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murphy2get:
If he loves you, he will be willing to put
sex aside to wait till there is the real commitment of marriage. A man that is impatient about waiting till marriage for sex usually is in love with sex and not you. When a man really loves you, he understands that this relationship is long-term, so sex will happen at the right time. But, when he has short term plans, he most likely has targeted how much he wants to invest and how far he would like to go with you. Therefore,

trying to make him invest longer than he has planned is not a welcome idea. In his mind, he has two weeks planned out for the entire relationship, so when you tell him let's wait till marriage, he gets furious because you are messing up his plans.
I need you to know this, an impatient man usually doesn't love you because he has no long-term plans. If he loves you, and you tell him let's honour God by keeping ourselves pure sexually, he will appreciate that decision and begin to see you as someone precious. He knows that no matter how long it takes, you will still get married and he will then value you even more for waiting to have sex.
A man that doesn't love you can't wait.
He will threaten you with, "If you don't

have sex with me, I will be forced to have sex with other people." As silly as this sounds, some ladies will still remain in such relationships. If a man ever tells you this, know that what he loves is sex not you and that he has no respect for you. I have seen ladies in such situations come to me for counselling, asking what they should do. If someone has told you that if you don't have sex with him, that he will be free to go and have sex with whomever he wants, then he has shown you that you are nothing special to him, so believe him.
If a man really loves you, he will be okay with putting sex aside because he sees it as a long-term thing. Let's glean some more truths from Genesis 29:18-19K/VI,

And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for
Rachel thy younger daughter. And Laban said, It is better that I give her to thee, than that I should give her to another man: abide with me.


Jacob was living with his uncle and he wanted to marry one of his uncle's daughters. A very pretty girl, but she was the younger daughter. He met his uncle and told him about his love for his daughter and that he would love to marry her. The bride price was set- seven years of hard labour and he was willing to pay the price because he loved her. So, he worked for seven years to marry her.

And Jacob served seven years for Rachel; and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her. —GENESIS 29:20|KJV]

He didn't touch her through the seven years because he knew that at the end of the day, he would still get to marry her.
He waited for seven years. So, when a man really loves you, he will be patient, he will be ready to wait till marriage to have sex with you.
The man that can't wait does not love you, it's sex he loves. Unfortunately, most ladies are so ignorant about this, they don't realize anybody sleeping with you before marriage will also have a problem staying faithful to you in marriage. Like I always say, every fornicator is an adulterer in training.
Self-control doesn't end when you get married. You need self-control betore and after you get married. God is trying to teach us something about discipline but many people are short circuiting the course, saying to themselves, let's just have sex it doesn't matter.


Most women honestly think that's how to keep a man faithful to them. But it doesn't work that way. If you engage in premarital sex, you are teaching the man that it is okay to take what is not legally his. You must understand that someone's intention to marry you is not the same thing as marriage. For instance, if you go to a shop and say you want to buy an item, that's just an offer, that's not an actual purchase until you pay. Can you imagine going to a car shop to say you want to buy a car, then you take the keys and drive it away without paying?
It's when you buy it, that you can drive it away. But a lot of women miss it here.
A man comes to you saying he wants to marry you; you respond with a " yes" and the next thing you do is take off your clothes. By the time you marry him, he will keep trying to take what is not



legally his and by that time it won't be you, because by then you are his. He will keep trying to take other things because that is the training he has received from you. He has built an appetite for things that aren't his.
Most cases I have dealt with that involved adultery, 99.9% of them were cheating before they got married. Most women think once we are married, we will both stop cheating. It doesn't work that way with men. A man will continue cheating.
So, if your relationship started with cheating, that is, both of you cheating on God by not keeping yourselves sexually pure, it will continue with him cheating on you and finally cheating will be the end of the relationship.
God has said sex should not come in till after marriage. He was very clear on


that, but there are still couples planning to beat the system. Making clandestine moves God has specifically instructed them not to do. Now the question I have for you is, can two armed robbers keep to a pledge not to steal? Armed robbers don't trust anyone including themselves.
So, in marriage, he is wondering, why do I have to stop cheating, is it because I am now married? Wedding vows cannot stop him. So, if he doesn't learn to have self-control now, he won't have it in marriage either. Marriage doesn't change anybody. A lizard that is single doesn't become an alligator in marriage, It's the same person.
So, going back to our story. Jacob worked for seven years and when he was done, a wedding date was fixed. On the wedding day, his bride was brought to


him covered with a veil. He exchanged vows, married her and took her home.
That was when he found out that he had been deceived, it was the older sister of the woman he loved that he had been given as a wife. And then, he went back to tell the family, there had been a mix up. That it was the younger daughter he wanted. That was when his father-in-law explained to him that based on their culture, the younger does not get married first. That's why he was given the older sister. Jacob insisted he wanted to marry the younger daughter still. So, his father-in-law told him he would need to serve another seven years for her, and he agreed.

... and he loved also Rachel more than Leah, and served with him yet seven other years.
- GENESIS 29:30[KJV]


Jacob worked for Laban for a total of fourteen years to marry Rachel. That's, in fact, how to know someone that's truly in love. A lot of ladies are in relationships with men that cannot wait for fourteen minutes, not to talk of fourteen days.
Ladies, it is not you he loves, it is sex he loves and when he is done with you, he will move to another person. If he loves you, he will learn to put sex aside.

U will learn the hard way mr SIMP.

donbrowser:
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/8180955/zanga-zanga-tinubus-crumbling-northern-alliance

I can't believe a youth (lunatic) wrote this.

Omoawoke:
He’s not the same person, it’s not the same clothes

He’s just catching cruise

R u well or u have eye problems.

numericalguy:
Tell an IP0B he is ST0PPEED, and the next thing he does would even be more than DUMB.

The ST00PEED IP0B is still foaming at the mouth eve when I told him I am a northerner living in the north.

This one is a Fool of a TOOK.

DevilsEqual:
The first 4 comments on this thread are from guys with the same ethnic origin and region, the East.

I expected them to ask questions like ;

How could they have being arrested if they werent at the protest ground and maybe close to the real perpetrators?

The Polish ambassador made it seem like they were arrested in their room


Who goes to a foreign country to get involved in an "aggressive" protest?

Once u realised its becoming non-peaceful, why not run to your hostels or wherever your abode is?

I mean it and I pray we all go our separate ways one day. I'm finding it hard to believe I share same country with these guys. Their reasoning is worrying

U are sick in d head.

Yugoslavia247:
Okay.

Better understand this delicate and unending fact.

Those who do are the wise and know how to navigate.

If as a man till now u dont have the knowledge that giving is your way. Dey play.

Givers never lack.
Dont be foolish about it.

U are a comedian, now run along.

Divinelove4ever:
No girlfriend.
No side chick.
Married couples must stick to their spouses.
No using of services of hookers.
Run away from fornication and adultery.

Of course, run away from masturbation.

Then, you will see how you will be blessed.

God loves purity.

Be blessed.

Who is this one again.

numericalguy:
It takes a lot of ST00PEED to be IP0B.

I am a northerner living in the north yet a very DUMB&DAFT IP0B just concluded I am from South West

This one is a clown, Southwest ppl.

Don't worry a sweet coup is coming to sweep u clown away.

numericalguy:
I gave you facts but you resorted to insults

what exactly were you thinking sef... Keep your radio biafla stories to yourself

Were you expecting the brainwashing of radio biafla to work on non Igbos?

South west ppl with their reasoning.

Must I be igbo to state facts, now run along to the hole u crawled from.

numericalguy:
You are lying if you are talking about the January 1966 coup.

The January 1966 coup was a bloody and brutal ethnic cleansing coup that was planned and executed by the Igbos to shift power from a Hausa man to the Igbos.

Even though many Igbos held many offices and the army was 80% Igbo, out of the 21 victims of the January 1966 coup, only one person was Igbo

The victims are as listed below
1. Sir Ahmadu Bello-Fulani from Northern Region.
2. Sir Abubakar Tafawa-Balewa-Gere from Northern Region.
3. Samuel Ladokr Akintola-Yoruba from Western Region.
4. Chief Festus Okotie-Eboh-Itsekiri from Midwest Region.
5. Hafsatu Bello (wife of Sir Ahmadu Bello)-Fulani from Northern Region.
6. Mrs Latifat Ademulegun (Brigadier Ademulegun's wife, who was pregnant)-Yoruba from Western Region.
7. Brigadier Samuel Ademulegun-Yoruba from Western Region.
8. Brigadier Zakariya Maimalari-Kanuri from Northern Region.
9. Colonel Kur Mohammed-Kanuri from Northern Region.
10. Colonel Ralph Shodeinde-Yoruba from Western Region.
11. Lt. Colonel Abogo Lagerma-Marghi from Northern Region.
12. Lt. Colonel James Pam-Jos native from Northern Region.
13. Lt. Colonel Arthur Unegbe-Igbo from Eastern Region.
14. Sergeant Daramola Oyegoke-Yoruba from Western Region.
15. Police Constable Philip Lewande-Minority from Northern Region.
16. Police Corporal Akpan Anduka-Efik from Eastern Region.
17. Police Corporal Hagai Lai-Minority from Northern Region.
18. Police Corporal Yohana Garkawa-Minority from Northern Region.
19. Lance Corporal Musa Nimzo-Minirity from Northern Region.
20. Ahmed Pategi-Minority from Northern Region.
21. Zarumi Sardauna-Minority from Northern Region.



The questions you should be asking yourself are
;1) How come only one out of the 21 victims is Igbo?
2) How come South East leaders were not touched even though they were the most corrupt leaders in the country at that time?
3) How come the coup was leaked to Azikiwe and he left the country for the UK on the pretext of going for medical treatment even though he never went to any hospital while he was out of the country?
4) Why did Major Obienu tip off ironsi and Ironsi went on a boat party after Maimalari's reception on the night of the coup?
5) Why did Ironsi ignore the report of the Special Branch of the Nigerian Police on the coup?
6) Why did Ironsi refuse to prosecute the coup plotters to the dismay of Nigerians
7) Why did Ironsi snatched power from Dipcherima (a Borno man) even though Dipcherima was the most senior Nigerian official after the leaders had been murdered?
9) Why did Ironsi quickly surrounded himself with Igbo officers and civilians immediately after the coup?

That is why i said u need to be educated, go read up politics, power amd Oil, also soldiers of fortunes.

Stop listening to beer parlour gist and stupid tribalistic ppl around ur circle.

ObiPandora:
If I was Tinubu info like this should be enough to send Seun to jail once he can not prove the validity of this information. Only God know what DSS is doing yet they get paid.

U can run along now, u rat.

Jungleluv5:
What is your own now face your own business if you like gather all your friends and register too. Why do we like problem like this

U including those bots he stated, will be dealt with soon.

Bliztzer:
You people never talk about the crime Biafran armies committed against the minority tribes in Midwest and South South.

Let's start with that first, and before thunder go fire Britain. Thunder can't fire Britain when your people are also guilty. Let's not forget that an Igbo man started the first coup.

Its good to br educated.

Mostly all tribes participate in the Coup.

Timmi:
alsudan the man from Sudan, can you supervise your own gbola or girlfriend/side chick? Not to talk of supervising your own life? See the blaba mouth of a boy talking.

If i see u comment here again, I will flog u.

123yes:
oga mind what you write online. If security apprehend you to come and explain, i tell you, you will explain tire. Calling the president a notorious drug dealer is insulting not only to Tinubu but entire Nigerians because other countries read nairaland. Please this is my own piece of advice to you to refrain from these kind of attitude. Security will get at you if they want. So don't hide under nairaland to continue insulting the president.

Why is it paining u, he said the truth.

Ironbull:
Why are the ipob NLC scared? If you are clean you don't need to be scared and be saying someone will drop something which simply means you are having serious incriminating materials in that building for you ipob NLC to jump to such conclusion.

I swear APC fell my hand for not listening to my advise to cage obi after the election and set moles in the NLC to kick Ajaero and his gang out because NLC have be politicised and is into partisan politics but apc didn't listen. Can obi, ajaero etc dare obasanjo these far? Dem no born dem papa well.

APC hear me again and again take obi off as MKO was taken off, as Keti and Akuyilli were taken off without this he will keep influencing NLC and his cursed supporters to be disturbing Nigeria peace, he is a bastard someon who killed his father yet feel no remorse about it, get him off he is too free and extremely too dangerous to Nigeria existence. A word is enough for the wise.....

U are a waste.

EponObi:
See how Baba Iyabo dey talk like say the rot and mess we are experiencing today didn't start with him.

He's talking about Nigeria putting all her eggs in one basket. Lol. What did he do to diversify our economy as a military head of state and the first and a two-term president after 1999? The man even pushed a third term agenda.

Didn't everyone of them since 1960 abandoned agriculture and chased after oil money?

"I believe we made a very, very deadly mistake" - No sir, I believe YOU made a very, very deadly mistake.

When you invited Shell and they told you about the corruption ruining our refineries, sir, what did you do with the power given to you by the people to crush the cabal and rot in our oil industry? You were president for 8 years, what did you do to put the interest of the people as priority? What efforts did you make to change the trajectory of the NNPC for the benefit of the common Nigerians?

OBJ is saying shit, with all due respect. This is the person some idiots are rallying around because the man they hate so much became president.

Tinubu's bad policies implementions aside, at least for the first time since 1960, we have a brave president who has the political will, muscle, and clout to repurpose our economy. And if the APC had allowed the GEJ the weakling remove the subsidy in 2011, we would have moved past this pain.

There's no going back from here, inshallah. The economy must be rejigged, no matter how pain and strenuous tbe process may be. History will remember Tinubu for not taking the easy route of padding our economy.

This one escaped from yabaleft.

trutharena:
These Ojota protesters are just looking for attention. Rejecting N5,000 is foolishness when they could have used that money to better their situation. They should focus on real solutions instead of playing the victim.

U are not well.

Dapromzy333:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-we-wont-accept-treason-defence-chief-warns-protesters-flying-russian-flag/?fbclid=IwY2xjawEd4HZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHdOCYJWqZ6Bi1rgVcZCeFKHHfZ0AjR4fHSTf15w8iChJoMihwA2NtzHjsA_aem_rI0O--5pWtzKWSO2kJuiow

this CDS idiot will be toppled soon by intelligent middle right thinking Officers.

[quote author=Chinkoalhaji34 post=131329247]Na wah! Farooq don enter another realm of imagination again.

Tyrant ke? I no fit understand how dem dey see Tinubu like that. Meanwhile, Peter Obi dey run around like say him no get direction, always trying to chase shadows.

Make we no forget say na Tinubu dey carry Nigeria forward, while some people just dey play politics of bitterness.

Farooq should better focus on real issues instead of this baseless accusation.[/quote Give me your location, I want to say hi to u.

Ironbull:
They have started their online bullying tactics trying to force everyone into their dead beat motherfucking political ideology as they did as obidients.

This is why I said this protest is secretly engineered by obidieents and some useless idiots fell for it.

Na by force to protest? If you belief in protest is your right to think that way and it is portable right too to think other way you have no right trying to force him into aligning into your choice or stupidity.

I said it again and again after this failed protest the Fed Govt should set obi up arrest him and drop resin +........(name witheld) residue on his cloth and let his family go look after him and let's see how far he will go because is extence and walking is genocidal.

Any home at peace the bastard in that house yet to become full adult the very day he or she becomes adult the peace in that home is dead and that is who obi is and that is why his drug dealing lead to the killing of his biological father (by drowning him), he is a true and a real bastard.

I hate obi so much that I don't need anything to send him to his grave if I have the opportunity, I knew him inside out very he is creep, dodgy, wicked, bitter, bigot and red alert. I know him...

I shakecthe table oya his slaves come and attack me I'm.here waiting...

Foolish fool, u will be beaten up soon.

Salewa97:
These protesters really have too much time on their hands.

Instead of being productive, they prefer to play childish games. If only they channeled that energy into something beneficial for the country, we might actually see progress. It's all just noise and no real change.

Will shut up and get out of here.

Always talking rubbish, what is wrong with u ppl.

benuejosh:
Uninformed and misled masses.

You're misled by those who lost election and trying to use hunger that has been around since he time of Obasanjo and Jonathan. Why didn't they protest against hunger during the time of Buhari.

Tinubu is their target simply because they lost election

PROTEST IS A GOOD THING BUT THIS PARTICULAR ONE IS A USELESS PROTEST!

I AM NOT PROTESTING!

I won't be used by the tactics of LABOUR PARTY AND PETER OBI to war against my country and President Tinubu.

The conditions/demand to be met by the protesters is a call for anarchy.

I WON'T BE PART OF ANARCHY!

TINUBU IS WORKING!
GIVE HIM TIME.
HE IS NOT A MAGICIAN.

U are lucky I can't see u, the beating that u would have gotten is second to non

madridguy:
Compound jokers, want to hide under protest and see if they can break Kuje prison and release their members

Nnamdi Kanu is somewhere that no one can know except the DSS.

If you are protesting, protest will sense. Single ladies should go out and try their luck in getting husband. Dress well and look neat.

I wish to see hunger protest wedding ceremonies photos soon.

Indeed u are lost man.

Quote me and receive 15 thunder slaps.

Chinkoalhaji34:
Toh

Promises na wetin dem dey use sweet mouth take catch us.

We go still chop rice one day, just dey patient. Na who no believe dey go suffer for the matter.

One more stupid talk from u go receive e slap.

Namaster:
News have been flying around about Sowore's upcoming protest in August. Most of it have been people cautioning against it and there's also been a warning from the United Nation's Department of Safety and Security about potential HIJACKERS!

I LAUGHED when Tinubu and his allies begged Nigerians to be patient with him.

I was NOT surprised when security agencies, including the Nigerian Military, tried to intimidate the protesters that have not even gathered. Everybody knows the Nigerian Military have a HARD-ON for unarmed civilians.

I was ALL for the protests and waiting for Nigerians to deal with Tinubu and his SHITTY government. I looked forward to the protests. That is UNTIL I saw the list of demands.

If you have not seen the list of demands, look it up! It's a JOKE!

It's very OBVIOUS that a politician wrote it.

It reads like a manifesto for a political campaign. And much like a manifesto, it's completely UNREASONABLE and UNACHIEVABLE and merely meant to stir up the LARGEST number of people.

ANYONE who goes out for the protest and ends up getting shot to death would have died the death of a FOOL!

There is NO unity of direction. ZERO common goal! The demands sound like a list of things a jobless guy would bitch about in a beer parlour.

For context, here's a summary of what Sowore wants YOU to risk your life for:

1. Scrap the ENTIRE Constitution and introduce a new one just like that! Sounds to me like an idiot begging for Military Rule.

2. After scrapping the WHOLE constitution and being in DIRE need of a new one, IMMEDIATELY scrap the Senate, a body that is required to make laws in Nigeria.

Apart from being absolutely STUPID, these 2 points taken together have the potential to CAUSE a level of absolute CHAOS that Nigerians have never seen before.

But Sowore did NOT stop there. No, siree!

3. Pay a minimum wage of #250,000 which is just STUPID considering how devastating the following inflation would be for the Nigerian Economy. It gets even STUPIDER when you realise that the Labour Unions have agreed to a deal of #70,000 to be reviewed every 3 years.

4. Invest heavily in education and give grants and not loans to Nigerian (tertiary) students and aggressively pursue free and compulsory education for children across Nigeria.

The 4th demand is the MOST reasonable demand on the list. Especially the second part. But the idea of giving grants, which is essentially FREE money, to 18-year olds to study sociology and mass communication still rubs me the wrong way.

A subsidized education targeted at students in school for courses related to CRITICAL sectors in Nigeria like Healthcare, Agriculture and IT would have been better.

5. Release Nnamdi Kanu, the founder of a TERRORIST organisation. A man who SINGLEHANDEDLY destablised an entire region. A man whose followers continue to impose a sit-at-home curfew on a whole region and MURDER anyone who fails to comply with their weekly lockdowns.

Kanu and his followers brought DOUBT upon the highest office in Nigeria by first claiming that the President was a CLONE and then changing the narrative that the President had been replaced by a body double.

If you think Kanu is not a MENACE that should never be allowed to step foot outside of a prison cell EVER, then you don't understand the extent of damage he can do.

The man successfully convinced HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS, perhaps millions, of his followers that Buhari was cloned even though NO human being in history had ever been cloned at that point and even now.

Anything short of Kanu dying in prison would be a FAILURE of the Nigerian government.

6. Renationalise publicly owned enterprises sold to government officials and cronie. Makes sense to take back these institutions from the cronies they were sold to. Shame it got tossed among these demands.

7. Bring back fuel subsidy. This is a joke because despite Tinubu's bold announcement about subsidy removal, his government has paid OVER #8 TRILLION in fuel subsidy.

Sowore is willing to expend people's lives to fight for....NOTHING!

8. PROBE corrupt politicians. This is another joke. Everybody knows there are FEW politicians more corrupt than Tinubu himself. Asking Tinubu to probe corruption is like asking a blind man to help another blind man climb Mount Everest.

9. Restructure Nigeria. A sensible request that got lost in a sea of sheer STUPIDITY.

10. Make security agencies like police and Military stop harassing civilians. Scrap USELESS security agencies and TACKLE insecurity.

This is another sensible demand that is so LOADED it deserves it's own PROTEST. But here it is in faraway number 10.

11. Establish a Special Energy Fund immediately to drive massive, corruption-free power sector development.

Question for CONFUSED Sowore:

Is this before or after taking back the DISCOs from private investors?

12. Immediate Reconstitution of the Nigerian Electoral Body, the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to remove corrupt individuals and partisan hacks appointed to manipulate elections.

Sowore thinks he's sleek by slotting in a MAJORLY selfish goal in number 12. Sounds like dude's trying to form like he lost the Presidential election due to electoral manipulations.

In which case, he's a BIGGER clown than I thought.

Or which election was manipulated?

Nigeria has 20 APC governors, 13 PDP governors, APGA, LP and NNPP have 1 governor each.

Sounds to me the electoral manipulation is DONE by politicians and their parties and not INEC. Sowore needs to equips his party to manipulate elections and stop trying to waste people's lives to harass INEC.

13. Massive investment in public works and industrialisation will help employ Nigeria’s teeming youths.

Concerning that the youths whose lives Sowore wants to risk in his protests rank so LOW on his list of demands.

14. Massive shake-up in the Nigerian judiciary to remove cabals of corrupt generations of judges and judicial officers that continue denying everyday citizens access to real justice.

Another good point that got lost in a sea of SHITTY demands.

Overall, the protest sounds like an expression of IMPOTENT outrage that is not really meant to achieve anything except maybe raise Sowore's political profile.

It's touching on so MANY subjects it's bound to yield ZERO results. Especially when you consider the fact that some of the demands are downright RIDICULOUS.

Sowore is NOT looking to achieve any viable result. He's just looking to TROLL Tinubu.

As such, it's up to you to decide whether you're willing to get shot and KILLED to achieve nothing in a protest organised by a Nigerian Politician.

I don't think u are well, this yoruba man.

Franzinni:
you dont have the capacity to comprehend might be another reason dont you think?


It's usually the air heads that think they know it all isn't it?

Your IQ is low, this is my last reply yo u.

Franzinni:
But it does ... Your muscles is an indicator that you can achieve something in your life , that you can be committed and not be flippant, that you can endure discomfort to reach your goals, that you can protect, that you can defend... You don't see the value of muscles because the situation doesn't call for it ... If we were in olden days and war starts you think a scrawny looking guy would be trusted to be able to defend anything ?


Muscles says alot about a person

U made no sense.

murtalaa:
Why take the trouble of a public proposal if you won't do it the proper way? The bushman doesn't know how to kneel down or what? Kneeling down is gentlemanly, it's like opening a car door for your woman or drawing a chair at a restaurant. It's not in anyway an indication of inferiority or anything insecure Nigerians believe it to be. I have seen US military officers kneeling down to propose.

U are not well.

Is Kneeling down for a woman part of our culture.

ikorodureporta:
... from 19th minutes


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KqyWQ3jSb0M

We need a soldier like man called KADUNA in this present day Nigeria, to reset our brains.

helinues:
They should at least tell us what the Kenya protest they want to do copy copy about achieved

That was their initial narration of why we must protest in Nigeria. So if Kenya protest did not achieve anything, why then do we need to waste our time on a protest that won't achieve any meaningful things

Do u want to be cursed today.