Do ur pastor fiance a favor and break up with him, but keep the baby; do not have an abortion..However, don't expect a happy ending with the married man. Its sad but that guy said what he had to say to have u the way he wanted and you fell for it. Now, he may disappear to avoid trouble, or he will send u abroad to have the baby as he said he would, to get u out of sight. Either way, the man will do what he needs to do to save himself and his marriage. If he cared abt u, he would have asked u to be with him. The guy played you sha its not the end of the world. Be wise and more aware from now on, thats all..

I think everyone knows that this is wrong. However, many young women decide to jus go ahead and have an older man take care of them by convincing themselves that its not so bad since others have been doin it and its not stealing afterall. The act may not be stealing, but it IS prostitution, period; don't kid urself. If u sleep with a man for money, whether in a car outside or in a well furished bedroom, its still prostitution. A woman should want more than that for herself. Lets also not forget the fact that most of these sugar daddies have families...wives and kids...don't go and sleep with someone's husband and then cry if someone else does the same to u when u get married..
In addition to seeking other alternatives, turn to your faith. Quite easier said than done but God lives! May His favor be ever upon you.