ubunja: True no one is an angel. So our list need to be realistic. Someone who realistically fits your requirements. Remember a man's vetting list can change as he grows older or becomes richer or poorer. It also makes an allowance for disappointments.
Here's a rough example:
A man's vetting list can be as simple as: No over 25 lady, slim, university educated, has a career, comes from a stable family, Christian, no kids.
Then the man can make space for compromises because no one is perfect: If she has a lucrative business then a kid can be accepted, If she's a virgin then she doesn't need to be varsity educated. Etc.
This is a very rough take.... since all women are like that(hoe)... there's no need ,, searching her phone,going to her village ,this that to know her wassup... na the criteria when she go possess be the Koko. |