₦airaland Forum

Azazyel:
Move that drone closer to the pitch

You be bad person

SoftSport:
This post is full of exaggerations, those areas have actually been sanitized and with Tinubu's efforts in improving security things are much safer now.

Mugu

Elegantspiker:
Number1benue, isn't a paradox you are in this situation with your kind of moniker?

Good evening and I hope this mentions meets you fine. I would have replied you earlier buh a mod gave me a one month ban that ended yesterday.


As for the paradox about my Monica I didn’t grow up in my place neither do I have the power or the freewill to effect any change at this stage of my life that I can end the food shortage or the food insecurity my country is currently facing.



Sapa still hold me ransom like this by the way sha sir

AyemafugeILAJE:
Sorry I don't have to spare....the small wey enter my hand today, I still dash one friend urgent 2k today...may God send u help...the hunger no be joke

Thanks Baba. No Wahala🙏🙏🙏….

flyinnizam:
is ur name emmanuel peter baaki?

Bros modify this comment or delete am bro

Bros evening, bros I beg you to modify this your comment now.....I no want report you give mods ooo

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Patojargz:
Country too hot my broda. U nor lie

Nah the matter I day so ooo bros

Patojargz:
Lwkmd!

Bros abeg no laugh me ooo... this country say hot like this

flyinnizam:
before I send u tell me the truth, who did u vote for?

In the last years election I couldn’t go out and vote cause I was on duty that day at work.... buh am fully obidient though🙏🙏

allthingsgood:
begibegi go and buy pure water and sell. stop begging

“Ok”.
May the good lord never let you be in my situation🙏🙏🙏

Whalis:
I have sent you #1000 as requested. May you one day have to give others that may also be in need. Amen.

Amen! Amen amen!! Thank very much I appreciate you. Your source will only add more not reduce 🙏🙏

Make somebody help me with 1k ooo hungry day oo😫😫😫 7064527147 opay

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Godmother:
I truly pray you get the tfare,the job, and a way to transport throughout this month.

I don't know you, but I'll be praying for you. Don't have, would have sent something

Hello, and good morning ma! So about my last job interview I was picked buh told to hold on. Don’t even know what that’s means self🤥🙄🙄🙄🙄
I am going for another one tomorrow sha, so pls wish me luck

Usman16:
Hello guys. Asalama to everyone. Please I need your advice. I want to get a ps4 pro this weekend. Truth is, have been away from games for a very long time - more than 20 years. Right now I need one in my little crib to keep me company when am alone.

What are the things I need to look out for when getting it? Thanks guys.

Bros if e no too much make I see small thing for your side now.... hungry day oo Bros!! Any small thing I go take Bros’s 🙏🙏🙏

Godmother:
I pray you get help.
But I wonder how you will cope your first month if you eventually get the job.

You do know you won't be paid until after a month, right?

I do know ma that I wouldn’t be paid, yet Buh right now am not fairing any better and Nigeria 🇳🇬 right now is the wrongest time for anybody to be jobless.... so this is like my getaway card or at least suspension from sapa and brokenness.

Imagine I can’t afford transport to my own job interview omo e worse right now for me😭😭😭😪😪🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Good afternoon dear nairalanders pls pls pls and pls I have a job interview slated for tomorrow Monday, buh as it is right now I don’t have money that will take me to the interview location and back.....
If any one will be so kind to lend a hand 🖐 I will really appreciate. All I need is just transport go and come! Shikana!!.

JessicaRabbit:
What a quaint and odious statement.



Casual sexism. How gracious of you to acknowledge that women, despite being inherently flawed (according to your benevolent gaze), manage to bring a splash of color to your dull, patriarchal world. And, wow, you even concede that there might be a few exceptions to the rule. How progressive of you. Another stunning display of patriarchal condescension.



It's nice to know that you'd rather eschew actual communication and empathy, just to embroil yourself in a vicious cycle of one-upmanship, where you are more focused on "winning" your partner than on fostering genuine connection and understanding. Good on you, sir.



Your "game" metaphor only works if the prize isn't basic human decency.

Wow!!!

XhosaNostra:
I'd say you're a narcissist, but you're self aware. People like you usually have deep-seated abandonment issues or suffer from fear of rejection. You only skim the surface when it comes to emotions, so noone can get close enough to inflict any sort of pain. Get them before they get you type of thing. Underneath the seemingly uncaring facade, there's actually an extremely sensitive person that's scared to death of getting hurt, so they put up all these defences to protect their mushy core.
Something like a human crustacean One person will manage to break down your walls though, mark my words. But it'll only take one person. It won't be easy sailing. There'll be a lot of vacillation between enmeshment & suffocation on your part. Good luck to the poor girl

Wow finally....someone who knows better

Badadvisor:
Yeah but it's pretty safe tho and you have 100 percent control over your money and can easily trade for naira anytime. I just made a mistake thank God i was dealing with an honest person.

Boss if you no mind make I paste aza now 🙏🙏🙏anything at all make person for fit see small food chow.....even if nah 1k

abdsamad:
You're not entirely wrong but there's more to it.
How ech person is affected by what one might call similar situations varies.
Doesn't make them "just whores".
I'm not here to say it's right, I'm saying it's almost always more than that.
If i bring 5 ladies who were sexually assaulted, the impact on their life trajectories may be split 5 ways.
You can have one who becomes suicidal and severely depressed, to the point that they kill themself shortly after.
Another person may become extremely submissive to the point that she is defenseless and easily assaulted more times.
Another may bury it and seemingly go on with their normal life.
Yet another may turn to drugs and alcohol to help them forget.
Another may become strongly feminist and completely hateful of men.

The ages and specific circumstances, as well as their underlying personalities determine the various outcomes.

Will i be surprised to find the one that self medicates with drugs and alcohol involved in prostitution? Not really. She likely ended up with nothing but negative influences, from people in that life. Throw in severe poverty and you have a potent mix.

Others may find themselves in the same boat, via other routes.

It is not correct to reduce them to "just whores".

I have a 16yo who currently has no care in the world about being abused. She wants to be involved in orgies and currently believes she's bisexual.
Why? If you say she's "just whoreish" , you've missed the mark.
The answer lies in the individual stories. It takes a lot of patience not to simply cast someone and condemn them to hell. They're human beings and the core, they want a dignified life as much as we the supposedly moral and sane ones

My opinion though, nairaland and the major Nigerian populace don’t deserve your inept and careful analysis of things like this....... we are far too mentally lazy.


Lazy to think rationally and logically give our own quota to national and world issues

assholemods:
Laziness...

I get you now👍👍👍

assholemods:
I don't need to know you! Lazy people talk the way you did and Nigerians are found of calling government and blaming government for everything that is what you also did.

Off all the things we blame them for, pls tell me the one that is wrong

assholemods:
Na your leaders tell you say make you no go carry microphone run commentary? Lazy youth!

This is why I hardly comment on Nairaland: you don’t know me from Adam buh just concluded that I am lazy (why)?? Because of my comment..... some of you just throw words around without even knowing the gravity and weight the words hold