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Roland17:
There are developmental milestones every child achieves as they age. Those milestones are typically physiological, biological, intellectual/ cognitive. When there is a deficit in any of the aspects listed, then we need to ask why?

Flogging doesn’t correct a deficit in emotional regulation. When you flog, you are not beating a child’s inability to properly regulate their emotions, rather, you are beating the child’s response to their inability to properly regulate their emotions. In this instance the response is anger or other maladaptive behaviors. Beating may suppress anger which is the response but it will not resolve the deficit in emotional regulation. Remember I said suppress anger, not resolve anger.

The process of developing proper emotional regulation takes a lifetime but usually starts at 2 when kids start to explore the different emotions they are feeling. That is the best time to help children learn proper emotional regulation. Helping them understand emotions like crying, smiling, anger, confusion, excitment etc makes the foundation strong. Redirect inappropriate responses immediately and consistently at this age. Encourage them to use their words. Also, their environment remains the biggest factor of influence. What surrounds the child? What is the child seeing? What they see informs how they interpret certain emotions.

Every disciplinary approach has the ability to have the same effect. The most important thing is the intention behind discipline and ensuring the approach/ choice of discipline matches the situation. Also, what are your own emotions when you are disciplining your child? Do adults mix their own frustrations with life when they discipline their children? For me, it has to be a combination and knowing what is effective and how to use it. Also, being flexible with approach.

If my child breaks TV as response to anger, e go collect before we dive into “why”? I am quite traditional but I also know my growing up is different from today. Know what your child responds to and that is effective and be flexible enough to explore options. Also, ensure discipline is age appropriate before you tempt a teenage son to handle you.. I have always said, my children will earn my friendship when they grow but until then I will parent.

Ballzproblem2:
"children of hate","enemies of Nigerians","5% region" ,na their sister don lock up ,if no be say kem kem get levels na omo ale remain.

iamoyindamola:
You sure?
Those people behave like foreigners

iamoyindamola:
That was her responding to your VP
Because he took a snide remark at her and she responded
She's not an omo ale, she intentionally targets the north 🤣🤣

Emaprince:
Guy I weak sha.

This fpl get bad luck.

iamoyindamola:
Them no suppose count that win for you
Na draw you suppose play

raumdeuter:
Because people dey pity you make you nor relegate and weaken their team for you. Shey no be yu still last for the table

e be like say you beat emaprince sha

Ema na Otu

raumdeuter:
Obainojazz come and kneel down here

Face the wall, Raise your hand and close your eyes

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Abuike Daberi left the group chat

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Until he's officially pronounced dead I'll take my L. For now, let's watch and see how events unfold.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
They have been overrun.. That was a lightning offensive. At every point of contact, pro Assad forces have been retreating. Most times they choose not to engage. The rebels are in Damascus already, even if you're retreating, you should be able to defend your capital. The Syrian Army has withdrawn from its position in Damascus. Assad too don leave Damascus.

DeadPresidents:
I swear this nigga‘s favourite X pages are Viségrad and Radio Genoa

BlueRayDick:

JUST IN: 🇰🇷 South Korean armed military forces enter parliament after the president declared martial law. pic.twitter.com/BP2REbOsdt

— BRICS News (@BRICSinfo) December 3, 2024

See South Koreans pushing and shoving armed military men who took over the parliament by virtue of the martial law declare in the country. Just look at that guy wounding up the military guy and shoving him back to where he was coming from.

If na Naija, we would've seen some Nigerians encouraging, defending and justifying the military to use lethal force against their fellow Nigerians.

I mean people still justified a major general brutalizing a citizen on the road few weeks ago. 🥲

TrebleChamp:
I just saw one on x, see big snakes inside roof...

Ibime:
Adeboye is a liar

Ladies and Gentlemen is used million times a day in UK

Akaekpuchionwa2:
cc:
Bombblacks

https://www.nairaland.com/8274393/italy-netherlands-canada-enforce-icc

iamoyindamola:
okpa eyan obainojazz
I just they imagine both of you inside a room

Akaekpuchionwa2:
Ezi Bida... You be otondo. Swerve jare you have nothing reasonable to say

Akaekpuchionwa2:
Your papa na ediot.. Like first grade eediot.

Coward, I was hoping you will also condemn the Aussie government

Akaekpuchionwa2:
If you like no go dey read news. Ex Israeli minister was just denied Australian visa yesterday. Dey find coping mechanism. Make him visit first so we can verify. E get why.

Obainojazz

Are you also going to tell the Aussie authorities that they're retarded, extremist and terrorist sympathizers?

seankafor:

Remember this the real reason for Russia/Ukraine. pic.twitter.com/zjIdnswe6K

— karma (@karma44921039) November 21, 2024

genesisnof russai nato problem

airmark:
I hate liars and scam artists, just as I expect you to do also.

airmark:
Just pointing out a pattern in how Obiidients reason.

Trying to sidestep and justify the actions of vandals that threw the country into blackout, has shown that they don't love the country as they claimed before the election. Bunch of liars with ulterior motives like their principal.

Ballzproblem2:
Biggest supporter is the same country that tried to waste jews ,strange times.

BlueRayDick:
Iamoyindamola, do u have any spy/CIA or drug related series you can recommend for the weekend?

Na today I go finish Snowfall and I need to restock

Ellexy:
Meanwhile, some throwback..