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jpphilips:
you really have time, the OP is a product of a broken home, I can bet on that.
If her home isn't broken, ask her to ask her mother what roles she played before marrying her father, ie if the OP has one.

and I can bet on the fact that u re also a product of a broken home too.if ur home isn't broken,then go and ask ur mother to teach you how to pass ur message without insults that is if u even have one dt wil teach u that..all through my comments and posts on nairaland,I hv neva insulted people or their family members..please stay out of mine.I beg u.thanks

You are not wrong ma'm..left for me I won't tolerate that too...your hubby should be able to understand that he is a family man..there might not be something serious going on between your husband and that lady..but one thing that must be noted is a married woman or man should atleast curtail some certain relationships outside marriage.I advice you talk to your husband..let him know your fears..if he is indeed an understanding person..he will surely have a rethink

Good for her

mesoade:
If i don't pamper my girl,who will?

plss tell them o

Chimzy2:
den stop me if u see me first...but I will still search for u tomorrow..

wats ur tag no

Kennycyphers:
Hello Bianca please can you enlist the cost of accommodation in the urban areas and semi urban areas of Akwa Ibom... How is Ur service year going Me I get high expect ions for ppa o.... Don't lower my expectations abeg o..

which platoon do u belong to.?wats ur tag no?

Pulling through is the only option...never give up!!! RIP dr myles..my life at a point got a light of ur words,now and always it still would..

FxTizzle:
Nomabeeee, do u have plans of leaving the family

noo..

[quote author=FxTizzle post=27857596]So soon that's good, hope u will pay d 2,200 4 me.[/quote re u in ushering dpartment?meanwhile I will only pay the money if I decide to stay in nccf family house...

Nccf was fun today..awesome time in his presence..joined the ushering department..

Chimzy2:
den stop me if u see me first...but I will still search for u tomorrow..

dnt mind me jor..I dnt knw u o..

Chimzy2:
nomabee I will like to meet up with u..am in platoon 9..so holla if u agree for a meet!

lol I knw u ..1851 dts my code

hugobuzz:
what happened to all the fine ibo babes? why this.......awwww

my dear pls ask him oo..was there crushing on the guy(covers face) anyways d lady is pretty.

BruzMoney:
Them try! Na make dia divorce news no make FP in the nxt three months remain!!

they won't ever divorce.am so confident abt it..hml to u.

ChurchillStorm:
I hate calling people "stupiid" but seriously, you are stupiid. On a stupiidiity scale of 1 to 10, I'll score this post 8. Are people getting dumber by the day? nawao.
A guy that no doubt has sex with you is the same guy you think not cooking for will make you look classier in his eyes?(if you got any at all. Class, I mean)
Retarded logic there, girl. I mean, the nigga has torn your innermost of inners countless times. What's then the big deal in cooking for him? Girl, I hate to break it to you but you are the dumbest I've met this week.
you can't find yourself loitering about in his kitchen when you ain't his wife? I wonder what the hell you see yourself doing on his bed every Friday night.

do u really hv to throw insults in a bid to pass ur message or to air ur view.u r a promising young man and this act is uncalled for.its simply childish.am entitled to my opinion sir.learn to pass ur message well.as much as this is a social network but that dosnt gv me the right to throw insults at people.bc I love the word respect.am gonna look over it like u were not referring to me.I respect u sir.and I dnt like troubles.thanks

Am in platoon one.don't knw wia they stay here..any idea pls cos I need to collect my kit..

FxTizzle:
Welcome dear...hope u re done with registration

no buh I'v gotn accomodation

Finally am. In camp..reg follows.soo hungry..

[quote author=tpia6 post=27680682]op your priorities are upside down.


you are asking if lust is a sin, and at the same time you are fighting for boys to be domestically inclined so they help out with house chores.

do you consider sex the only thing there is to a relationship?

[/qplease I dnt lyk troubles.am not begging for ur comment.why re u bringing up something else here.nawahooo.what's ur business with the topics I post.mind ur business dear frnd.go away.

Heineken:
. Badoooo dem don collect d list. As if dem no dey use am again...na process thangs. Ebola test 1st

pls I need ur advice..I just collected my statement of result and callup letter today frm sch..and I will be coming to camp tomoro..but am rily scared..someone told me dt tomoro is the swearing in and if I dnt meet up with it ,I will be sent back..am rily confused now..how do I go abt it..am currently in aba..will be comin frm there..the issue is jst that I need to buy some few things I will be needing in camp I hate absu look wat they'v done to me.stupid non academic staffs.*sobs*

Heineken:
. Naso na...live in camp. This state sweet

will come on wednesday or thursday..

Heineken:
. Lady? Guy leave our girls abeg.

lol abi...leave our girls funny u

See my formal head pastor..ikechukwu uzoma..yes he pastored living word campus church absu even as a student..am soo proud of u sir..congrts to them..they were also given schlorships to do their masters at harvard university..

Beey:
It's ok.For me,I've never been the kind of girl who expects a lot from a boyfriend because am not his wife.I don't expect him to buy me clothes or pay for my hair because again girlfriends shouldn't be getting wife privileges.I consider dating as a time to go out & have fun & get to know one another.It's not a time to cook & do laundry or buy clothes & pay for hair.Trust me it gets to a time when you are expecting seriousness from dates & not jokers because you are getting too old for games.Such times you don't get into a relationship expecting it to break.You hope things will work out & hopefully lead to marriage.As for boyfriend giving money,let him give because he wants to nut not because it's an obligation.She's a girlfriend , not a wife.

soo nice sweeri..exactly wat I had in mind when I said I won't be cooking for him all the time..but they seem not to understand it..anyway evryone is entitled to his/her opinion..*exists*

Anyi3:
Wetin you come mean?

its partially related to lust..

tpia6:
Do you mean lust?

I dnt mean lust.

I have been having this argument with someone. Is sexual desire a sin? I don't really have something tangible to say about it. I really want to know what people think about this. I really hope I will get to have an answer to my question. So I plead with everyone to give matured and biblical comments. God bless you as you do. *Waiting*

pickabeau1:
Mature response

So what is your issue in cooking for your man

thank u dearie..my topic was actually"you should not always cook for the man u re dating(my reasons)"but when it made front page I saw anoda tin..don't knw if it was edited and all that..this is actually my first post that made fp..back to ur question..from my post,if u read it well u will understand that I dnt hv issues cooking for my man..I only believe it shouldn't be an everyday,every hour thing..cos we r simply dating and not married.. I also emphasized dt if I visit him like 5times,I should cook like once or twice out of doz times..why re this guys not seeing that particular line huh..it is quite differnt when a man and hs bae cooks together..I buy d idea buh the one of having myself bein entitled to ur kitchen all the time is a no no for me..love n relationship is a beautiful xperience but that doesn't mean you shouldn't know ur place in his life..meanwhile I posted this topic cos I knew its gona be a controversal thing and I needed to know other people's opinion too..I enjoyed the comments so far..

I think submission simply...means totall service and obedience,not thinking about what you will gain.its a selfless service.you don't know submission untill ur will is threatened...submission is very important in marriage..for both parties..a man and a woman should be submissive to each other..most people make it look like submission is just for the woman alone..no no..the man has a role to play too..

Hotbloodz:
I had over 20 chics b4 getting married. 1 of the things dt made me settle down was the following:
i. When my wife usually came to visit me in my pops house back then, i dey give am cloth to wash
ii. I actually give her money to cook exactly what I want to eat for me and she does it for me in my BQ in those days
iii. She stood out among all the hungry, forming bitches back then because she was my wife
My advise...
i. if you want to follow this goat that wrote this piece, by all means do so, when u r 40 u will wake up
ii. How can you play a role that you are not accustomed to? you wan be wife but you no wan behave as such...
iii. ...and this goes to all the 30+ & co ladies wey dey give men deadline for marriage, unfortunately, there are a million girls (mostly not lagos born tho) who will take care of ur man d way you never would (cos ur mama was too busy making money for d family to teach u how) that chic will take ur man and ur man will soooooo forget u exist(ed).
Good luck to all the humble, good and submissive girls out there, even if ur man leaves you, HE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU.

that u read my post here and commented its not a reason to address me that way..I threw up a topic and made my opinion so that others will share their opinion too..wats d connection with abusing me..read my post again..stop acting like a kid,..and dz is a public forum..I cnt impose my opinion on people..that's why there's a room for people to say what they think too..I dnt like troubles..I dnt like exchange of bad words with a man..I understand what respect is so am goin to pretend u were nt referring to me..thanks

orchmani:
mumu post by mumu person...that's why a guy go date u for 7 years and gets married to a girl he met for just 2months...prove urself a wife material then u'll become one..if u can't feed ur man then ur useless as a woman..so what role do u play as a gf in his life?ask for money and to pay ur bills abi?rubbish

my dear..u dnt have to use those words on me for just a comment..read my post vry well..I want to bliv u aint blind..I said u must not always cook ..u re quoting me wrong orchmani..