

Happy Birthday Strong Man!

Herculex03:
Op take this advice
A girl is always looking for roles to give guys in her life, in your case it's either you invest sexually by knacking the pussy or you invest materially by giving money and she is trying to help you choose

Now this is deep and I think one of the best Comments I have received so far on this thread

Adsexpert:
See this guy oh... Bleep the girl jor , and after doing so give her money for one more time or 2.

Why did I say that , so she won't think after you bleeped her you started maltreating her or so she won't even know you are putting her to test..

After that start singing right in front of her and telling her that your job is doing somehow and your a little broke ..if she asks tell her you don't have right now, at least between a month to 3 month..

3 months is enough for people to start bringing out their real color , don't be a weakling for Jesus

Leave church matter to reasoning and logic matter oh.. and play your game right cus no be Jesus go come down do that one for you.. be wise..

Thanks brother man

Osibajo2023:
The truth is, u can't have a wife if you decide not to spend for these girls, especially Nigerian girls, if you love her, continue giving her what you can afford, until you marry her, then show ur true colour, if she can't cope, turn her to baby mama, my 2cents

Thanks bro
I also noticed this same thing about girls this days, but I didn't want to mention it , so that most people here wouldn't say I am taking excuse for my foolishness (as they would say)

But am happy someone boldly pointed this out

Exkandayee:
Op is a pro max simp,e go end in premium tears, imagine what my fellow man is yarning,Choi I pity you

Well I don't get your point bro