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kaziblake:
I really think a yoruba girl has played you badly

Lol play me?... baby I only go for d hit
I hit them hard... And they enjoy it.

I had one yesterday....

Alondra:
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Are those dildoes!

kaziblake:
Pure lies..3 in my I know have left their husband house cos of infidelity...

Its a lie my dear..
U yoruba gals hardly stay in marriage.
Kazi dearie I hope u be a good wife to my igbo brother.
U can make d difference from other gals.

Hope both of u are still good?

zarakay:
Am not from d North

See sweet cup cake.

I want to harvest u

Ok na it will dawn on Dem when dis guy will carry Dem from 2nd division go 4th divission

Where is muno
The guys under Paul okoye record label.
Dude can sing like wen cris brown was young.

This guy ug shaa... Jeeez

1Alex4u:
Thanks all for the comements...advices and all. Clearly i failed to take actions against the behaviours i had observed while we courted....or simply put...i thought it was something i could change while in the marriage...but i v realised i cant....and that's y i came here for help.

Advice to folks...never assume any behavior of ur partner during marriage. If u cannot change it before marriage...then better opt out.

2ndly, its usually not so generally advisable togo for intertribal....sincerely. It just gets complicated and makes the marriage not so enjoyable at all when differences start to arrive. Compliments to all those who are currently in a good or working intertribal marriages though...but its best to avoid them if one can....saves alot of headaches.

I didnt also mention i m catholic and she is core protestant. That has also brought its own big challenges as well
.

Ooh my God.. Dude how many mistakes will u make at a time.
What where u thinking... See what u have caused urself.
Better sit her down talk to her for the last time like a man.
Let her understand she's married to u ur culture ur religuon and everything abt u.. She should respect that or u take extreme measure.

Olanna45:
Obviously you only want to point out your griveances against inter tribal marriage.

If at all your story is true, your wife has a bad character which you choose to negelect at the onset. It has nothing to do with tribe.

I have seen several inter tribal marriages that lasted for years and still counting.

Tribalizing every issue as a nation will not help.
Dalu kwa.

U are getting something wrong here.
Yes intertribal marriages work
Buy wen its Yoruba woman and igbo man its always problem most times... It is a bitter truth.
Yoruba women fnt respect igbo men do to wat their parent tells them...

Of all the igboman/yorubawoman woman wedding I kno I can tell u less than 5% is smooth and successful..

Apart from op story.


Oc okeje wedding with yoruba woman is having issues.

Psquare family starts having issues after marring a yoruba woman.. The woman starts claiming psquare elder brother don't respect her.. Wat nonesence!

One of my distant uncle married yoruba woman now the man doesn't come back to d village again.

I know a friend who his brother mareid yoruba woman and its still d same story.

THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH BUT U GUYS WILL JUST LOGIN HERE TO FORM "ONYEOMA CY".. JUST TO GAIN LIKE.. RUBBISH!

chasers:
you might be right,can't say for Yoruba.

U have more secure marriage with igbo person.

chasers:
majority of Igbo girls f*ck around,married or not.

Then it means all Yoruba gals Bleep around.

Coz igbo is still better Dan Yoruba in fidelity

B

kilode100:
Which East? Sexual immorality knows no religion not boundary. This isn't about tribalism!


This Is So wrong !!

Stop talking rubbish igbos are not just like that.
Are u telling me one can't just be kind hearted without requestin for sex?..
Pls shut up..
Most Igbo's are not like dat

Afonjas have infested u with dat sex sex sex mentality..dnt say what u ain't sure of.
This is so wrong rather.

Rest in peace

Confirm Ibadan gal

Amelian:
You said what again?

Here comes d pretence again.
Are u not enjoying his lashin?.

I forgv all ur hateful comments though.
But ion wana call u A FAKE WOMAN for those comments coz u don't spit out something and eat it back.

Enjoy him my dear
I forgive u even though those moments were harsh.

kaboninc:

Lol na true na

sinaj:
Fear God

I fear Gor my dear that's why I'm appreciating the good work of God on u
Uuuuh lalaa!

Amelian:
Cucumber, lettuce, or shawarma

Wharever

You don try for today?

Or u need award join?

No award just enjoy ur cucumber and play ur card well and make it yr permanent cuccumber...
and next time don't pretend u hate what yu love so much.

Amelian:
Well believe it.. if you can?

One thing that is always constant in life is Change.


And being hateful of a certain tribes won't help me in any way.

Yes back then I said those things, I felt hatred towards igbos. I Wont deny it.
I didn't even want my unborn children, when given birth to, 2 have anything to do with igbos. I agree I mentioned. I won't deny it.
But today, few months down the line. I decide not to feel hatred anymore towards igbo guys. It's not a crime to stop feeling hateful.. Its something I decide to let go of and Be a better person.
Have decided to be a better person and let bygones be bygones. Its my choice between me and God.

And if u still find it hard to believe?
Hey! It's not my fault u feel the way you do. Keep hanging onto it.
But the lady u are seeing here is very happy.


Hi, Honey I know u are reading this *waves fingers *

He's a member nairaland..

Love you lots dear

Hmm obviously u are enjoying the cuccumber.
I hope its not lust though
Coz 3 months is just too short for one to change soon deep like that.
Its either u are datin igbo guy already before I made d comment or smthin

Anyways enjoy the cucumber.
Igbo man still remain s d best option for u

Amelian:
Well you can think whatever you like of me.
You can presume whatever u want of me
I careless. Cause of your assumptions of me does not make any difference in my life and in my relationships. And where am heading to in, the future.
Your conclusions are least important in my life.
What matters most to me are 6 things: My God, My job, My family, My Man, my Friends and my Fans.. Every other including You! is oblivious to me.
So be free my friend, to think whatever u like. It's a free world.

I'm not thinkin of "whatever I like'' as is u said.
I'm talking based on wat Said from ur very own mouth or should I say ur comment.

With the kind if comments u made that day
Its still shocking to me to realize u are following yet another igbo man dat u hate so much.

I still can't bliv it I swaer.

Amelian:
Yes I remember I said so..in one of my posts I won't deny it.

But at the end of the day, even though I had some painful pasts in relationship with guys from the east.

Strangely enough my heart fell in love with another guy from the eastern part of the country . Even though initially I fought against my feelings for this young man
The heart still says nope, amelian this is what I want and u can't deny me of him.
So far he's a good man, he's different, in his actions and we've talked about the future on several occasions unlike the ones I dated in my past.

Like my mentor once said, amelian don't allow the past to over shadow the future. Let the past remain in the past. And let God unravel the future for u. Some people are unhappy today cos they still live in the past and use it against any good meaning well wishers that try to come. Close.

If am to dwell on my past Nightmare007. I will go on bomb massacre and bomb every man on earth including you! that will be my mission unless death stops me. So no need going down that lane. Am happy with whom am with . The present and the future is that matters 2 us. Nothing else matters
Take it or leave it. Its my life and my choice

Hmm but that was just few months ago.
U generalized and condemned every Igbo man
Should I now say u live a fake life?.
Dat comment shows U have so much hate for Igbo men yet wen ahed to fall for one yet again maybe coz of lust.

Now another small mistake from him u would continue with ur generalisation.
I can't forget how u spoke with so much hate.
Dat day

U pple can hate igbos how u like...As far as concerned Igbo tribe is d best place any man or woman can marry from fcoz we care abt family with very very important.
We value marriage and we know how to take Carr of our parners.
U can call me BIASED for this statement. But
I ain't saying this cox I'm igbo.. But I'm saying this coz I hav stayed in in different tribes in this country and come to realize that igbo tribe is different afteral.

sinaj:
curable? Nope

Miracle? Yes

U have a nice body
Wana bleeep ya sinaj

Amelian:
I still don't understand what u are saying

Please be more specific which lie?

Where u the one who gave me my man?

Cause I still. Don't understand what u are driving at?

Please stop going round in circles. Be plain and say what's on your mind. Biko

Make una see me o.. Lol




They don come again.. Monitoring spirits that are so certain they know my life history and my love life join


Abeg talk wetin u feel u know ooo

Let's clear the air

Hahahha ..
But yea its not funny
I can remember vividly ur hateful comments here about Igbo pole few months ago.

U personally said u can never have anything to do with Igbo men again.
Talking about how u dated 3 igbo men and they said they can't marry u coz of tribe.
But I was shocked coz I know many Igbomen who married from south south bcoz south south is d another place Igbo men like marryn from aside their tribe.

U swore not to have anything to do with Igbo men Again and u called it mistake.
U even went as far as saying u will tell ur daughter not to marry Dem except mingling with them.. .

Yes I know u are suprised now how I still remeberd dat.... but my memory is dat retentive.. I hardly forget people I met in d past.

Why would u tell such lies amelian why.

Amelian:
Fooling who?

How ?? I don't get??

He comes from the eastern region. And so?

Hmm Amelian I'm so surprised at u on this comment to the extent that that I had to check twice to make sure it u..
Now the question is why would a pretty gal like u be telling lies .

Amelian:
You are absolutely right there.
My boo is from the east. Works and resides in the east.
Because I love him and want to be part of his life. Am making plans to move and reisde in the east as well. Cause I feel where the husband is that's where the wife should be. As long as the place is not a war torn zone area, then am. Good to go. And ready to accept and learn his values and family values.
In fact as so eager to even move and extend my business there.




So op the question is didn't u know whom you were marrying before u married her?
Where u blind folded? Cause honestly. Am. Not understanding

It boo from east ?
Hahahahah lady now who is foolin who?