BrutalyHandsom:
Everything in Nigeria now is linked to cultists,

Even federal parastatals

Do you know that the FEDERAL ROAD SAFETY CORPS WAS FOUNDED BY THE PYRATES CONFRATERNITY? (SEADOGS), the first CONFRATERNITY in Nigeria?
And up till date , all the top FRSC officials are PYRATES. If you are not a pyrate you can never get anywhere near the top in ROAD SAFETY? YES, and if you are reading this post condemning cultism and placing all curses, and your father is a TOP FRSC OFFICIAL, you can as well extend the regards to him.

Do you know that the PEACE CORPS OF NIGERIA WAS FORMED BY THE BUCANNEERS? AND THESE ARE ALL THEIR SCHEMES,

Same game is being played in ministries and not to talk of other sororities in our society which is filled with all these politicians

God help us all

Hello my brother, while I agree that the FRSC was the brainchild of the Pyrates Confraternity, I will also like to state unequivocally that the upper echelons of the FRSC is NOT reserved solely for Pyrates, matter of fact the pyrates has activities like that tagged as moribund convention and is highly frowned on. Moving on I must say much respect to @saynotocultism you have done a great job of exposing the rot that is cultism in our country. Disambiguation of the word pYrate not pIrate. It was spelt such for a reason, to show they sound the same but! are neither spelt the same nor mean the same thing, so please get it right.
For those of you saying there is no gain in cultism. I want to say this you are wrong and you are right, let me explain.
Cultism has Absolutely no gain in higher institutions, it would rather take away your peace and joy.
Whether the lot of you like it or not cultism does have gain outside a university and below are the examples;
1. Touts and Artisans use it as a platform for collecting huge sums from political aspirants in return for favors, if you take away that unionism (albeit via cultism) they have no platform to even approach those politicians as they will be brutally beaten and locked up.
2. People who are unfortunately into 419 or drug trafficking benefit immensely from being cult affiliated, as a matter of fact it seems its a prerequisite for not continuously getting done dirty by their syndicates.

I do not condone any form of illegality, but what is listed above to to educate all those always asking; what is the gain of cultism? Well there you have it, now you see why Nigerians leave countries like SA, Malaysia, USA and many foreign nations to come back and join a cult. Well 99% of the time it’s because of No 2 above, if they want to continue in their self deprecating criminal ways then it’s sad to say a step in the right direction for them. Have a lovely week and say NO to cultism.

@EnthronedbyGod
Nice exposé, I would love you to start a blog, the blog can be faceless and it will allow you to disseminate all the information necessary to discourage intending cultists from joining.
I was raised in the melting pot of cultism FJ High Temple. I thought it would be cool to join the nbm, a lot of my extended family member were in deep with one rising to become Kpoi of his institution. He was instrumental to stopping a lot of the ju mending I received in my university days, however I knew from the jump I couldn’t become a part of such an animalistic and brutal movement, mainly because of the conversations they had in my presence. A lot of them got comfortable thinking I was inevitably gonna be an Axeman and kept discussing business in my presence, laughing out loud about how they butchered a bagger (unbeknownst to them I knew this bagger, he was an only son and a nice guy frat aside). Long story short. I bought a lot of beer for Strong men in my university days, was always unpredictable and dodged being suffocated so many times into joining. My cousin gave me these words in my freshman college year;

- Na very serious offense for axeman to oppress ju( you supposed protect them from oppression)
- you cannot steal from or obtain a jew (serious offense even in nbm unless the jew is an intending member)
- You must ask to belong, nobody can force you as na only you waka come.

Most Temple Aiyes know these laws but prey on the ignorance of jews to perpetrate atrocities, na when they know say I know how their constitution can be used against them, them go rest for my matter however I still collect on a few occasions.

They called me stinking even though I was obviously the most lexically and academically sound person in their midst, in the literal sense I always smell good (go figure), I came from a well to do family so money was not a problem. I was constantly monitored for years and was told if I join any other rival cult group say na them go personally kill me. By Gods grace I came out the university unscathed and I’m doing very well in diaspora several years later. Many called me over the years alluded to the fact that I was fortunate not to have joined back then, to God be the glory.

Long story short op, never mind the poo spewers who forgets that even good intentions are never enough in life, its all about delivery and getting your message across constructively. Confirm the paternity of the kids and if they are yours accept everything that comes with it, be in their lives and provide for their upkeep. Never marry out of convenience or pity, rather focus on coparenting your kids. If the Children are not yours cut your losses and move on, however for old times sake you can help her financially, all at your discretion.
@sirdouglas accept that this is your destiny and you must take it head on and wholeheartedly. There is nothing new under the sun and whatever you are facing now several people have faced worse and prevailed. I pray God gives you wisdom in these times. Remember this world and everything in it will someday pass away but at the end we all give account of how we spent our lives. Cheers.

It was nice to have worked with Jelad ventures and particularly Gbenga, God strengthen you, our business was a success and I endorse him as the goto guy for your car needs in Cotonou, cheers.

Tony