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Family / Re: My Husband Beat Me On Christmas Day by Noveltystones: 3:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
Mrsprissy:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice . Like I said earlier nothing actually happened between us before Christmas , everything was okey , on Monday December 23rd we went out shopping for Christmas after we took the kids out to the playgrounds and we ended the day with a nice dinner at the restaurant. On Christmas morning we woke up fine no arguments, he left the house and went to get his hair cut, I picked up his clothes and left it on the bed by the time he get back so he can wear them, he came back very normal on a good mood , the only time he got angry was when I asked him to go and change , I didn’t raise my voice , I only told him the clothes doesn’t look nice for the special occasion that was when he told me to keep quiet and I did. He took 1 hour just to change the T-shirt to a shirt and I wasn’t not happy but I didn’t say anything because he wasn’t in the right mood. Yes He beat me just because I have asked him to take a family picture , I swear to God I’m telling the truth and if I’m not lying because it won’t put any money to my bank account. This is the 2nd beating after 6 years of marriage , but this is one was worse than the first one. Something did happened back in October ( his fault) but we have already settle everything and went back to normal. I know it doesn’t make sense to some of you , even myself I just don’t understand why did he beat me with so much hatred when I did nothing wrong

From your narration, your hubby is one with mood swings. Learn to understand and manage him well with your 6 years experience. You are too over him. Most men don't like it when you tell them what they are wearing is not befitting except they ask. They feel like they don't have a good dress judgement and they've been keeping a not too good outfit in their wardrobe all the while.

Don't be a talkative, don't choke him. Prepare him good meals, put the food on the table even if his ego won't let him touch it and don't bring up the beating topic, stay calm and you will be good

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