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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]So how Long do wee need to keep "Hustling" and "struggling" before we start finding love?

Some people's success may meet them when they are 40 years or even older. Is that when they should begin to talk about settling down to love someone and marry?

Does Love wait for someone?

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is there anything wrong with getting married at 40

not that I'm against young marriages though, just saying!

I think it's pretty simple. If one is struggling and wants a relationship simultaneously, then it MUST be with a companion with TRACE materialistic tendencies, else it would be best for the said hustler to stay single and focus.

See ppl hating on oshio baba

So tell me what is love

Is it love when two good looking ppl get together

So what then happens when she gets fat, or he gets a pot belly, or she has an accident, or he suffers the same

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Anywho, as for moi, I like to approach on foot

That way, if she says yes, I can surprise her when I come pick her up in that black beast

Look at all these broke nigggahs on this thread crying streams, rivers and oceans, effecting tidal waves

The guy is enjoying his money with a damsel, touring different cities (though I hope not with funds from corruption ) and you guys are here shouting beauty and the beast.

Btw, I love that movie, "tales as old as time"

Hehe, haters, yeah, yeah yeah, haters (and I made myself so easy to love)

They just brought bill to our house, about NGN150,000.

Freaking jokers, light wey I done see only 2 hours this week, jokers.

I rather use the money as part of our solar panel investment.

Jokers!

Jollyjoy:
if you dont understand then pretend like you never read it,,,,
i am just been myself because i knw you guys are no saint either...
Look at it from a different perspective, did you take into consideration the fact that i may have bear with one then he turn around and suddenly realize i an not the ideal one because he has suddenly make it?
I an not a victim of circumstances, just taking dat as a sinero..
Alot are happening that we have witness..
My view is that since am still very young i dont need a situation where at the end of the day i will be a big loser..
Instead of the affair been parasitic let it be neutral but in the absence of that i will take the exist dooor,gloria
just my view....

Well I guess everyone has their life to live

Your point about equality sounds okay though, so if you're rich then I guess you'll be more than justified going after someone rich as well. Not some broke bee-atch looking for a saviour.

Point taken.

So what's the difference between paying bride price to get a wife and paying money to a prostitute to get laid?

Answers anyone?

Okay you there raising your hands, go...

Jollyjoy:
lol! Why did you concentrate more on having a rich guy? What makes you think dating a rich dude guarantee an easy life? In as much as i am going to a school, paying my own bill, not subjected to hard labour and above all have the most expensive thing in this world,i think life is very easy. You knw why? Because i knw wat i want and how to get it so why should i make it complicated?

I don't even understand your post, are you saying you have the most expensive things in the world? Regardless of the clarification, how does that correlate with the discussion?

I brought up rich guys, cause you said you can never date a broke guy, or are you trying to take back that statement so soon?

Jollyjoy:
smile! The sooner you learn to grow up,the better for you. Did you think life can be easy without money? Wel, we are all entitle to our own opinion but one thing is certian. I cAN NEVER DATE A BROKE GUY!! Like seriously, why? Why am i even dating in the first place aside marriage? Guy, you better hustle or read your book if you are a student,..

So cut the crap with your hypocritical "life is easy" signature.

You are no different from all the other girls seeking "ready made" situations to jump into, not wanting to build with a man.

Come to think of it, now I understand why you say life is easy, cause you already have your mind set on picking up some rich dude and living the good life, mtcheeew!

Borrussia:
You seem so much like her.

Hmmm

What if the new Vicky is just another one of Missclasssy's clones Scary!

All crush emotions toward the new Vicky or Victoriabee are hereby CRUSHED until further notice

Taylor86:
I must report those hips to the appropriate quarters


vaseline crew get ready

See that guy preek

Btw, I think vaseline crew has been banned for life.

Jollyjoy:
Some guys wouldn't wakeup from their trance. How did you espect a girl to be with you knowing you are broke yet you insisted on having canal knowledge of her? It silly! Beside who want to engage in such parasitic affair? I better be single and concentrate more on my book. #teamneutralaffair#

I thought you said life is simple, but here you are complicating it with money, mtcheew!

That's why I'm not dating till I get my shhh together.

Being broke is just too scary

On the other hand though, if there is a girl that accepts me in this extreme budgetary time of my life, without going anywhere or asking for a cent, then she's a keeper.

Why would anyone believe them sef.

The same police riding around with rickety vehicles that can't even pull up information digitally from a drivers license, mtcheew.

All they know is point and shoot and round up by standers.

I may sound pessimistic, but inside I'm an optimist and a realist.

I'm optimistic that we'll get there one day with the police force, same with power and everything else. However, I'm realistic in the sense that thee guys can't investigate jack shhh

Same police that accused me of beating up a police woman that I've never seen before in my life

Thank God we were at shoprite here at the palms, I told them to do their worst.

They were already threatening to beat me up, but I told them to do so while facing the camera and that I'm never entering their vehicle.

All this because I parked my car inside the palms and trekked to the Mobil filling station next door and next thing you know, I'm an armed robber.

Abeg, I can't trust these guys, not yet.

VictoriaBee:
I'm not a gold-digger to start with...

That's awesome, that means we can build a fortune together slowly.

butanep:
Na soo ooo... javascript:void(0);

So you wan marry beauty queen tooo... so you like better thing like me...

Hope say you dae hustle n pray ooo....

no lie, I no dey pray for a while, but I go start again.

bros, na hustle and save mode I dey o. I no even de chop Mr. Biggs, Icecreme, Date or even drink CocaCola anymore. Na rice, beans and vegetable with multivitamin I de use sustain my self, make my money try grow.

Na so I go de save and hustle until miss Nigeria 2018 contest come out, by then am a real man

Good luck bros with miss Nigeria 2016, if say I get money b4 den, we for compete for am, but isokay.

Oh Vanessa!

nnaemy2013:
1987 beetle doesn't make you who or what you are. Does it? A flashy car will get you babes but its your personality that will keep them

hmmm... well I guess so, but it's hard to be perceived the way you want when you're broke

butanep:
When money talks, the most beautiful girl will bow down with humility...

When you get the money, you save yourself the stress of chasing women or finding greeen light. They will chase you and point the green light straight to your eyes...

Bleep those thread Of 10 ways to get a woman. 5 ways to make her love you or how to identify green light...

Hustle and make your money... the ladies will find you, do what will make you love them and even give you public green light...

Make I go continue my online business... na me go date miss nigeria 2016

bros, e be like say I go marry miss nigeria 2018 oooo

we fit dey host get-together if we find miss nigeria 2017 and her husband

OP, so you mean I can get a loyal girl with my 1987 Volkswagen beatle

Victoriabee, are you seeing this? We don't need money or sex to be happy

There was this one girl on here before, think her name was rainess, that was saying it's okay to have a forest down there, smh

Shave and be clean for your guy, especially if he likes it that way, but no, all the feminists have to object and say they want to keep cultivating their forest gardens, smh again

nifemi25:
Shoroniyen, thou if she worth the money and I have about 10 million in my account. Anything aside that is just for them to take there daughter while replace her with another girl.

Dude, that is such a bad, bad investment.

Check out the WIRE principle on the investment page about splitting your money and investing.

Having 10 million and blowing 1 mil at once is just not a smart thing to do.

I'd say if you've got 10 mil, then use 1% on any stupid bride price you want to pay.

As for me, I aint paying that shhh, they can cry me a river for all I care.

Last, last, I return the so called bride, since it's now a business transaction and I can't afford the commodity being traded, which is the woman, sigh!

What the fvck is bride price anyways?

Meeen! The chick I end up with better not give me any of that bullshh and her family neither.

Bride price ko, shebi I dey buy the girl

Nonsense! A'int paying shhht

So what's wrong in keeping fit? Even if the opposite sex is your said motivation?

Since when does a healthy body equate having low self esteem?

Also, I think the bible says that a man's body was made for his wife and a woman's for her husband, so yes, I'd want to keep extra fit for wifey so she adores my packs, biceps, quads...

I'd also want wifey keeping fit for me to help ease the temptation that comes from seeing fit girls everywhere, knowing that I have a wife at home who takes care of her self and figure.

Beware of mixed signals.

Just put your foot down bro and cut all communication if she can't give you a relationship.

Its different if all you want from her is friendship, but if you go in with the intent of having a relationship, then please don't hang around her as just a friend cause, more than likely, that friendship that is settled for won't last.

Very nice post.

Learn from my mistakes by not putting all your eggs in one basket and loosing the basket

Yep, wish I had you then, but I was young and aggressive and flamboyant, but the truth is, going broke is beyond terrible.

It just feels like a swift breeze at -10 degrees blowing your bare chest outside in the dark.

Had to start over and diversify, I actually don't spend on wants at all anymore, okay maybe once in a while, but rarely. The plan is to invest it all in low risk ventures like fixed deposits before I turn 40.

If I however decide to go into business again though, I will be following your disciplined WIRE approach, it's awesome.

For now, I live like a hermit and save 90% of anything that mistakenly comes my way, while single and not looking of course.

KidProgrammer:
it is simple bro.I will repay them back in 3 days as stated b4.I just need the money urgently.if not I would not have come here and start begging...I will pay dem the way they borrow me.....

Pay me back 3K and drop your phone

iPrevail:
I know some religionist is gonna come in here and tell you to pray, fast, see a pastor bla bla bla.. Not necessary!
You're gonna have to discipline yourself, by yourself!
Every time you pick up that cigar or you wrap that weed, you must look at it and remember it is your enemy, and it wants to destroy you.. Are you gonna let your enemy do away with you that easily? Will you be that coward?
And hey, you need to get yourself a good girl mate. You remember what they say about 'every successful man..'? You need an 'angel', and your angel will save you.
It's not going to be easy, not a bit.. But remember you need this.
Good luck mate!

Thanks for your contribution.

Truth be told, I'd like to get to the point where I can smoke weed every two weeks, like on a Saturday, after I've worked really hard the past 2weeks.

Problem is, it became a daily thing. I kinda feel it helps me write better software, like helps me get in a zone, but I know deep down that I can get in a zone without it, I'll just need to practice getting in a zone without smoking.

As for the girls, you know how it is dude, when you're young and dating. You always feel like there's a better girl around the corner, so you wanna date as many as possible till you find the best one, which might even be an illusion.

Thanks for the encouragement. I need to find a way to be encouraged everyday and take it a day at a time, facing the battle of today, without worrying about the battle of tomorrow.