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saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.

A brief rundown about myself.

I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.

Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.

I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.

Now my pain..

I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.

I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.

I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.

Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.

Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.

P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.

Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?

I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough

My dear, don't be pressured. Its good to be concerned. My advice is that you create time for extra curricular activities.. Go on a picnic, the gym, join a unit in church or be serious with church activities and most importantly, Put all this to prayers.

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SweetCunt97:
Please I have no where to stay right now! My things and I are on the road without no money, no shelter. I fear the bridge will be my home tonight if no one comes to my rescue.

Any good Samaritan here? I'm in Lagos. Even if it's money to go back to my village, I'll appreciate

. Send me a mail, with your detail.. Am not promising anything yet... Ugoslavia2009@yahoo.com

E clear.. Mike matter no go make us see road for this country.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Hell NOO!!! that's a weak man

God forbid. unless my husband allows me cheat. sex is suppose to be enjoy by me also.

can't keep my vaginity for all these years only to hook up with indomie man

he must be hung like a horse and sex for at least 2 hours straight

The funny thing is that; there is solution to such kinda problem if you find yourself in that category. there are herbal medications your partner can take and he will last as long as 30-45 minutes at a go without releasing.. No side effects.

jobhunter11:
yes, some lucky few have been scheduled for interview already ,

wow.. Congrats to all the shortlisted candidates. I wonder why dragnet was sending mails for information update. Ordinarily one could have taught it's for successful candidates.

ExpertNLer:
Please try and be specific when asking questions, it could be for Procurement Analyst, Finance Analyst or Graduate Engineer

it's actually for procurement analyst. Sorry about that.

saxha:
Please house, how is this first stage interview going to be like? it's 1hr duration. (procurement analyst)

cc ExpertNLer

please house, has dragnet invited anybody for the skilled test or any other correspondence from them after the email to update info?