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realnas:
The man who killed Thomas Sankara

His best friend.. And even denied the man a decent burial

I VOTE KINGinVAHALA cc NLJega

I VOTE KINGinVAHALA cc NLJega

The simple fact that this lady went cold during the last administration says a lot about her person. Obviously her previous activism prior to GEJ wasn't really about the Niger-Delta or resource control but about what she as an individual stood to benefit from the government of the day. She ain't any different from the likes of Tompolo, Clark, Asari et al. Now with Jonathan out, she has suddenly found her voice and also remembers the Niger-Delta have been abandoned or is being shortchanged for ages and there's an unimplemented National conference report that would do the magic of restructuring the nation.

She should have said all these under Jonathan (her brother) who would have listened to her. I suggest like Edwin Clark, she should take a seat somewhere and allow people with genuine interest for the region fight their course. Unfortunately we can't even find the likes of Isaac Boro and Wiwa again.

Ejemehn:
WARNING!!! Do not CHEAT on your wife.

The reason most marriages fail is because most of us stop working on our marriages immediately after getting married. We just assume things will take its course.

You made sense here. And I believe the "WE" refers to both husband and wive?

We stop "dating" our wives after marriage.

Crap. How about our wives stop "dating" us after marriage? Or preferably, "We stop dating each other after marriage"? I believe the marriage union involves two people? So why must one partner (in this case, the husband) continue to put in the "dating" effort?

When last did you help with the chores at home? I tell you, the reward for helping with chores is sex which she'll initiate. I can bet she'll not sleep off. Come home early from work and help with the chores at home. She has three kids to take care of. Its not easy on her.

Comments like this are becoming too trite on NL for goodness sake. Annoyingly so too. Chores, chores, chores all the time.... If I may ask, what are these chores y'all keep talking about? Are you by any chance referring to fixing of minor electrical, plumbing or carpentry issues? Is taking out the trash, grass cutting/clearing or weeding, gardening, mowing the lawn on your list of chores to be done? How about (minor) painting, attending to the cars, feeding the pets, driving out to fetch water in gallons for the household (in some situations), helping kids with their home work, laundry etc etc etc... Please tell me the chores you guys keep talking about because in all the homes I've come across, the man more often handles or assists in these aspect of home keeping.

Oh my, i forgot. The man doesn't cut vegetables, refuses to do the dishes while she cooks. Not to talk about refusing to put yam in the mortar while she pounds when cooking. Only when he does this, would wifey reward him with sex.

But i wonder how many wives out there give their hubby mind blowing sex in appreciation whenever he pays the rent, pays their children's fees, bills (hospital, water, electricity, TV subscription etc), sends money to her folks, etc. Again I forget, these are simply his responsibilities. What do I know.

And the kids? Yea, I know he (Husbands) acts like they aren't his (theirs). Yet we see kids who are more attached to their dads than moms right from childhood.

If e don reach stage wey i go wash plate before i sleep with my wife, make she carry her marriage go abeg. No time

Come to think of it. When last did you take her out? When last did you buy her that sexy lingerie? Have you ever taken the time to spice up your love and sex life? Don't say she's sleeping off or she's become lazy in bed......

Exactly what I'm saying bro. When last did she take him out? When last did she buy him that designer fragrance? Has she ever taken time to spice up their sex and love lives? Or try telling the hubby what she wants him to do in the bedroom?

Has it ever crossed your mind to think maybe you're the one sleeping off on her emotional needs and also become lazy to even think she has emotional needs?

You took the words out of my mouth. Does it even cross her mind that the Op (hubby) is stressed by work and the challenges of providing for a young family like theirs in these times? Hence she should stop sleeping on his emotional needs as his wife because she's supposed to be a sort of comforter to him. You know, he comes back home after a hard day at work. She runs him a bath, feeds him good, encourage him while he eats dinner and then later in the night screw him real good while telling him everything will be ok. I bet the Op (hubby) too after receiving such a treat would wanna please her too.

Look in the mirror. The person who needs to up his game is staring at you.........

Yea right. Op, sit your wife down and have a heart2heart discussion. Tell her you feel and the challenges you're facing. Also demand to know whats bottling her up and what she expects of you. Simply, talk WITH your wife

The Op is just deliberately being mischievous. Agreed the road deserves to be fixed, but this road is just within Kaduna metropolis and does not connect Kaduna to other states, rather it links with roads that do. It won't be out of place to refer to it as a by pass. And all major roads linking Kaduna to neighboring states are in pretty good conditions. I'm referring to:
1. Kaduna-Abuja dual carriage way
2. Kaduna-Zaria-Kano dual carriage way
3. Zaria-Katsina expressway and finaly
4. Kaduna-Kachia-Keffi (Nassarawa) express way (Plenty potholes at a point)