EnlightenedSoul: That list was composed in Mordor - right in the ass_crack of hell, and almost directly below its armpit. All love is effectively conditional. I suppose one could love unconditionally and foolishly. I'm not sure I'm "one".

All I can say is, know who you're marrying.

zboyd:

Would you stay if your woman 'slips' up just once?

Either answer wouldn't surprise me though.

DukeNija:

So you'll divorce your husband at 43 if he cheats once? Lol. Very rational

cococandy: That's not the answer bro.
Let me help repeat her question.

'Would you divorce a wife at 43 if she cheats on you once?

zboyd:

What if she gave you a STD, especially an incurable one like genital herpes or HIV?

Would you stay?

Would you expect her to stay with you, if you afflicted her in the same way?

And it's a definitely possibility, too.

lofty900: even if she cheated, I'll still stick with her cos I know that if I cheat, she'll also stick with me

zboyd: If it's true love, will you stick by your spouse, no matter what happens, or what they do?

Under what circumstances would you not?
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I would not stand by OR stay with my spouse if he...

...became abusive
...cheated
make sure you're ready for the same judgement if the tide was turned

...was no longer a good father
how do u define someone not being a good father?

...refused to work
nobody refuses to work...what if he's unable to get a good job that pays enough for him to fulfill his role? does that mean you'll leave him? that would make you a fair weather friend

...was convicted of a crime
Would you disown your parents or siblings if they were convicted of a crime?

...stole from me...among other things
There's nothing you have that's supposed to be 'your own' everything you have is supposed to belong to your family. if you're making demarcations on whats your own and what's his own then you're not ready to build a family

Bertbert: What if he or she gets EBOLA? Just asking oooo

DukeNija:

You'd be surprised at my answer!

DukeNija: All these women shouting infidelity. Lol
So your man 'slips' just once and next thing you are running off! lmao yea right?!!

passionate88: @bolded, but you expect him to stand by his woman when she steals his money right?.

Tallesty1: So love isn't unconditional after all?

wasobia: Omo, i would stick to her any day. No matter what happens! I have learnt a few things in my 16years of marriage and i know that a woman could be very helpful, supportive, understanding and great if the husband shows some Leadership.

1. If a man is in charge of the home, the wife will not err.
2. There is tendency for anyone to slips, after all we are all human. Invariably we need one another's support to avoid being slip.
3. Even if at all it happens, a man should take responsibility to show (a) Leadership (b) Forgiveness (c) Patience.
What is the probability to find another saint out there in the jungle?

olami100: I will stay wif her for better for worse! But if I caught her in any uncompromising state with any man, I won't divorce her I knw I will feel bad and hurt, but I won't divorce her for the sake of my children because I wouldn't want my children to be a product of a broken home! I guess u all knw the bad effect of broken home on children! for the love of my children I will ultimately forgive their mother!!!!!!!!!!

Edusouls: look at women asking who would stand by their spouse no matter what, women are one naturally selfish creature, they dont even konw exactly what they want, they dump men here and there at the slightest trail,many men are down and devastated by women that dump them after going through a lot for them.men borrow money, borrow clothing, borrow even food just to see that it works out, uncountable cases of men going through the very hectic and difficult task of training a girl all the way from year 1 to final year in the university, at the end after bringing the rif raf from their very hell and wretched homes, she now open eye and becomes more intelligent than you and goes wild, before you know it she dumps you for another fellow rif raf man, women stupidly jump out of a relationship that has been painfully built and nurtured for years, that have a future and go to their doom,women are very senseless creatures any calculation they do is wrong, women instantly loose their respect ans love for their husband just because things are not so smooth as it was before,women are super greedy that they date their fathers and sleep with them painting her future black, she just want bb, or money, or i pad. nowadays how many women date one man, nooo tht one is for girls wey never open eye, a normal nigerian girl carelessly date anything datable, once money or goodies comes out of it, even if monkeys have money they will date, women are so dishonest that they even lie to themselves talkless of another person, women hate the truth, women are natural betrayers and they disappoint anyhow at the least expected time, their smelling life style can be seen everywhere by any person who is not blind..they tell you they want to marry a good man, when the LovePeddler have dated up to 9 different individuals plus 2 married men added with some abortions. and have had sex with all of them, during school years. women are lost creatures, they shouldn't even talk because thier case is hopeless and worsens by the day.......