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kaziblake:
You are always on every intertribal marriage thread spilling lies..To you igbo people are perfect with no spot.

They ain't perfect but better
And mind u I'm not telling lies here.
Why would i

Hm

Olanna45:
Obviously you are mixing with the wrong ones.

My cousin married a lady from Ekiti.Nobody was in support of the marriage at first, but he insisted and we have no choice but to leave him to his decision.
This lady is among the best SIL one can ever have. Cool headed, homely and very respectful. Till the day she died nobody spoke ill of her. She is a full Ekiti born and bred.

But the one from my town, ahhh!!! she is trouble personified. she practically chased everybody away from her home. We don't visit her and she doesn't visit any of us. Anybody from her husband's family is a treated like a leper.

Will you still attribute such to tribe? Its a personality thing. No tribe has a monopoly of bad wives.

Hmmm that's quite rare.
Its a tribe thing I know what I'm telling
Their gals don't just blend with Igbo men in terms of marriage.
But they can actually mingle and have no problem in that Trust me.

How can a lady warn his husband not to speak his language in her presence that's very extreem. If it w.. Yoruba of all people dat like like blowing their language anywhere they are now don't want his man to speak his language.
And mind u this is not the first time I'm hearing this.
Even when a kid is eventually born they would want their kid to bear their own native name and grow with it ratter Dan they husby native name.

I know what I'm telling u.

JustCare:
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So I can remove it too.
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JustCare:
Lectures

Yes bro... Can we chat on watsapp

Olanna45:
Oga you are wrong oh. I have seen cases where the lady cursed both the father in law, husband's siblings and even there ancestors. Infront of the whole kindred

This whole thing boils down to personal character. it has nothing to do with tribe.

Abeg joor that's how most of their women behave I know Some1 who went through this.

They always dnt want hear u speak ur language.
Coz they assume u speaking about them.

bigcp:
i wonder what d guy is still doin with her...na until she go poison his food?...she's not a gf material nt 2 talk of being a wife material ...bross if u wnt 2 live a peaceful life u beta divorce her ass b4 she go kill u n tk over u property...i believe her mom must hv a hnd in all these...b if care isn't tkn she go begin use juju on u...na wetin most sabi do
be wise b4 it's 2late

Exactly my thiights though but I didn't wanna say it.
That childlessness might b from juju from here people. Since they didn't support the marriage so they wana it to scatter

DonCrust:
Hello

How far bro

bigcp:
this is the reason 4 courtship....i believe u dated her n u saw the red flags but u were covered n confused with love...this is d reason we shouldn't go into a r/ship with just our hrt bt our head 2...u don enter...wetin u go find 4 yoruba land wen there're plenty pretty n lovely igbo ladies...even most yoruba guys de run frm dia ladies because of these stuffs u listed...
well d did hs been done....
now u hv 2 be d man of the house...don't let ur wife bully u like a piece of shit....u r 2 soft for her...u need 2 man up...n start actin like d man of d house n not d house boy...if u continue like dis very soon she'll start sleeping outside with a real man...
u de really 4k up...I'm nt even sure u r an IGBO guy...I'm nt frm d East but i knw say igbo no de mk d kind of mistake u made....

1alex4u this is the best advice here.
Man up!! That's the word.
U madr mistake initially.. Now u have to be d man of the house dat u are.. Say ur word and let it stand and let ur word be final.
He is ur wife and should be under u.
They marry Igbo women and enjoy peaceful marriage but their women can't give igbo men same.
Don't let her dictate for u again
The worst part of it was when u said he told u not to speak Igbo n her presence again!

WHAT RUBBISH!!!!! .

maxibrainz:
Yes

Xup u Neva replied me

mysticgal:
Efik

Hmmm so u be igbo gal.
Better be careful of those serial Heartbreakers o.

mysticgal:
He's igbo, I am igbo.

Kkk and ur mum

mysticgal:
Lol.... Fear catch me. Besides, i am a product of an intertribal marriage and wish i could do same

Hmmm where z ur dad from

JustCare:
Howdy

I'm good bro.
I need that lectures pls.

mysticgal:
Madam 1alex4u..... It is in every igbo man's blood to go back to the village just to hear Nnoooo, so, i just don't understand why you would think your husband wants to do you bad, its all in your head . besides, did you mistakenly marry him, abi, you did not know he was igbo before you said i do. Infact, how do you even Expect someborry to forget his root because he married you, are you the mother of God or assistant mother of Jesus?.
Biko, please be tolerant and compromising.
As for the abusive nature, op didn't you see the trait in her before you married her?
And i think, the expectations of being married to an igbo man is the same as being married to a hausa, efik, yoruba man....... Just be a wife. abi there are expectations that concern the igbo tradition that is unknown? If yes, school your wife Yourself, that is why you are one.

Besides, your wife's side of this story is needed.

I understand how DAT dude feel.
Many months ago i wrote something exactly like this abt yoruba ladies and their behavior Exactly what d op said here...but they all came after.
Abusing me..
In fact that moniker was banned I had to deactivate it,
YORUBA PARENTS SHOULD DO SOMETIN ABT THIS ITS VERY BAD..

You can say not all of them are like DAT.. But most of them are.

Op I don't know where to start I dny know where to end but trust me most of them are like that.. Do to wat their parents tell them against Igbo wen they train them up. This is a fact

Im sorry abt ur situation but there's little or nothing u can do abt it. Unless God intervened.
I'm so so sorry. I feel ur pain.

kaziblake:
I hope it's isn't another story forged to get sympathy or likes..

It is not forged my dear I know a guy who experienced this..

This is the reason why my Igbo brothers run away from them.
This is the real truth I'm not hatin here

kaziblake:
So sweet
Children are blessings from God...Exactly what I would do..Husband take note

Hmm sounds sweet
How are u

DonCrust:
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Hi

JustCare:
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Hello bro

wizzakosh:
am enjoying ur story. Even though I know it a transparent fat lie. But continue, still enjoying it.

K

TrapQueen77:
Yes ofcurz babe... The weather forecast can see it and can tell where it gonna pass and how big it is and how strong it is..

Ok dearie.. Coz I know it could be dangerous.
Pls be careful..
Wana have some sleep now
See u tomorrow.

ExAngel007:
gr8 and u?

I'm doing great dear.
Happy Xmas . hope u enjoyed the holiday

rosieluv:
the mature guys wiv a camera? if so,then i remember seeing you n ur friend

Ayam angry

TrapQueen77:


Hahahahah.. We have no winter here but we have a typhoons every now and then in this season..

Wow really?..
That typhoons though..does it give sings wen it's abt to happen?

ExAngel007:
nope. i'm frm plateau state

Hmmm I for say an.
Coz DAT face can't be afonja face.
So how u doing dearie

Ghost21:
What's with placing there hands with exact style! For me the guy is showing how large his banana is! My question why is the girl doing the same style?

Lmao
Maybe d gal is showin how deep he can take d cassava

Hmm tekno is a cute guy its not bad idea though
They look good together

ExAngel007:
small sense u no get. If u r better u can upload urs

Wow are u afonja gal?.
Ur type is rare to see in ur region.
And dats d type I go for.
U are pretty