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i want my husband 2 love me as he love himself
i want him 2 cherish me mother any other woman on earth
i want him 2 be a loving father 2 my childern
i want 2 correct me whn i am wrong
i want 2 care 4 his family
above all i want him 2 protect us as Christ protects his children.

d tins i want 4rm him is much just 2 mention.

i had my traditional marriage Dec 2009, will be having my white wedding dis yr but d problem is dat, i am a catholic, my parents are catholic, and my husband parents are catholic but my husband is redeemed.

now d problem now d both parents said d church blessing (wedding) must 2 be in d catholic church but my husband said over his dead body, who do i support my husband or our parents.

pls help me out i am confessed.

i was almost crying,  thinking i was d only one born on 6th October ,  b/4 i saw Syber, Ilochudii and Kamseek.  oh,  2 all my birthday mate hv a wonderful celebration. pls feel free 2 call or mail me,  08036312790, 08078995018 0r addbest2005@yahoo.com.

pls if u ar in Abuja u can call so we hock up and make d birthday a better one.

I AM 6TH

@ mayjovial

pls tell dem i guess dey d'nt kn. messiah come 4rm d houes of d worst sinner. all our pray should be let it work out. Amen

him get, they they are on it.

Let us keep praying, by d special grace of God d strike will soon be over. With d help of Oshiomhole and Arewa Consultative Forum (ACF). Pls other reputable organization should pls join in dis fight, 4 d benefit of our children, brothers, sisters, friends…. etc and our country’s education system.

Let us keep praying, by d special grace of God d strike will soon be over. With d help of Oshiomhole and Arewa Consultative Forum (ACF). Pls other reputable organization should pls join in dis fight, 4 d benefit of our children, brothers, sisters, friends…. etc and our country’s education system.

@ poster

i am wondering were dis country is going 2, the president was busy commissioning a university in Saudi whn ours is lockup since three months ago, nobody is doing anytin abt it. bcs all their childern ar over there studying. pray, pray, pray, 4 Nigeria, i am afraid, d way dis country is going, military might be force 2 intervene.

@justwise

i never ask u 2 be soory 4 me. i posted it so dat we share ideals,Nairaland is a forum 4 sharing ideals and learning tins new tin, if u kn u hv notin  Y not over look d topic. people like u ar people dat make wost mistake dan ever. u ar phiscialy & mentally inbalance.

@ justwise

were u force 2 contribut, or is ur brother d frist guy. or ar u trying 2 tell me u hv never double dated or cheated on ur partner snice ur life. every dog eat born but is only d one caught in d act is a victim, u ar now claiming a saint, hw i wish i kn who someone who kns u better. i double dated YES, any normal human being in my shoe will do even more than wht i did. if his friends could be against him u ar u.

@ justwise
Y can't u be wise even 4 once in ur life.

@ Olanajim,  thks 4 your advice, i am very gr8ful, it shows d maturity in u. his friends told he dat if he try's anytin sutpid, dey will deal with him cos is all his fault. our wedding is coming up Dec.

@ stillwater,  thks, i hv listened.

Osaze Odemwingie or no one esle. he is very hard working, committed, and not selfish whn playing.

@ Olanajim, thank u very much 4 ur story, yes i kn i wrong my frist guy but i did with reason, but 4rm d frist day i meet d second guy, i let him kn dat i hv an affair, i tell him every tin inrespect 2 dis issue, he is awere of d treat, d question he asked me was dat ( did he @ any piont told me he want 2 marry me and wht was my respond ) and d ans was no.

he made other efforts by inviting some of the guys friends and let dem kn wat is going on, and dey ask him 2 go ahead if he was seroius hw would hv done dat b/4 his coming back. also let me answer ur dis question (Supposing the SAfrica guy has been deported or returned home worse off, will you still have left the parable guy?) infact whn he came back he had problem he came back with nothing. he explained wht happend 2 me.

my dear money is not everytin mostly whn it has 2 do with marriage, ur happness should be ur major concern.

Thanks all, 4 d advice and insult as well. but 4 u all dat feel like rendering insult i hv seen wht ur product looks like. if i double dated i did it with reasons, even his friends blame him 4 every tin bcs d truth is clear. In life, learn 2 give second choice 2 people so dat u hv evidence against whn tins like dis come. Even God does so y won't we do d same as Christians. My special thanks go 2 Nana 4 ur advice i will do just dat.

dis is d story of my life, pls i need u advice on wht 2 do.

14 Aug 2003, i came across a guy we started dating but d guy is not straight forward always talking in parables above all full of himself, i was bearing all believing tins will work out one day but no way, Mar 2005 i came across another guy so i was dating d 2 guys but dey don’t kn, dis one was down 2 earth 2 make me happy and above all very plain and straight forward, we were dating d love was growing everyday in fact if i don’t see him it looks as if i am incomplete. Jul 2006 he left 4 S/Africa, he promise 2 come back in 6 months time. b/4 he left, he told me dat we have gone a long way but he will not say anytin now, dat if he comes back and i am still single dan he will kn dat is d will of God, d relationship will move 2 d next level ( marriage) i accepted.

8 months after he left i did not hear anytin 4rm him, i decided 2 move on with my life stopped thinks abt him continued with d first guy still notin was still coming out he never mentioned marriage all through. 22 Sept 2008 d one dat traveled came back and proposed me i accepted. The frist guy hard abt it and said dat d marriage will never hold as far as he is alive. Since dan it has been problem here and there.

WHT DO I DO.