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phorget:
It can't end that way, the simp guy would decide how it would end. The girl is free to go back to the baby daddy but how about all the expenses incurred by the simp guy overtime? This is simple,the baby daddy should pay for the expenses and it becomes a win win for the parties involved, if otherwise then the simp guy can claim that he owns the child and I'm sure the baby daddy might opt for DNA test where he would still end up spending money. The simp guy just need to let them waste their time and waste their resources too. He can't just let go without giving a fight.

He sleep with her abi e no sleep with her?

phorget:
They both slept with each other, moreover the babe wasn't with him while the simp guy was busy taking responsibilities that wasn't his.

Case closed because it depends on the choice of the lady in question.

phorget:
This is simple, the baby daddy should pay for your expenses which I assume would run into millions and that would serve as your compensation for all you've done... Money over Bitchez.

How about sleeping with his babe all these while?
You give am compensation?

OlawaleBammie:
I don't know what the man with a good heart is saying but I hope he report the woman to saphiere.

Afterall he's not among us that hates single mothers.. saphiere will help him talk to the girl.

But if the girl no con listen to saphiere then the guy can manage three bottles of sn!pers to cool down.

Haha.
Which one is saphiere

iamnotillicit:
She's got a nice ass...

Focus on the topic..

A brother asked me to advice him, I took it to Nairaland for you guys to help him.

I met her when she was 6 months pregnant. She told me baby daddy was married and he dumped her when she refused to terminate. I took care of her until she gave birth.

I paid thousands for her to give birth at a private hospital. She has been staying with me and I take care of her and the baby. The baby is one now and out of the blue the baby daddy wants to be part of the baby's life. I was not comfortable with it but I understand he's the father.

Last month she told me she still loves the guy and she's leaving me for him. Basically, she dumped me, a guy who took care of her and busy saving money for lobola, to be a side chick again to someone who dumped her when she needed him the most.

I don't want to lie, I'm more disappointed than hurt. We made so many plans for the future and I was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. At this stage I doubt I'll ever be with another woman.