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When i melt my husband he has no money,we got married though not a big wedding,he went to see my parents and told them he want to marry me, they ask him some question,then he told them tht he will come back with his people,but he didn't bcous he has no money to buy the things he is ask to buy.but i never left him for tht bcous i knew he got no money.but he is planing to travel out of the country with the little his brother gave to him,he promised tht when he get there he will send money to his brthers to come and see my people
so we travel together but getting to were we r going wasn't an easy ride,bcous the little money is not enough for both of us,so it took us some months to get to were we r going.one month later he ask pastor of the church tht we r going to join us together as husband and wife,which he did,few church memeber were there.a small wedding.he but a wedding ring for me.Now we have been together for 4year with 2 children,but still i just can still belive if is really,bcus i don't want a heartbreak,befor i melt him my boy friend of two and half years betray me
after all i did for him,but my husband promise me he will not do anything tht will hurt his children,and tht i will not see him with any girl,althoubh i haven't seen him with any,but i still not belive him,sometime i say something like u know i hav spend my 4 years with u not when we reach nig u will not want me again,he will say and what can u do about it,he will say do u ever think of how my people and ur people will feel if the hear tht i hav a girl friend,he told me tht women are not his problem,tht every man think of the way the get money not women,he get veryangry when i say anything about he leaving for other women after all we hav been through
he is good to me he buy anything i ask him to buy for me,he tell me he loves me,he says he believe his son is his late father tht came to him so he can't do anything tht will hurt him,he don;t even let me talk to anybody else execpt him.he say tht they will distract me from him,people like my mother,but he do call them he send money for them when he hav,when he work he bring the money for me to save,i know how much he made.I want to know if he is real?should i stop my disturbing my self.Thanks

jennykadry:
You married a guy that had two girlfriends when you met?

you are an idiot

You don't call someone else idiot,As if you wouldn't,Nigeria girls, r u now pretending?I have 7 boy friends b/4 i melt him,but b/4 we got married none them exist anymore,at least he is honest,not all men will tht,remember so many men lie so much.Now am his wife none of those girls do exist and i know he will not try anything silly.I confirm it the months tht we date.so you can believe what ever you want

jennykadry:

Thank you

spoilt:
You agreed to marry a guy you melt on the internet same day after he told you he had two girlfriends?  

Stop these fake stories.  

What is wrong with tht,i have a boy friend toowhen i melt him

DL:
@poster where r u now,won't u thank the few peeps that have shown u sympathy.
silly girl

questions for you:
1. how old are you?not ripe for marraige I guess.
2. who's your mama?she must be a bad woman.

hello narialand,i have heard all you said,

Flashfast1:
you totally misunderstood me,tht bosom is a mistake,I meant her breast,the way he use to carry her,his fingers do touch them,I ask him not to carry her like tht he say he don't know how to carry kids.And don't talk about my mother tht way.I decide to marry him,my mother didn't.we didn't get marry tht day,after he ask me to marry him,we date for 8months before getting married,we have live for 4 year none of his girl have ever called him again.yes 90% of people we meet on net is not really who you think  they are,so are you saying tht there is no good person on net including you,well am a good person.why don't suggest tht we fight bcus i was depreesed.or zip ur lip




If your story is true then I'll have to ask the above question again.

How the hell can you agree to marry someone you are just seeing for the first time even after he told you he had two girl friends? As far as I'm concerned you didn't know the guy at all before you said 'Yes' (**seems really desperate to me. **) .
Forget the point that you guys were chatting on the internet for a year before you met him because that doesn't count at all. We can be whoever we want to be on the internet. I can guarantee you that more than 90% of the people you meet on the internet are not who they really are.

The fact that the guy even had two girlfriends and wanted you (someone he's meeting for the first time) to marry him should have given the signal that the guy wasn't a good person. But instead you jumped on the offer like a b!tch in heat and now see where it has led you.  

I'm not really concerned about you because you were the one that messed yourself up by not putting your brain to use or even demonstrating that you had one.  However my concerns is about the little innocent baby.   Only God knows what he would have already done or will do to the poor child. If he has already started touching her breast at age two, I wonder what his sick mind will lead him to do when she is five or ten.  

If the story is true then I have no sympathy to offer you. Just get the baby out of that house. Both of you can continue fighting for all I care.
I don't need anybody's sympathy, I bring up the topic to help other people.
Atleast he is honest,to say he has 2 girlfriends,what is wrong with tht,before we start dating i have a boy friend too.

COOL DK:
@ poster
This is nothing bt a "Yoruba movie" where u knw d end of d film 4rm d bgning. This is strictly a fake script or are u nt telln us your husband is now a gay!
Yes! What a good sugestn: may b u give d script 2 WALE ADENUGA for nxt episode of SUPER STORY. this might fetch u money.

may he is now,or may not but I don't care ,so what about the wale adenuga super story,well is seems i got what i wanted,do you know how I send some stories to him.or do they pay good cash,am a write and i write scripts.but am not in nigeria,pls if u know just send an email to me kasy_ann@yahoo. com

spoilt:
You agreed to marry a guy you melt on the internet same day after he told you he had two girlfriends?  

Stop these fake stories.  

What is wrong with tht,i have a boy friend toowhen i melt him

DL:
@poster where r u now,won't u thank the few peeps that have shown u sympathy.
silly girl

questions for you:
1. how old are you?not ripe for marraige I guess.
2. who's your mama?she must be a bad woman.

hello narialand,i have heard all you said,

Flashfast1:
you totally misunderstood me,tht bosom is a mistake,I meant her breast,the way he use to carry her,his fingers do touch them,I ask him not to carry her like tht he say he don't know how to carry kids.And don't talk about my mother tht way.I decide to marry him,my mother didn't.we didn't get marry tht day,after he ask me to marry him,we date for 8months before getting married,we have live for 4 year none of his girl have ever called him again.yes 90% of people we meet on net is not really who you think  they are,so are you saying tht there is no good person on net including you,well am a good person.why don't suggest tht we fight bcus i was depreesed.or zip ur lip




If your story is true then I'll have to ask the above question again.

How the hell can you agree to marry someone you are just seeing for the first time even after he told you he had two girl friends? As far as I'm concerned you didn't know the guy at all before you said 'Yes' (**seems really desperate to me. **) .
Forget the point that you guys were chatting on the internet for a year before you met him because that doesn't count at all. We can be whoever we want to be on the internet. I can guarantee you that more than 90% of the people you meet on the internet are not who they really are.

The fact that the guy even had two girlfriends and wanted you (someone he's meeting for the first time) to marry him should have given the signal that the guy wasn't a good person. But instead you jumped on the offer like a b!tch in heat and now see where it has led you.  

I'm not really concerned about you because you were the one that messed yourself up by not putting your brain to use or even demonstrating that you had one.  However my concerns is about the little innocent baby.   Only God knows what he would have already done or will do to the poor child. If he has already started touching her breast at age two, I wonder what his sick mind will lead him to do when she is five or ten.  

If the story is true then I have no sympathy to offer you. Just get the baby out of that house. Both of you can continue fighting for all I care.
I don't need anybody's sympathy, I bring up the topic to help other people.
Atleast he is honest,to say he has 2 girlfriends,what is wrong with tht,before we start dating i have a boy friend too.

DL:
@poster where r u now,won't u thank the few peeps that have shown u sympathy.
silly girl

questions for you:
1. how old are you?not ripe for marraige I guess.
2. who's your mama?she must be a bad woman.

hello narialand,i have heard all you said,

Flashfast1:
you totally misunderstood me,tht bosom is a mistake,I meant her breast,the way he use to carry her,his fingers do touch them,I ask him not to carry her like tht he say he don't know how to carry kids.And don't talk about my mother tht way.I decide to marry him,my mother didn't.we didn't get marry tht day,after he ask me to marry him,we date for 8months before getting married,we have live for 4 year none of his girl have ever called him again.yes 90% of people we meet on net is not really who you think  they are,so are you saying tht there is no good person on net including you,well am a good person.why don't suggest tht we fight bcus i was depreesed.or zip ur lip




If your story is true then I'll have to ask the above question again.

How the hell can you agree to marry someone you are just seeing for the first time even after he told you he had two girl friends? As far as I'm concerned you didn't know the guy at all before you said 'Yes' (**seems really desperate to me. **) .
Forget the point that you guys were chatting on the internet for a year before you met him because that doesn't count at all. We can be whoever we want to be on the internet. I can guarantee you that more than 90% of the people you meet on the internet are not who they really are.

The fact that the guy even had two girlfriends and wanted you (someone he's meeting for the first time) to marry him should have given the signal that the guy wasn't a good person. But instead you jumped on the offer like a b!tch in heat and now see where it has led you.  

I'm not really concerned about you because you were the one that messed yourself up by not putting your brain to use or even demonstrating that you had one.  However my concerns is about the little innocent baby.   Only God knows what he would have already done or will do to the poor child. If he has already started touching her breast at age two, I wonder what his sick mind will lead him to do when she is five or ten.  

If the story is true then I have no sympathy to offer you. Just get the baby out of that house. Both of you can continue fighting for all I care.
I don't need anybody's sympathy, I bring up the topic to help other people.
Atleast he is honest,to say he has 2 girlfriends,what is wrong with tht,before we start dating i have a boy friend too.

hello narialand,i have heard all you said,

Flashfast1:
If your story is true then I'll have to ask the above question again.

How the hell can you agree to marry someone you are just seeing for the first time even after he told you he had two girl friends? As far as I'm concerned you didn't know the guy at all before you said 'Yes' (**seems really desperate to me. **) .
Forget the point that you guys were chatting on the internet for a year before you met him because that doesn't count at all. We can be whoever we want to be on the internet. I can guarantee you that more than 90% of the people you meet on the internet are not who they really are.

The fact that the guy even had two girlfriends and wanted you (someone he's meeting for the first time) to marry him should have given the signal that the guy wasn't a good person. But instead you jumped on the offer like a b!tch in heat and now see where it has led you.

I'm not really concerned about you because you were the one that messed yourself up by not putting your brain to use or even demonstrating that you had one. However my concerns is about the little innocent baby. Only God knows what he would have already done or will do to the poor child. If he has already started touching her bosom at age two, I wonder what his sick mind will lead him to do when she is five or ten.

If the story is true then I have no sympathy to offer you. Just get the baby out of that house. Both of you can continue fighting for all I care.

Atleast he is honest,to say he has 2 girlfriends,what is wrong with tht,before we start dating i have a boy friend too.

I melt this guy on net and we chatted for 1 year,we live in different state, finally we get to meet each other face to face,he invite me his place,the first time we saw each other it was love at first sight,we talk for long ,he told me he has 2 girl friends,but they are not just into each other like tht.he said he loves me and ask me to marry him and i said yes because i loved him.we stayed together all weekend,then i went back to my place,he call all the time,2 weeks later iwent to his place one of his girl friend called,and told him tht she is coming,he ask me what to do i said since she is on way then u go and welcome her,he told me tht he will keep her in the hotel,i said ok.then she came later in the afternoon.he went out to see her,he came back in the night with his friends,then went out again,came back the next morning,I was so angry,he gave an excuse and promise me i will not see him with another woman again,i forgive him.1 mnoth later he came to see my parents.then we got married,,after 1year i gave birth to a baby girl and everything changed,he began to act so weird, he hardly talk to me,all he cares about was his boy friend,even they do things i don't understand by locking them selfselves in the room,while am inthe out room.if i ask him what they are doing he pick up fight with me,he even beat me.now i notice he is act strange to our child,like touching her breast,she is now 2 year old,what can i do.