Politics › Re: This Is The Time Ndigbo To Leave Nigeria by obinna58(m): 2:00pm On Nov 29, 2024 |
Before ranting, go read and understand what tax reform bill is all about |
Politics › Re: Caption This Photo Of Macron And Tinubu (Throwback) by obinna58(m): 9:09pm On Nov 28, 2024 |
African leaders are totally shameless |
Health › Re: Help! Something On My Skin by obinna58(m): 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2024 |
blezzino: Noticed this on my skin this morning Please house what causes this? A type of eczema, I had very sensitive skin and use to have all sorts of eczema, black, white and fungus pattern eczema, joined with dermatographia and fordyce spots too. For the black type eczema you’re experiencing Funbact A clears it very fast but it comes back Axoral tablets is permanent solution specifically for the black eczema |
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Fashion › Re: As A Nigerian Man, Here's How Many Times You Should Change Your Boxers by obinna58(m): 2:29pm On Nov 28, 2024 |
She’s back Lethal feminist |
Celebrities › Re: Economy Hardship: Paulo, Tiwa Savage Lament As Tacha Announces Move To UK by obinna58(m): 11:00am On Nov 28, 2024 |
HellVictorinho9: Thatz how speed darlington kept going at it
U just come online to accuse people anyhow
Like sars used to do offline
U are behaving like sars
we shall see  You know say I no get issues with you boss, your foot matches are your enemies |
Celebrities › Re: Economy Hardship: Paulo, Tiwa Savage Lament As Tacha Announces Move To UK by obinna58(m): 8:15am On Nov 28, 2024 |
HellVictorinho9: some cant sleep if you get help on nairaland
awon enemies of progress
obinna58, NnamdiPapa, FourQu,etc
these b@stards av parents dat do drugs, gamble with everything and smoke dung so they bliv everyone is like them.
They av over a thousand monikers here
Crazy people Ah boss, wetin I do na? Abi it’s a crime to alert people on your terror operations on nairaland. You have bullied/terrorized and destroyed people uncountable times A lot ran away from their homes(monikers) bcoz of u |
Politics › Re: Port Harcourt Refinery: NNPC Addresses Misleading Claims by obinna58(m): 10:08pm On Nov 26, 2024 |
Lies upon lies upon lies upon lies |
Politics › Re: 10 Fastest Growing Sectors In Nigerian Economy Based On GDP As Of Q3 2024 by obinna58(m): 8:32pm On Nov 26, 2024 |
No agriculture, we’re doomed |
Romance › Re: What Else Will A Guy Gain From A Girl That Says "No Sex" In The Relationship? by obinna58(m): 7:55am On Nov 26, 2024 |
Heaven |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Cyprus Announces Its Intention To Join NATO by obinna58(m): 7:48am On Nov 26, 2024 |
Cyprus has nothing to offer nato NATO will hardly accept their request |
Politics › Re: Dismissed Edo Policewoman Threatens To Commit Suicide, Kill Children by obinna58(m): 8:00pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
They wanna finish her off |
Crime › Re: If Nigerian Police Can Dismiss Me For Exposing Rape Case, How Much More Innocent by obinna58(m): 7:37pm On Nov 25, 2024*. Modified: 7:56pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
It’s all about survival of the fittest, the strong eliminates the lesser strong, the weak is used for mockery, entertainment and cruise |
Travel › Re: Burkina Faso: The Journey Of No Return by obinna58(m): 6:06pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
Factcheck0001: oga did I insult u or d op?
Which one b nonsense now? Nawah ooo Nonsense is actually not an insult, I wanted to say you weren’t making any sense |
Travel › Re: Burkina Faso: The Journey Of No Return by obinna58(m): 5:48pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
Factcheck0001: Guy u were just lucky that those people weren't hardened criminals, if u try this with Libya people u will regret it cos u will b kidnapped n u will pay triple that price n they might even kill u It’ll be a change of tactics stop talking nonsense |
Family › Re: Getting This Off My Chest: My Strained Relationship With My Dad by obinna58(m): 3:11pm On Nov 25, 2024 |
amazinghands: I relocated to the United States about eight years ago. My relationship with my dad has been strained and continues to deteriorate.
Background: I grew up in a lower-middle-class family with both my mom and dad working hard. Everything changed when my dad started earning significant money. His newfound wealth led to a lifestyle filled with parties, women, and alcohol (to be fair, he earned his money, so he had the right to spend it as he pleased). He built a hotel and was barely home afterward.
2010: While I was in college, I wanted to leave Nigeria due to the incessant ASUU strikes. I told my dad I wanted to study abroad. Initially, he agreed and gave me the funds to start the process. I was admitted to a school in Ukraine and secured a visa, but he later said he couldn’t afford to send me abroad. This decision felt contradictory, as his lifestyle said otherwise. (To be fair, it’s his money, and he has the right to decide how to spend it.)
2016: I got admitted to a master’s program in the U.S. and approached my dad for help again. He told me to "cut my coat according to my size" and said he couldn’t sell any of his properties for the sake of a child studying abroad. (Again, to be fair, he was right—he had already paid for my college tuition in Nigeria.) Around the same time, he married another wife.
On the other hand, my mom sold her only piece of land and some jewelry to give me half of my first semester's tuition. After involving family members, my dad reluctantly gave me ₦400,000, stating that was all he could afford. I thanked him for the support.
Fast Forward to Today: I struggled and worked odd jobs to make ends meet, determined never to ask him for help again. Over time, I’ve become financially stable, secured a good job, and am now a permanent resident. I give my dad a monthly allowance and occasionally send more during festive seasons. My mom, on the other hand, gets spoiled with gifts, extra money, and I’ve even invited her to visit and spend time with me in the U.S.
Now, my dad is broke and has suggested I buy him a car and increase what I do for him, despite the fact that my parents are separated and he currently lives with his second wife. I’ve told myself I won’t go above and beyond for him, especially since he chose to prioritize his lifestyle and the new wife (who came with a stepson). I find it hard to reconcile his past decisions with his current expectations.
Am I in the wrong here? I know the whole reason you’re asking this question is because you’re wanting to go extra mile to please him Did he go extra miles for you? Why kill yourself for someone who’ll never do same for you Give him equally as he deserves but you should understand one thing don’t punish him for his foolishness, it’s not worth it. He is your father and you should have no grudges against him, if buying him whatever he demands doesn’t seem like much for you considering you present good condition then it’s not something to think twice, just don’t make sacrifice for someone who would never make sacrifice for you Only your mom deserves sacrifices and breaking of sweat |
Health › Re: Men Lacking Morning Erection Need Medical Examination, Say Urologists by obinna58(m): 12:30am On Nov 25, 2024 |
ipobcannibals: Ode see mumu! You can help reduce the black population by kpai-ing yourself, family and also telling ipob cannibals to keep kpai-ing more Igbos.
Mumu that doesn’t understand the importance of large population….The whites that has been trying to encourage their people to increase their population to no avail, turned around to deceive you to reduce yours because they don’t want you to outgrow them in numbers….hence the adage: misery loves company. This is a psychopathic reasoning, You’ve been blinded to the level it cost your sanity, I could have tried to revive or make you understand but you’re determined to be a loser |
Health › Re: Men Lacking Morning Erection Need Medical Examination, Say Urologists by obinna58(m): 10:02pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
An average black man doesn’t need erection anymore, we’re already overpopulated |
Romance › Re: She Played Hard To Get, It Failed, Now She Wants Him by obinna58(m): 4:50pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
2024 and we no longer see topics like this chai |
Romance › Re: Is She Not Too Young For Me? by obinna58(m): 3:54pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
And I thought you’re 55 |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Fake 'Army General' over N270m Fraud (Pictures) by obinna58(m): 12:56pm On Nov 24, 2024 |
IprintMONEY: Na skull miner, na them. His deputy must be a flat head ipob like chibudollar where you’ve been dey |
Business › Re: OML 11: Court Moves To Wind Down Oil Company Over Unpaid Debts by obinna58(m): 9:59pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
Oil companies owing debts, it’s finished |
Travel › Re: Burkina Faso: The Journey Of No Return by obinna58(m): 8:12pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
Waiting for Update |
Sports › Re: Conor McGregor Ordered To Pay ₦437M After Nikita Hand Accused Him Of Rape by obinna58(m): 7:11pm On Nov 23, 2024 |
What was she doing in the hotel in the first place if not olosho work |
Politics › Re: EU Has Commends Mbah For Trailblazing Solar-For-Healthcare Project In Nigeria by obinna58(m): 12:08pm On Nov 22, 2024 |
Apart from high taxes and demolitions, mbah is a good governor |
Romance › Re: Those People That Carry Hookup Girls(advice) by obinna58(m): 8:59pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Simping legend |
Politics › Re: Enugu State Government To Train Livestock Farmers In Artificial Insemination by obinna58(m): 8:24pm On Nov 21, 2024 |
Is that the picture of farmers? They’re not serious |
Travel › Re: Country To Go On A 10m Budget by obinna58(m): 4:07pm On Nov 20, 2024 |
DrDoc: Trying
I made 1.5 M off these Maize. Today, a big poultry made me their grains sourcing agents because of this maize Baba I have a poultry farm wasting bcoz of high price of maize, where are you and how are you able to do this |
Car Talk › Re: FRSC Orders Car Dealers To Stop Sales Of 3 Mercedes Benz Models In Nigeria by obinna58(m): 8:08am On Nov 17, 2024 |
As long as they’ll buy it out from the owner then no problem but here we are. |
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Suspected Killers Of Enugu Market Chairman, Stephen Aniagu by obinna58(m): 8:36pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Initially we thought they were unknown gunmen enforcing sit at home What was their motive? We need to know |
Sports › Re: Jake Paul Sends Chilling Warning To Mike Tyson After Brutal Slap by obinna58(m): 7:23pm On Nov 15, 2024 |
Looking for the brutal slap
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Fashion › Re: Aba Residents Publicly Humiliate Lady Over Her Dressing (Photos) by obinna58(m): 9:24am On Nov 15, 2024 |
Primitive age vs olosho woman |