:seun,women are not to be treated as slaves.yes ,she has to be submissive to her man but not to the extent you mentioned. :i leave you with this advice,beware of ladies that are obedient dogs because when they have you where they want you'll know that khaki no be leda . cheers

this topic has always been a time bomb whenever its brought up.
presently I'm in a relationship thats headed for the alters,when i met him ,i observed how difficult it was for him to tell me how he felt.it took him 2yrs to open up his heart and tell me he loved me(it took the Grace of God before the words struggled out of his mouth).i think its got to do with the male ego and fear of rejection.
you never know, you try,right?All the best guys. JD