₦airaland Forum

Both are one and the same cause they would end up in the same place for eternity except there is a conscious and genuine change.

I like that someone is speaking out against this trend. The facts remain that there would be life after elections. I detest any form of negative campaign and if you do that, you lose my support. Its so inhumane to call anyone names for mere political posts that you would leave after a stipulated time. If you want me to vote for you, its simple. Tell me what you can do and if I like I vote for you not telling me your opponent is evil. The negative campaign by the ruling party on the main opposition party was one I followed keenly, the silence from the opposition camp made me smile even though so unwarranted comments were made, it goes to show that we can rise above hate and propaganda and that's a good thing cause our developing democracy need it more than ever now.

God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Say no to violence
vote for peace.

kaboninc:
That was why I had told you that you should pray that God should give you grace to choose and should you fail to choose rightly, pray that He should give you grace to live!

God loves ALL of us. For the fact that Remi's marriage is bad is not because God hates him.

Even Tunde who doesn't believe in your God has a better life than Shola who does.

thank you.

pickabeau1:
What's the point


You came here saying u don't want NL marriages meaning you have an idea of what Nairaland marriages are

okay.

kaboninc:
Then all those who have found a wife irrespective of the status of the home (especially in cases of irreparable damage) have found a GOOD thing too?

Or

Those who've found a troublesome wife, God hates them too?

God doesn't give a bad wife. Those is dysfunctional marriages are the cause of there predicament whether as a result of what they didn't do or do before of after wedding.

pickabeau1:
OK

I'm sure we all know 1 in 10 is a minority

Im wondering where the stereotype of naija men as leeches comes from

You seem not to get the point.

What causes bad marriages

kaboninc:
I love your 'persistent'

I pray it doesn't lead to disappointment.

God loves me too well to give me a troublesome wife. His word says 'he who finds a wife finds a GOOD thing and obtaineth favour from the LORD'

pickabeau1:
So based on your own personal observations

1 in 10 marriages are bad right?

yes.

bukatyne:
Hello friend

Thanks

God answers your prayers

Hello ma'am.

Amen

pickabeau1:
On what basis do you think such marriages are a common occurrence

Can you tell us your own personal observation

As you r aware a lot of women here come here and say marriages are whack
Women r just working
Men r just enjoying

Are they speaking from experience or hearsayy

5 in every 50. Personal observation.


Anyone can say anything about marriages but does that count in the real world

My take on marriage is simple: to each his own. Don't teach anyone how to run a home but encouraged fairness. No one wants to suffer in marriage and we know that more women suffer in marriages than guys, they are just acting emotional and speaking up.

kaboninc:
Hmmmmm

Not that God knows...

Because since He knows...you know the answer.

Rather God's grace be upon you and your family.

He can he who says he can.

cococandy:
amen

thank you. Women are really trying with little or no appreciation. They aren't robots abeg

pickabeau1:
Which kind exactly

Marriage of women suffering, men smiling. I can't stand one person doing all the work why I sit and idle away. Its a union and not an boss and employee stuff. I was raised up to do things myself and won't give that up cause of marriage. If a man cannot help his wife in doing chores, he shouldn't bother marrying.


fact: Tradition hinders transformation.

the kind of marriages portrayed on Nairaland is false and unreal. God knows that no wife of mine would go through this.

barcanista:
Alimosho hold the highest voting bloc in Lagos.

and you think agbaje stands a chance I live in Alimosho and Ambode has been here about 3 times that I know of. Saw him once and we are yet to receive agbaje. Alimosho is the most populated LGA in Lagos and most of the kids who school here attend public schools. Do you think their parents will throw caution to the wind and pitch their tents with PDP The abandoned Ayobo-ipaja road might not be complete but the completed parts are okay considering their state before. To the real voters. APC's campaign both today and that of Saturday has been largely attended and so I winder where your phantom voters for PDP will come from.

Disclaimer: I support the NCP. Just trying to put things straight.

ozoigbondu:
Who be you

a fellow Nairalander like you.

Money is the root of all evils.

ozoigbondu:
I just ate it this morning

and you are shouting PDP allover Nairaland

#irepNCP

correct gist. This means that it can only get better. How can a person in such prison make distinction while those who are cat home can't pass common examination.

He can he who says he can

this one is too much

not again. rest in peace.

#thisisbabaric

even Bolivia

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt]Really? Monitoring me, how?

Lemme go and hide. [/size] [/color]

herzummy was always quoting you and I could see them.

No need to be scared. I have got your back as a big bro. lol

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt] Oh! Really? That's very good!

OK dear

I was just saying who is this that wants to drag u with me?

I will note his moniker he's now my chum friend.



[/size] [/color]

chum friend...hmmm

I have been monitoring you since just decided to confront you today. Paddy things

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt]Herzumpther is a very special girl. [/size] [/color]

at least you can also testify to that. Herzummy, here o

Herzumpther:
Lol.
Done with exams?

nah....Thursday.

Been reading since morning and now am famished

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt]Crush, why? [/size] [/color]

why she is special to us all

LewisO:
[color=#000033] [size=14pt]I did see some beautiful ladies here, but I haven't seen the one as beautiful as Herzumpther here! [/size] [/color]

brother ....I go crush you o......



Lol...herzummy.... defend me oo

Herzumpther:
Hmmm.

you ehn

she can do it after all who cooks for the husband if not her.


#march4buhari