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Nickydrake: Two years ago a sitting governor visited our faculty where he was purportedly running a masters program. Law students who were indigenes of his state and happened to be informed about the covert visit besieged him. He coughed up a few hundred thousand, cash.

obinon:
Fairly used compaq 615 for sale.2g ram,bt,HDD 280

deniyor:
OP
there are a lot of things you have to consider here:
1. Admit it to yourself: the only reason you are more interested in her is cos of competition, not some BS maturity. Nothing to be ashamed of, we have all been there b4. The real question there is, if she gives in to you, what is the guarantee you will not disrespect her again?

2. do you really love the girl? hv you considered the fact that the other guy might be better for her and treat her better than you?
3. with any girl of quality, you will always have competition. your actions so far show you are too weak to handle that for now. You continue storming off, you show weakness, and lose face.

4. The girl is not worth the effort. A girl who does not break up a dynsfuntional relationship ( or work it out) but chooses to double date you and a new guy is a serious RED FLAG. What will happen if you hv relationship probs another time? or when you graduate?



5. You say she is a virgin. Have you considered the possibility the other guy has deflowered her? If so, are you still willing to take her back? What is your limit on the kind of relationship that might exist btw the two of them b4 you break it off?

Beync:
Op, seriously this is lesson 1, when u value wat hav, it will stay long with u. obviously, she discovered your wrong attitude towards her and she moved on. even tho she still luv u, the luv is now divided. u wud hav nurtured her luv even tho u were not ready to settle down and not to disrespect her dat wud make her feel she is not luvd. now u will be confusing her the more with this your sudden awaken luv. now r u luving her for real or becos another fellow is about taking her away from?

M M M:
2 of u should manage d girl,
dere is luv in sharing.

omega25red:
poster

[b]i thought guys loose interest after they get to actually have sex with the girl and not after they kiss[/b]  
Well at least you have realised your mistake and now it's up to you to make it work. The first thing you want to do is spend time with her. If and when you go to her room and you see the other guy dont storm off like a biotch ask her to come outside that you would like to have a word with her.
Be respectful about it (lord knows that guy might kick your azz) and when she comes out just take her hand and walk away with her show her that you actually care about her. to win this war you have to be in it to win it. waiting for her to come to your room crying only shows that you are weak. the other guy is sitting in her room where you should be.

Like Godmother said are you sure you aren't just jealous becuse you have competition?

190:
[color=deeppink]Poster

What u do is,

Stand up, Look for the nearest transformer close to your house and Kiss it

Are u seriously OK, u made a lady fall in love with you afterwards wanted to dump her

The lady is tryna move on and ure complaining

I guess you did not finish reading my update,when i said no jokes,seriously i had you in mind.


U really need that Transformer in your life to make things easier for you [/color]

Inked_Nerd:
@OP: Lemme ask you something, why exactly do you like this girl?

hottyspice:
@obinon pls free bisiet,let her claim anythn she wants to claim,igbo,yoruba or hausa,morover this post aint about yur tribe,stop talking tribe poo here,why da hell will anyone want to claim any tribe in nigeria,its not about d tribe its about yur country,wen u go out there(that's outside naija)people refer to u as african and wen they decide to try for u they call u d nigerian.tribe doesn't matter,why will anyone be happy to claim a tribe in nigeria sef?u people who discuss tribe in nigeria is d reason naija hasn't moved 4ward.I am proud of my tribe I dnt care who the person beside me is,the person is human to me,black white igbo,hausa or yoruba,whatever.
If she says she is igbo den she is so step off,and let her be wat she says she is,aw does it affect you if she is not igbo?
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YOU are now her P.A,how did what i write concern you?The thread was not supposed to be anything about tribe,but you saw all it all started and you didnt say anything.YOU know who "the other tribe-haters" are on nairaland.Go and talk to them and free me.where is red tooth?Free me