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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Ojo69: 10:11am On Sep 02, 2023
You are a child seeking attention but even more, are you not ashamed of yourself that you don't want people winning with you and you prefer coming here to give begas like wiseone23 and his click penny anytime you win?

So you don't want their progress or anyone's progress, you prefer they beg you for penny instead? You have the character and brain of people from Delta state and Edo State, i will be shocked if you are not from or live in one of both places
ThatrealestApex:


Oya see am here cheesy

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by Ojo69: 7:59pm On Aug 29, 2023
When this group was first created, it was a place to share games and celebrate wins generally. There where adults, good punters who took their time to forcaste and post games here I still remember a certain guy who would forecast on a book, snap and send on here. Now this group has been highjacked by children! It is beyond stupidity to post your wins here if you didn't post the code for everyone to play with you and like many, I have been viewing without engaging.

And why is the admin allowing people beg for tip here? If you stop people from begin for financial tip here, it will stop this irritating attitude of children posting a won ticket they didn't share on here.

Those of you begin for 500,1000 e.t.c , you should be ashamed of yourselves. This is not why this group was created. This is a punting group for betting tips !

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Family / Re: Tired Of My Child’s Dad by Ojo69: 1:41pm On Aug 14, 2023
Dear S.N.A,

You did not grow up abroad nor have you ever left Nigeria. There have never been an arranged married or any form and you are not married.

Please tell your truth or the truth.

First, explain to these strangers how you are still shocked that he has remind silent with everything, refused to speak up to your colleague when asked to know what's happening just so he don't build an uncomfortable work environment for you but since you've decided to bring this to an open space, please tell these straingers the truth.

Tell them about your continues infidelity for 7years starting from your lecturer to pass his course.

Tell them that you have refused to take your 5year old son to your parents, your parents don't know you have a child. You kept telling him you'll do it every december for the past 5years.

Tell them the truth, the father of that child is not a drunk, a gambler nor does he even have any addiction or drug habbits. Isn't this funny? Please include that you do drugs not just weed but crack (meth) a habbit I still don't know how you and your friend where able to finance. He threatened to tell your elder sister if you don't stop and you've always used trying to loose weight as an excuse to why you do drugs with your best friend. Again, please modify to correct that your son's father does not do drugs nor approve such lifestyle, i'll appreciate the honesty.

Tell them the truth that your son's father is a simple man, be honest enough.

Tell them the truth, that he has supported you with every breathe in him till you got a job and when low self esteem didnt let you face your job he put his life on hold and came to support you again looking after you and your son, doing laundry and cooking for you without complaining because your job is too tasking and you needed help till you could associate and find balance then he returned back to his house.

Tell them the truth, when your life picked up, he had financial crises for 5months from independently taking care of his sisters and conducting his fathers burial yet he still wasn't an asshole to you.

Tell them you spent a whole week in a mans house in your curent state of residence while you lied to him that you where in your friend Mrs.Bim's house becuase your house had a lickage that your landlord needed to fix.

Tell them that he skipped sending you upkeep money for his son just one month, same month he buried his dad and you unprovokedly insulted the living shit out of his life and dragged him for a 100k dept in owed you during the process of planning his fathers burial.

Tell them you did the same unprovoked 2months later and that was when he cut you off. Tell them that when you noticed his freelancing career had picked up again you started trying to reconnect by using his son to blackmail him and he kept blocking you.

Tell them the truth, tell them that you have refused to accept a patanity test for 4 out of the 5years you've had this child. If you must be terrible enough to bring this to an open space, uphold it in light of truth.

Tell them that he has always allowed you had your way with everything you wanted to do and you'v taken it as a weakness that you've always ridden on.

No family or friend of his disrespect nor ask when you'll be having another child. Who would when you aren't married ? Please, kindly explain to them why you still aren't married. Please, tell the truth.

Tell them that you follow %98 percent of single mom's and feminist on social media and your role model is Blessing C.E.O, Tonto Dike, iyabo ojo and their likes (no disrespect to them please) .

It's been 3months since both partie parted ways, his only request has been that you let your parents know the child exist and he will not send anymore child support until you do so. He didn't make a simple drama nor contacted you or anyone for any sort of issues. He simply continued his life without defaming you in anyway and I believe you should do same.

MEN MOST TIMES DON'T SPEAKUP AND SOME WOMEN USE THAT AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO DEFAME THEM.



Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



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