₦airaland Forum

This is really a complex issue. You and wife are not wrong. You did right thing for confessing and telling the truth. Your wife had the two choices to either forgive or walk away. She chose walking away because infidelity in marriage is a bitter offence and is not easily forgiven by some.

Hmm.... I read the voice of a good soul with a good heart.

In the name of Jesus I order all the answers you seek to find you right now!

And I decree and declare in the name of Jesus that the right one with the right motive and intention locate you for a permanent union!

Job 22:28

Yes, God is the real Boss and final discider.

Relax Dino! God doesn't always kill to show his power. wish your fellow human well and let God do the rest. Is that taken?

Arrest or no arrest of one or two, that doesn't change the fact that Nigeria's gallant soldiers nationwide de try. High five and hugs to all selfless nigerian soldiers nationwide.

Hmm.. So who are we to blame for this. The man, the new road or the cassava?

Kobojunkie:
Did you know that many of your so-called Igwes of old used to be the richest slave owners and traders in your communities? 😐😐

Never aware of that. I only honour the king and report community matters to them when I see them.

We will learn history when we get to history class but I'm currently on my way to the Igwe palace to report the stone bread matter. 🚶

DeOTR:
The reason for uniform in the armed forces is understandable. They carry arms and you don't want people on mufti carrying guns everywhere.
This is not acceptable by any metric. Identity cards are issued to students for a reason, and many schools have allowed dress codes for a reason too, so identity and indecent dressing can not be a sensible reason

Nice. But how about the doctors and nurses that are never seen with arms but are mostly on white all day at work?

Dr

Kemical23:
Strangers hardly hate or envy you unlike your close pals who is secretly competing with you, they don't want you to be above them and that is where the hate comes in, unlike strangers who don't have your time...

hmmm.. thanks. But I still haven't found the one that resonates with me. I think this has more to do with feelings. Like what will naturally make someone happier when they are around the people they love the most.

It's mysterious and I don't even have the answer to it.

Go ahead with your plans boss lady. Ballot boxes will not be located under billboards or if you really need the Billboard you will go for it. Everything of good value comes with a price tag.

Yes, a good shepherd is always ready to defend the sheep and stand by them in the time of struggle.

But we do hope you really mean it o Obi

The outgoing JAMB boss really did well in restoring some sanity to the exam body. Goodluck in your future endeavours.

Congratulations to the new boss. We hope you record giants strides like your predecessor as well.

hucknall:
It's actually quite common psychologically! With strangers or in unfamiliar environments, there are no preconceived notions, past expectations, or social baggage. You get a clean slate to be your authentic self without the weight of familiarity or judgment. Total peace of mind!

hmmm. thanks. But familiarity or misconceived judgement of other people never scare me. It has always been like a daily bread to me and I eat it with beans too.

Only when we think that knowledge is just to earn a living until we realise that it's a major licence to breadth and live among the living.

Great words Chief. If only we could turn back the hands of time to correct every mistake but every mistake is only a lesson not to repeat the similar mistake again.

Does anyone have an answer to this?
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‎I have searched for answers everywhere, but none of them seem to resonate.
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‎And I think I'm that kind of person.
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‎Anytime I enter an unfamiliar environment, the whole atmosphere changes, and it feels like I'm in a small heaven.
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‎I don't hate the people in my environment, but I feel more comfortable in unfamiliar environments.
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‎It's weird, though.
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‎Does anyone have an idea?
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Kobojunkie:
You can choose to continue eating stone bread and insect biscuits with your own money, or you can demand bread without stones and biscuits without insects in it... for your own money ooo. The choice is yours to make. 😐😐

I will choose court action the next time it happens as I said before. Go tell them. Everywhere go scatter.

The igwe must hear it too.

Kobojunkie:
If a customer believes he or she deserves biscuits with bugs in them, then the customer is right then too, abi? 😐😐

Ok! To all the makers of stone bread and insect biscuits, the next time I see stone in my bread and insect in my biscuit, we will meet in court!

Kobojunkie:
It is the new normal because Nigerians choose not to do anything to force the change they desire. There is an indication that Nigerians are a problem on their own. 😐😐

If you are paying your hard-earned money for something and it never occurred to you to demand that you get the very best for even the money you pay, then there is clearly a problem with your particular culture. 😐😐

Fyi: culture can easily be switched. Look at China. It switched its culture in less than 30 years; the same happened in Singapore. 😐😐

Oh the customers are to be blamed here? I thought they said that the customers are always right.

That's the new normal now. I once bought a “special” bread from a supermarket. As I ate it, I cracked a stone in it with my teeth.

A special bread in the super market but a special stone in my house.

Does Ethiopia play football? It seems I am just hearing that for the first time. Sweden go explain tire. No evidence.

The young man should let her go for his own safety and destiny and run for his dear life.

Yes, Obasanjo is a boss. There may be others but Obasanjo, Late Musa Yar Adua and Goodluck Jonathan are the three bosses I know!

Thank God there was a window for escape and he is safe.

Did both of you agree to marry each other if you sponsor her through school before you started?

If NO, move on. She was never meant for you.

If YES, move on too while the lady patiently wait for her karma. You cannot cheat life no matter how hard you try!

It is done.

Rapmoney:
Is Nigeria the only country where students are prone to indecent dressing? Why don't we have this in other countries all over the world?

Every man for his own house. Every man will treat his home according to the ways and manner of his children and character of his wife.

I believe it's for identity and to curb the menace of indecent dressing. Everyone puting on uniforms in the university will not be a bad idea. Our gallant soldiers and police men are elders and yet they put on uniforms on duty.

lawani:
Yes it can't be for everyone of course. Everyone can't leave their country and relocation can not better anyone's lot. The Yoruba say there is no city that brings success but heads that bring success

Nice, “heads that bring success” but the anointed one o with oil that never runs dry because God must be involved too.

Roseey0:
God ordained

You doubt am abi? Go ask Adam

No, but she can subtly let her intentions known to the one she loves.

NOTE: I said the one she loves and not the one that is rich or a celebrity.

Love is blind because it is seen clearly in the eyes.