₦airaland Forum

sokarsenal:
. Congratulations .......so you finally got akwa ibom.......we would meet in camp dear......you are coming from ph right?

sokarsenal:
. Ok dear......I hope you get it so u introduce yourself fully.....which school did you graduate from?

Raymondenyi:
y does ur face look so familiar? U attended uniport?

Kookny:
Just checked mine now. Akwa-Ibom ayaya!!!

pasqal09:
Nomabeeee , gloria3389, mondisweets, tahariX
As much as I hate to admits this, you guys were right and I was wrong. I don gree

YourCoffin:
Men will always be men. If you like teach them till thy kingdom come, it will come a time when he would dump all those stuff and start frequenting restaurants. House chores and cooking are really tiring for most men. When I mean tiring, I mean tiring.

For instance, my mum trained me quite well in that aspect. I can cook virtually everything. But right now I only boil noodles and I'm good to go. No time for all those pounding and turning of pots. Very few men retain their cooking skills as they grow because naturally they would prefer not to cook, especially ones that require time and extra care. They are just not that organized and focused as women and therefore cooking is really a hardwork for them.

If you have to force your boys to learn to cook, prepare to buy countless pots and make sure you have a fire extinguisher ready somewhere.

simpleseyi:
This is why you are still single and seriously searching.

RedBenson:
This is a typical Nigerian lady. Looking for a man who will go out there and work his azz up and bring the money back home for enjoyment.

Sapphire86:
What if na only bed the guy get no chairs nko?

gidjah:
HABA AUNTY!stop messin up d men(not d boys)!my dad is a great cook,he influenced my cooking skills alot.i am now a full blown fine man wit a familly,my sweety no fit do of any shakara wit cooking at all,when they r away, i do my thing.i hav not bin to a restaurant for about 15 years now!thats my principle,No eating outside,DO YOUR COOKING YOUR SELF!EVEN WHEN AM OFF TO WORK ,I COOK MY FOOD.my staff (married& d likes)would be like...mr MiKe na wa for you o!bla bla bla bla non sense non sense!.. but trust me now,its has become a culture and ritual wit me,and it has helped me in saving a great deal people

sauceny:
It seems itz only food you have to offer your future husband ¿

Babu wani Abin da wani ya ba zai ji....

deuce7:
It should be like this...
Me: baby I wana eat egwusi soup today o, am going to the market to buy the condiments
You: will you like me to cook it for you?
Me: I will be gald baby
You: let me know when your back so I will come over.
Me: thanks love

Op is anything wrong in the above?

Anyi3:
And you know I got you there.
Some things are just norms in a society, same way you go out with the guy and always expect him to foot the bills same way he expects you to cook anytime you come around.
My final two cents

deuce7:
@Op I have some friends who dont even allow any girl cook for them expect a relative. That your cooking for your 'love' should give you joy and he too can be able to do the same for you. If you feel too big to do some things for the one your dating then, your mind is not there a 100%. There should not be laid down rules regarding issues like cooking in a relationship.

pasqal09:
So u agree with submission and character? But, how can you show these when you won't even cook for him?

pasqal09:
No, but its an important criteria though. Beside haven't you guys had this saying "the way to a man heart is through his stomach".

Anyi3:
I initially thought the thread was about forcing a girl to cook.

If your bf asks nicely that you cook every time and you're in the mood to cook, what's wrong? Every relationship has its dynamics.
It's only a problem when he forces you to cook.

I don't like talking about girls and money but see this scenario - How many girls have complained that every time they go out, the boy spends his cash? What would he now spend when you marry then

As said earlier, if you wanna do it do it stop thinking about the when I become your wife story.

pasqal09:
Then how would she graduate to become a wife?

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

Zikdochi:
At least a female agreed wth me. hmmm simple and beautiful and flawless.u MST be rolling our heads.lolz

Liability:
guity conscience......please dont quote me.

Liability:
oh u demand sex too? Is alright.

Op, i dont demand sex at all.