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Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 9:08am On Feb 27, 2015 |
sauceny:And this is how u say thank you ? well, you're wellcome. |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 8:48am On Feb 27, 2015 |
Qhal:alright, thanks for ur input. |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 8:43am On Feb 27, 2015 |
Qhal:Oh i see. Talking from experience bro ? |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 8:33am On Feb 27, 2015 |
Would appreciate more input from others still. |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 8:33am On Feb 27, 2015 |
Qhal:So working it out is'nt an option then ? 7footre:I just realised i could have been missing the good times and not her. . Thanks man |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 10:52pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
vjsmiles:Okay........ Twaci:okay MzNelly:lol, yeah i know that was freaky. |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 10:05pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
MzNelly:Done miss. mployer:i quite agree i dont love kosi. you dont think cynthia might just change ? maybe ? |
Romance / Re: Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 9:58pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
falconey:iv tried shortening it. some guy did the app trick and i paid for it. temitemi1:Okay sir, its been reduced. Twaci:Thanks a bunch but how else do i show her im not a playboy ? |
Romance / Help A Confused Nairalander by okeddy: 8:52pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
I'm eddy, a guy in his early twenties currently in his 5th year studying medicine @ the university of port harcourt. I come from a wealthy home and people seem to take it upon themselves to act as a constant reminder that i'm handsome. I've passed all my m.b exams till this stage so i guess that makes me smart too. Honestly i have a lot going for me @ least at the moment especially with women. Now herein lies my problem. I met Cynthia, its been 3 months since we broke up though after dating for 22 months; she was all i wanted even though not perfect(please tell me who is). This was the umpteenth time we where having a break up and this time i was serious about breaking up. Cynthia is my age mate who studying a 4 year course just finished from uni port. All the while she was in school, i always made her understand that i wanted something serious that could possibly lead to marriage and she always said she felt same. I was determined so i stuck to my girlfriend for 22 months. That was quite hard for me though but i pulled it through. It must have been hard for her too but did she pull it through ? After kissing umoh, i decided the relationship had to end. Umoh was some guy she met from social media i guess, they ended up getting close and he ended up kissing her which she claimed was forced. I know its just a kiss but isn't that how it starts ? and what if it was just more than a kiss ? which brings me to how i found out. She never did tell me, i found out on my own. i had some app installed in her phone to snoop in on her chats. Yeah, i know that's creepy but unfortunately there was no trust in the relationship just love and respect. After several events had occurred in the past, i couldn't trust her anymore. it wasn't her first time frolicking about with some guy on social media. There's a saying that having a girl as a best-friend is like having a chicken for a pet, someday you would eat her. If she needed to have a date with some other guy, she should have just let me know about it and i would gladly encourage her to go ahead ( that's if she would allow me a date with a female friend too ); Last i checked, the gander and the geese both know whats good. Unfortunately she never told me whenever she went for a date but thanks to the app i was always abreast so i knew when and where she was having a date. Making an attempt to find out where she was the previous night would end up in so much lies, both liar Mohammed and Fani kayode would tremble. Lieing was her new best friend. there was always a reason to lie for her. And so it started; PROBLEMS,PROBLEMS AND MORE PROBLEMS. This lady wouldn't grow into the kind of lady i wanted to end up with and so when i found out about umoh, that was the last stroke that broke the camels back. I wasn't going to let her crocodile tears, messages and emissaries fool me this time. I had had enough. It wasn't difficult moving on as not long after the break up i met kosi. Kosi is way better than my ex. She is more beautiful(my ex was just there by the way), smart, homely and very understanding and above all wasn't as much a flirt. she had all the qualities i wished my ex had. she was close to if not perfect. I however haven't been happy as i seem to miss Cynthia every day. she's been calling and messaging so much that i had to block her number from doing so. I think i still love her and as a matter of fact i'm just not into kosi surprisingly. yeah i know shes almost perfect but i cant just place it. the little times Cynthia made me smile cant be compared to all the times kosi did so.Am i in love with Cynthia or just infatuated ? I mean u cant possibly be in love with someone whose just a flirt, right ? I'm just being confused i guess. Nairalanders, do u think i should go on with kosi or try working in out with cynthia ? (i couldnt post this with my real account and trust me u don't wanna find out who this is , lol ) |
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