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Iamsynord:
Lol .See analysis Abeg ??

How we go do na?.. This kind puzzle sef

mytime24:
grandpa has spoken

She's now making me feel old... Take YourTime and don't digress before Op comes for my head..

mytime24:
srri for dat, u spoke well, let mi edit my previous post den

You here, you go just the fine carelessly all the time...

Anyways, I owe it to my unborn children to marry a pretty girl like you..

She's wants a child She's currently ovulating

Or perhaps pregnant... This is coming after noting the proximity of one if the meat piece (sorry sperm cell) to the ovum (Egg yolk)

By the way she get time to design meat like that o @op

SUGARBEE:
I admire your online personality..

*blushing* Thanks

SUGARBEE:
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armyofone:
I think it is because of the children involved.
Many people want to eat their cake and have it. It is just as good that women today are doing the same thing men have been doing in the past, thanks to sites like AM.

Agreed women are more discreet with affairs than men, but what happens to the children they're trying to protect when they are caught?

Like you said eating their cake and having it= Selfishness I talked about. They don't have the children's welfare at heart. Satisfying their personal want is what its all about.

cococandy:
I'm not shooting your other points but in your own real life, only men make money?
Abi this is another nairaland fallacy that has become fact?
Just pointing out this in bolded. Pls stop the misinformation.

The rest you can continue.

The answer is no @ emboldened

But my question is why stay in the relationship/marriage? You read the part where he suggested to one of the ladies they both leave their partners and be together but she started making excuses. Since it's a boring marriage, no flare, no romance, no fancy dates et al, why don't they just leave? At least they have their own money.

But no, they'll rather stay and enjoy the pecks of being married to the man while also cheating on him.

Funny thing is, the find out the man is cheating, these same women wouldn't hesitate to wreck him with alimony.

Like someone said earlier, it's just selfishness that make them cheat.

Pidggin:
Rich and comfortàble women cheat mainly for emotional or sexual reasons

Poorer women cheat màinly for financial or sexual reasons.

They're comfortable because their husbands are sweating it out there to make it possible. The least they can do is show some respect and appreciation by closing their legs.

If women want romance, fancy dinners, flowers sent to their offices, vacations every month etc, for the rest of their lives then they can afford not to get married by staying single in the dating zone where these things are not in short supply.

You can't be married and expect to be treated like a single lady still dating. Because the irony of it is that, women would still use the husband's inability to provide her financial and material needs to cheat on him @ second embolden.

What happens to meeting your spouse halfway?

dBard:
Women are Women first and wives and mothers second is a phrase every man should keep in mind, But...
In reading the article, I can't help but feel disgusted at the selfishness of the women in question. A married man's priority tends t change once a family starts. He most times tends t focus on making sure he has enough t meet d needs, thus leading to more career motivation, more diversification@work etc.
The question is if this is necessarily a bad thing? No.
If women werent too selfish, they would recognize that the passion they so crave is still there, same intensity,just that the 'color' has changed.
A man mite not buy flowers n chocolates anymore, but he still makes sure every need of the wife is taken care of, that in itself is Romance.
On d flip too, same can be said that the effort bin put in by d women in searching f dat slippery spark could have best bin put in t strengthening that connection they so crave
Relationship is dynamic and it's best wen both parties recognize that.
Finally, guys sha. Take time off often t re razzle ur wives t avoid stories that touch.
Peace

This has always been my thought on most cheating wives. They all accept the man is out there working his backside out to provide theirs and the children's needs (and wants) so they can be comfortable, hence they cannot leave the marriage. But at the same time they still want him treating them like they were in a courtship period buying flowers, fancy dinners, beach walks etc.

From the investigation, you'll even see that most of the ladies in question have been on the site for sometime and he wasn't their first. The question now is, why did they stop seeing the first or second person they met on the site?. It's either because they got used to him and got tired or decided to still look for another partner because they get away with it, while still enjoying the sweats of their husbands working by staying married. See the lady who even said her husband had no time for cheating. I keep saying it, cheating remains a choice people make.