Family › Re: A Confused Sister...please Help by noblekel: 2:07pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
Op! Here is my candid opinion! Not an expert though! A guy dat's truly hv feelings for his partner will happily share with u irrespective dat is little, but @ least he showed dat care; but in ur case he didn't or doesn't. Which might be one of d reasons ur mum is telling u they don't treat their woman well! Telling u about other gals or uploading a gal's pix on his dp after a misunderstanding, might show he is doing u a favor by being with, which might indicate maybe when he gets tired, he might call it quite rather than working it out to save d relationship! So with this point, u hv ur choice to me: to stay or leave!  |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by noblekel: 8:33am On Oct 21, 2016 |
 thread I must commend; I have a case I wish for a candid opinion; There is dis girl in my neighborhood dat have caught my attraction & admiration! One morning I had d opportunity to talk to her I just asked of her name told her mine (acquaintance), dat was all; but since then I haven't had d opportunity to meet with her one on one! My question now is when d opportunity present itself should I tell her straightforward of my likeness for her! It is proper considering d fact we haven't yet have dat close rapport! |
Literature › Re: Two Years To Thirty(short Story) by noblekel: 6:31pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Super interesting story! Kudos miss Angelsss! Please more  |
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Education › Re: 15 Pictures You Will Relate To If You Attended UNIPORT by noblekel: 7:48pm On Aug 09, 2016 |
 unique uniport! Mama Abuja d best Pharmacy for uniport nor be bean, fail a course in ur year 1! Career dead  Very true about d anthem, still don't know d wording after my full four years ; Chai! Ofrima stairs na good way to keep fit! Op Joivt nko Remember an experience back then went to night class to read for exam; Omon I find chair to sit down I nor see; e surprise dat day! But in all; i'm proud to have graduated from uniport #loveuniport! |
Family › Re: Relationship: Are You His Friend Or Girl-friend? by noblekel: 3:20pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Well on point!! |
Family › Re: Relationship: Are You His Friend Or Girl-friend? by noblekel: 3:19pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Well on point op; |
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Education › Re: Funny Courses Offered By Nigerian Universities by noblekel: 9:54pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
[quote author=faqman post=27626558]What of JUMPOLOGY....  Uniport pikin |
Literature › Re: The Most Wanted Maid by noblekel: 6:52pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Nice story! Op pls update; following  1 Like |
Romance › Re: Seven(7) Type Of Guys Women Can't Resist. by noblekel: 4:56pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
Interesting |
Celebrities › Re: Tinsel Star Gbenro Ajibade Proposes To Osas Ighodaro-Photo by noblekel: 5:29pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
 TINSEL truely is a success story;Believe!! |
Culture › Re: Nigeria: Are We Really That Bad and Beyond Repair? by noblekel: 7:06am On Aug 16, 2014 |
vikel2104: Much as I have a lot of things that I dislike about Nigeria, I do not agree with the common notion that it is the worst country on earth. Many persons would want to stone me at this point because there are obvious and glaring reasons why we should curse the country. Is it epileptic power supply (even the unborn child already knows how to say NEPA from the constant use of the word by his pregnant mother) or is it the high unemployment rate or the poverty amidst abundant resources or the rampant corruption? There are a plethora of reasons to hate being Nigerian. But the question is, are we really the worst nation on the planet as we are made to believe?
My intention is not to try to paint black white or to make us comfortable with our problems.
But for us to face our problems we have to define them correctly so that we don’t get consumed by the thought that our problems are out of this world and hence the only thing we can do is to run away from or live with them with the mentality of fatalism.
It is not all woes for Nigeria. Despite our challenges we have been able compete to a great extent with other nations. We have musicians who are well known beyond the shores of our land, we have vibrant businesses, and hardworking people. Time will not permit me to mention other things but for those who look out for the good about Nigeria, you will find many things for which to be proud of. I believe every country has her own challenges and I also believe that for every major success in life, there is always a time of crisis. A crisis that will test your resolve on the path you've chosen. Nigeria is passing through such times and it is indeed very unpleasant. But one step at a time, we shall get there. This is not just blind patriotism! It is believing in a prospect that is certain.
This is not the time to compare ourselves with others. It is time for us to build a country that we will all be proud of. We can look to other countries who are ahead of us and borrow a thing or two that will help us on our nation building journey. But let us not fall into the temptation of comparison for such breeds despair when we see how far we have to go to meet up. Let us rather build a nation that we can sell to the world and be proud of any time.
What will really make us the worst country on earth is not our present bad circumstances but our lack of will to stand up and make things right - to keep on fighting for a better tomorrow. A sick man who believes he is dead while still alive is bound to die very soon. Let us not condemn ourselves while there is still much hope and let us not close our eyes to hope when there is indeed one. If we work towards it, we will achieve it. It is not time to resign ourselves to fate. Let us not magnify our problems beyond proportion such that we dread tackling them.
We are known as resilient people. Rather than using our resilience as a pill for "suffering and smiling" let us use it to build this country to the height we desire. God Bless Nigeria.
©Vikel2104
Say your opinion on this. It all begins with us(individually);our mentality in this country faithless! |