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Romance / Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by olami100(m): 5:56am On Nov 13, 2014
THAINDIVIDUAL:
Sexual attraction is one thing you can't remove when it comes to love but its not the all and all. When you love someone, you have this chemistry between two of you.

Men can wait till marriage and not have sex with their spouses doesn't mean they don't feel it except they're practising sister and brother love where they'll only talk about church things.

When you start sharing your feelings with a woman you love, saying how she makes you feel. You'll start having the urge to kiss and touch her.

So, saying sexual attraction is not love is false because to love a woman romantically, there'll be romance except its just friendship where emotional things are not shared, just normal daily life gist.

Don't mind some of dem jawe, dat is d way some of dem ave been program to tink by d books dey reads wen in the actual sense u can't love somebody u are not sexually attracted to!!!!!
Romance / Re: How To Toast A Girl by olami100(m): 4:10pm On Nov 11, 2014
Jessyj616:


yeah i agree with the be yourself and confident. But most tend to become speechless in the presence of the girl or while talking, run out of things to say it doesnt hurt to have a backup plan.

The conversation may not flow according to book but at least you ve started
any twist that occurs you'd flow naturally

Though I didn't dispute the fact of having a back up plan,and wat of if it didn't go the way he plan it! Some guys have this mentality that, until they keep a lenghty conversation wif a gal, they do see themselves as a toasting guru! Honestly some gals dnt even need that cos even before the guy walk up to her, she already knows wat the guy is up to!!!

For the speechless part, u are damn right @ jessy! Some guys no dey try at all! If a guy wants a gal, he shud be himself! He shud be bold enough to confront her even if it is telling her he admire her a lot and wants to be her frnd!!! Well I just believe not until u keep lenghty conversation, or have back up plan! I FEEL THIS THINGS HAPPEN NATURALLY!!

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Politics / Re: Why Did Buhari Sentence Fela Kuti To 10 Years In Prison? by olami100(m): 10:15pm On Nov 10, 2014
KingTom:

Did Buhari give Fela HIV in prison

There is no sense in wat u write! Did ibb gave abiola hiv in prison Unless u want to pretend as if u don't know that fela was killied!!!
Romance / Re: How To Toast A Girl by olami100(m): 6:47pm On Nov 10, 2014
I lafta some guys, and some guys will learn dis toasting strategy to woo a gal! Honestly if ur wordings to a gal doesn't come naturally, forget it, she won't get connected even d guy will find it difficult to get connected... If u are moved towards a gal, be sincere wif ur feelings and if u aint moved, then let it go joor! U don't have ave to be a toasting guru before u woo a gal! JUST BE URSELF and be CONFIDENT in ur approach!

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Career / Re: Between Master's Degree And Professional Course by olami100(m): 12:23pm On Nov 07, 2014
Honestly it depends on the course of study! Like someone who study education and want to become a lecturer, for him opting for master immediately after his/her ist degree is the best option for him or her!
And again considering the way some organization do their recquirement wen it comes to job vacancy, I tink a master degree gives u an edge!
Though am not saying professional course is not good, but it depends on the individual and the course of study! Thank you!
Education / Re: Oyedepo Defends Fees Charged By Private Universities by olami100(m): 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2014
lacreamieboie: So CU should start charging 25k per session coz its a xtian uni right? do u av an idea about how much it takes to maintain CU, av u got a clue about staffs' salaries?? u guys should at least think before criticizing nah!

oga let me assure you! Even if dey reduce d skool fees to a less considerate amount I tell u, the church will still pay their lecturers, their staff! Let us not decieve ourselves they are only meant for the riches they are not for the poor!! Let me ask u one question!
Where is this man getting all his money from to buy jet not just jet! I mean four jets!! Bro if u know wat it cost to fund a jet u won't come up wif dat! Let me tell u!! All are just decieving us! They are blessing to the riche people!

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Education / Re: Ebola: Schools May Resume Mid-september – Health Minister by olami100(m): 7:46am On Sep 04, 2014
What will it take dis private skool owners to adhere to simple instruction frm federal govt! Honestly speaking, is it that they don't care for the children or what and once kids and children begin to contract ebola, they will cast the blame on jonathan and his cohort! To me The private school owners are just after their own pocket not after the safety of the children! Until we begin to accept and do the right tins in this country! We will never grow as a nation!!
Family / Re: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by olami100(m): 2:19pm On Aug 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:

Infidelity is not the only reason that can lead to a broken home. There is also serial infidelity, neglect, abuse and so much more.

It's good to have a forgiving heart and you are right, nobody is perfect but nobody should let anyone or anything destroy them. So if a marriage becomes unbearable, physically and / or mentally, it is sometimes better to let go.
Mehn that is not when children are involve ooooo! Babe na children go suffer am o! But if no children they can separate! I hate divorce and broken home!!
Family / Re: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by olami100(m): 2:10pm On Aug 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:

A home can be broken without divorce.
Family / Re: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by olami100(m): 2:10pm On Aug 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:

A home can be broken without divorce.
@carefreewannabe
that is true! but that happens when the man is not willing to let go of such! Like I told u, I will feel bad and hurt! That is normal! But the same question I ask myself was that if It happens to be me cheating on my wife and she caught me nko? See nobody is perfect!!! For me I will totally let go and give her anoda chance!!
Mehn the reason why people take actions instantly is becos dey dnt tink of d future but dey tink of d present! For me I will forgive her cos that was d pledge I made before God to her!!!!! #we need to learn how to forgive and let go#
Family / Re: Would You Stand By Your Spouse, No Matter What? by olami100(m): 9:54am On Aug 29, 2014
I will stay wif her for better for worse! But if I caught her in any uncompromising state with any man, I won't divorce her I knw I will feel bad and hurt, but I won't divorce her for the sake of my children because I wouldn't want my children to be a product of a broken home! I guess u all knw the bad effect of broken home on children! for the love of my children I will ultimately forgive their mother!!!!!!!!!!

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Education / Re: Third Class And 2.2 In Our Federal Universities. by olami100(m): 1:45pm On Aug 27, 2014
I just felt bad with some people mentality! I want to ask what has been the impact of those student who graduated wif 2.1 or ist class frm a federal uni to the development of dis country?
What has been the impact of our lecturers or professors in the federal university to the development of dis country?
Or they want to tell me they are not best brains in the state university or private uni! Keep decieving uself!
At the end both of dem later ended up in d labour market searching for job!!
For me ALL OUR FEDERAL, STATE, and PRIVATE university have failed us! Take it or leave it!

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Education / Re: The Plight Of The Nigerian Overseas Federal Scholarship Students - Ikenna David by olami100(m): 6:35am On Aug 09, 2014
Our govt don't care for us! Upon all dis some of us will still waste our time and effort
Voting dem in 2015!! I feel sorry for u guys! That is niger for u

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