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Deepfeel:
Wanted to delete the one I commented at first, cause your thread was poorly written didn't get a clear understanding of it, but I was like what's the point of deleting it sef she no even write am well

I can see how learned you are from this comment

good luck with your British badge

ednut1:
that is what usually happens. The man u rejected then might have hammered now and its too late. There are many working class babes in their 30s who are getting married to office drivers and are paying thier own bride price

so if you don't have feelings for a man, you must marry him because he will hammer in the future??

no

the husband that God has destined for you cannot hammer without you

you are the fuel to his engine


NB: not all rich men are responsible

Deepfeel:
Between men and women who frequent churches or Alfas witchdoctors more to tie a man or woman down spiritually
Isn't it women? Men don't often get rejected by women around here as long as they are rich, what you are saying is just the other way round

I just typed a great reply..then I cleared it all
like,what's the point of replying you sef

Martinez39:
Lol. Those boys can't handle rejection. The ladies that these words apply to are those with unrealistic standards in choosing a spouse.

Live your life, nothing do you.

abi nau

badadvice:
Op, what's the name of the guy? I would like to have a word with him.

read through nairaland comments,you'll see a lot of em

I have noticed that men like to say that if a woman doesn't date/marry or choose them,they'll end up going to churches and alfas or that they'll end up at 40 unmarried
That they're busy slaying

so if the girl no f*ck you,she dey slay upandan?

What kind of mentality is this?
I see it as a logic to force women to follow y'all around which after they do, you still call them sluts

Look,if you're not the woman's life partner, you're not!

Isnur a must to marry anybody that says he love you.

Yeah,if you know any,drop their names if you proud of them
we need to recognise them no mention those wey don blow oo I no wan see eva alordiah or muna or pryse
let's go!!!

e no go bad nau

cleared

See as the side chicken look like bobrisky

You don't take care of your wife,you say she's old
You prefer to have a woman who another man has polished

Humans!

Wetin be this

Not being able to compose any song for sometime because you keep feeling like its all wrong
or some won't even be able to write anything (those who write books)
what's the solution?

yeah,and most of them end up unhappy coz they are forced to be with men who they feel nothing for..
I just wish that its just an illness that has a cure
but it doesn't
and it's not.

and some men are the reason for this shift ,talking about hormones or so
taking a little girl to a corner telling her to do sh*tty things,nah
she'll grow up hating men and would prefer to be with a women coz they haven't scared her

pryme:
Your number one priority should be to move out, don't leave this for a man that will come and marry you.
You will never start living life as long as you stay with the your mother.

You have to leave, when you do, heal your self, then come back and face your mum.
Let her know all the pain she had caused you, pour out your hate or anger, cos as far as some of these parents are concerned, they believe they are the best parent a child could have, even when they make you feel worthless.

And strive to be nothing like your mother, don't let your kids go through the same trauma, that cycle should end with you.

thank you so much

Eketem:
You have to understand that your mother has issues not you, mentally remove yourself from that situation.


As for the abuse by your principal google project alert and send them a message reporting it, they will take it up and believe me your principal will be stopped from abusing others too.

Your mother like so many others get away with abuse because people wrongly believe a mother is always right and perfect plus being a widow makes her an extra victim. Some of us faced worse, remove yourself emotionally from her grip stop expecting love or anything and stand up for yourself, when you get older she will use tears to be manipulating you reporting you everywhere don't fall for it, if she is serious she will apologise for the trauma she put you through before you genuinely forgive her

she doesn't look like shell say sorry
but I'll pray

Eketem:
You have to understand that your mother has issues not you, mentally remove yourself from that situation.


As for the abuse by your principal google project alert and send them a message reporting it, they will take it up and believe me your principal will be stopped from abusing others too.

Your mother like so many others get away with abuse because people wrongly believe a mother is always right and perfect plus being a widow makes her an extra victim. Some of us faced worse, remove yourself emotionally from her grip stop expecting love or anything and stand up for yourself, when you get older she will use tears to be manipulating you reporting you everywhere don't fall for it, if she is serious she will apologise for the trauma she put you through before you genuinely forgive her

she doesn't look like shell say sorry
but I'll pray
I have forgiven her though

pryme:
Before I say anything, can you afford to move out from your mum's house?

no,maybe when I serve

Tosinex:
Well your mom caused it... So decide on what to do and be firm on your decision, don't be intimidated by anyone, you have your life to live, live happy, forget the past and look with straight eyes into the future! You didn't kill her husband, you've come your own life and you are winning, so stay strong!

thanks a lot

donproject:
I didn't read your epistle but you are to be blamed.

your reason?

Ranchhoddas:
I believe that the solution to every problem is in a book somewhere.
I recommend "The Science of Being in 27 lessons" by Eugene Fersen.

thank you

LuciferRedeemer:
Go straight to the point.
When are you dropping your account number for "help"?

lol

Criis:
Get off Nairaland, you need professional therapy.

please, your words are sharp

cleared

ugandalady:
i just simply point out the fact that, your black vagina must be stinking , due to your hygienic situation or your being frequently penetrated by big black dicks, which are proverbially virulent themsevels too.

facts could not be racism.

so if my vagina is stinking because of that penetration,who told you yours won't be?
are you saying that black dicks are carrying bacteria that make it stink?
man,keep your words straight

and by the way,stop thinking everybody is like you,a LovePeddler

ugandalady:
your vagina stinks, once i imagine its being black .

and you say you not a racist sick B*tch

iranu lomo

ugandalady:
did i compete with you ?

better thank God you didn't

god*amn

ugandalady:
actually i love to have sex with animals. if a gorrila could understand my need and it will not hurt me, i am willing to be penetrated by it.

i am a little bit eccentric, as you may already see it.

ehya
ndo

murtadot:
I have read it, sweet

eh ehn nwane you know what's up

murtadot:
I have read it, sweet

eh ehn nwane you know what's up