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[quote author=ikelords post=87426027]From my personal experience with ngwa people, these people are extortionist, callous and greedy set of people, if you meet them for the first time they pretend to be nice and cool, they know how to impress visitors who are getting to know them for the first time, but as you deal further with them they show you their true colour. The Ngwa people see outsiders as potential avenue to extort money from and if you dont yeild to their demand they will look for a way to frustrate you. In a nut shell am not saying the girl you are marrying is bad, but you see her background and her extended are what you should try and look at critically. An average family in ngwa land is always at war with themselves, these kids born there grow up with that mindset of living and creating family crisis wherever they find themselves. I want to warn you, whatever you accept to do from today as a form a marriage rite, ensure you do it to the later, but if you stand your feet on the ground as a man and uphold you norm and values which you know is right , you have started creating an impression on how your inlaws should perceive you. Like seriously am beginning to see that, d want to use d opportunity to extort me. I was shocked when d Mum told me d kinsmen said, just to collect list, I will pay 25k. I want to go and give d mum the money this morning. But on a second thought, is there any Place in Igbo Land where u are charged to pay 25k for just marriage LIST. I HV gone to different places with my brother's, I know what d collected not more than 3k

Phenomenal16:
..which one is that list is not more than 5 k
Abeg which place again?
Eh

Is there any Place in Igbo Land where u are made to Pay 25k just to collect Marriage list? Note d 25k is not part of list.

[quote author=Miracle7998 post=87424487]Yeah the reason of doing that is to notify her dad ur getting Married to his daughter and also for safe delivery
Is like ur from Ngwa?

Please I need People from Ngwa to respond

[quote author=Miracle7998 post=87424487]Yeah the reason of doing that is to notify her dad ur getting Married to his daughter and also for safe delivery

Really. Ok

How did u know d Eat human being? We are not talking about to them eating human being

Good morning House. My Name is Joseph. I work with Ministry of Health. There is this Girl I have been dating for 1 year now. Few days ago I proposed to her and she accepted. Now here is d issue. I HV already gone for for Introduction. The next stage is for me to go and collect marriage LIST. I was told , I must appearse d Spirit of the d Dead father of Girl before I will be issued with d list. D gave me list of items to buy. I calculated it and paid 40k for it. Part of d list is buying clothes and shoes, walking stick for d man that is Dead. Other things I bought includes Male Goat to be killed at d grave site of my girl father, Please do Dead people wear shoes? U know I was reluctant to do it because I HV not heard or seen such culture before even though am a full fledged igbo man. I know is not Bible. I even called d Man d married my Girl Elder sister if He is aware about d culture, he said yes but As a pastor he did not do it. And He can't support it. He even said had it been I told him on time, He would HV told me not to do it.
By d way, d mum HV done d tradition from d money I gave. She came back and inform me d money I will pay to collect Marriage List is 25k. I don't really understand because other places I HV visited in igbo land to collect list for both Men and women rites is not more than 5k. D want me to pay 25k just to give me a photopy of marriage list. It was my girl mother that told me to this even though though I HV not investigated. I will go and meet her tomorrow. Is not as if I don't HV d money but if Marriage List is 25k then d content is what I don't know.