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, Hilarious.

Why not just state your opinion in English so everyone else could understand? Just typical immature behavior. I welcome your view; I made this topic. But you speak in another language ASSuming people won't understand.

I'm not blaming you or the black race of women! I stated the women I have been with (three not one) and most of the women I know put me off a serious relationship with women - mainly, because they act like you. Enraged all the time for no reason. I'm not going to argue with you if you put up nothing worthy to comment on. You are not worthy.

For the record, I dumped them all

That member is basically calling me 'sick and useless' for presenting my thoughts,

This is the insecurity I am talking about with black
Women: you can't handle criticism, but you are happy with praise - even where it's undeserved, Pathetic.

Lol. What makes you say this?

Firstly, hi - I'm a new member!

Now please be understanding and acknowledge that I
Mean no disrespect, these are just my personal views against my own persona.

Firstly, no, my mind is not under 'colomentality'; I do not find non-African women any more or less attractive. I am a very free person in thought.

My first ever relationship was with a Naija girl, For someone like myself who is a very loyal, giving, and patient lover - it was a nightmare. I had another serious relationship with another Naija lady and a Gambian and the results were the same, All women displayed "diva-ness" and always wanted and relished the attention of other men, all were insanely insecure, materialistic and used me as their emotional punchbag with uncalled for bouts of aggression. But the first two points of wanting a diva lifestyle and being very insecure is just the perfect recipe for the perfect nightmare relationship - and traits I will ALWAYS avoid in women.

, But the thing is, here in London at least, this leads me to avoiding most African/black women in general, Because most I 'pre-court' have these easily identifiable traits even if they try to hide it and then I just lose complete interest, no matter how hot she was.

I guess being a minority group in the UK it's harder to isolate very individual Black women/men.

I've been in two relationships with a white English lady and a white New Zealand lady and things were very good! Generally better understanding of my needs in commitment, were aggressively loyal and will show great distain to any other guys 'trying it' and their insecurities were low and general happiness high. I and they felt bad because I didn't want 'anything serious' and they felt it was based because they were white, and they were kind of right; the initial estrangement of being in an interracial relationship was copeable and always getting more comfortable BUT I always felt that a Black woman would be my equal, and also am sexually turned on more by the black "booty"

But my dilemma is I don't think I have the patience anymore to deal with some black female 'characteristics', and neglecting these non black women who may hold the perfect spirits I seek on the basis of their racial background is getting tedious and feels like a low thing to do.

Before I get called a bounty or something of that sort, please understand what I have presented and let's discuss this with intelligence.