₦airaland Forum

Rwanda is by all measures a poor country, Almost all African countries have had at least 50 or more years of independence and yet we are so far behind the rest of the world it’s tragic, even Ethiopia that was never colonized is nothing to write home about, every African leader and all those they have appointed since independence should be hanged if you ask me, but that is another discussion entirely.

EricBraven:
So Rwanda is doing bad

I don’t blame him because I sometimes catch myself in such thought, think about it bros no single Black Country is doing well, basically going in circles chasing our tails since independence, my professor used to say Africa has never had leaders and quite frankly I agree with him.

EricBraven:
You were making sense until you generalized

You fit pm me the address, I get wetin I wan tell the papa

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

I want to get an andriod with a budget of 70 to 80k abeg advice me on which to buy which to buy

I hope this case is followed to the letter and he should be prosecuted adequately if found culpable, However I hope the allegations are not true.

I have actually witnessed the above and it’s a really terrible thing, but things like that are not the norm and law and order always prevails, don’t get me wrong I do not look at anything through rose tinted glasses

DubaiLandLord:
See the way you're deceiving yourself. I pray you don't find yourself in a wrong territory during an ethnic or religious riot in Nigeria.

No doubt tribalism is the cause of this menace but it isn’t limited to just igbos, I have also witnessed igbos being tribalistic towards other tribes in Nigeria, I have travelled every region in Nigeria except the southwest and I have come across large number of igbos in all these places living, working and running their businesses without much issues like every other Nigerian, I would implore you to please not sink into this victimhood mindset.

Illumined939:
Click on the page about the German based igbo man who was shot by soldiers, and see how your One Nigeria fellows are rejoicing over his death. Many of us are not deceived by this fake love of your people. Igbo deaths are celebrated internally or externally.

People will always die on all sides during any war, this skirmishes and the war that might follow may be short lived, however it’s consequences on the people is what I and any rational human being is wary of, I don’t get the your people part of your reply as every Nigerian irrespective of tribe or religion is my person.

Illumined939:
Definitely, igbos will die just like in the past when they were shot for protesting with the Biafran flag . But this time, your people will die in their numbers. In this coming phase, whoever gives an order for igbos to be killed, him and his family will be wiped out. How do I know these things? Looking at the patterns of how the Israeli mossad operated at the inception, it is very easy to predict. And Kanu has been saying any commander who orchestrates igbo death would be taken out with his family. These are not just threats, these are patterns.

what is coming next isn’t rocket science, real life isn’t a movie or a book, there is only going to be shedding of blood, destruction, death and famine as a result of the forth coming “war” and all this is going to occur in mostly southeastern Nigeria.

Illumined939:
You really don't understand what's coming. Nnamdi Kanu is following the playbook of Mossad. You really think your Army Generals and Goc's can't be taken out - assasination style? A special assassination squad of as few as 20 committed individuals, will take out important VIPs, military echelons included, and end Nigeria. To understand me properly,
get a book about how Mossad came about, how they assassinated, who they assassinated, why they assassinated. A very special squad comprising 20 individuals will end Nigeria. I'm not exaggerating. Just continue killing igbos, and I promise
you, the Nigerian government will produce this radicalized assassin squad for Kanu, if it hasn't already happened yet. Don't downplay this Kanu guy, he knows what he is doing.

Noted

Same here I just couldn’t say no to someone that was like a father to me

NevetsIbot:
Wawuuuuu.... Me wey no Dey gree make person stay with me for a week .... I for don change anyhow from the first time

Nearly same thing happened to me, accommodated a family friends daughter in my final year, her father assured me it would be for a short while as she searches for her own apartment, things were all good in the beginning, I knew she had very little money and I made sure she never lacked food and we rotated doing chores in the house
Many people assumed she was my litttle sister due to how I treated her, fast forward three weeks and I noticed she had changed a lot, she barely goes to school or spends time in the house, it got to a point that she spends most nights in god knows where, I began doing most of the chores at home as she was barely home, she only comes home to eat, wash and bath and then she is off, I didn’t want to get her in trouble with her dad so I had a talk with her and she apologized and started behaving right for a few days then she returned to her habit, I had a talk with her the second time as she had become very wayward and people were starting to notice, she apologized again but She continued in her ways after a few days
Her dad always calls me to check up on her and I always covered for her even when most times I don’t even know where she is for days, when I saw that she wasn’t changing, I opened up to her dad(although I didn’t tell him most of it for her sake) he said he was going to talk to her
Few days later she confronted me laughing that why did I call her dad, I told her it was in her best interest, I noticed her family stopped calling me after that, it was later I got to find out she had told them the reason she wasn’t spending time at home was because I was touching her at night. What pained me about the whole thing was that her father did not even confront me or anything, he just believed her, few months later I kicked her out as she was barely at home and I was tired of explaining to different girls that the female clothes bags and shoes in my house belonged to my sister and not my girlfriend as they had never met her and so they assumed I had a girlfriend I was hiding.
Long story short I got vindicated as some months later that same girl was disowned by her father for being out of control after they fought many times when she got back from school, this same girl has apologized to me countless times and has tried on so many occasion to befriend me again, I just told her I hold no grudges against her but I don’t want us to be in contact.