Juliaann:
OK I have been seeing this guy for a while now in short we are dating its been up to a year close to a year we started dating and I love him yes I do but the issue here is that whenever we are going out maybe to buy something or to chill out around the town it happens that if we run into a friend (his friend) he will ask me to go to the back seat for the guy to seat in the front but for what? the first day he did that I respected him and did exactly what he said but he has been doing this every time we see any of his friends on our way going out and I don't like it,,,,,assuming we all left home at same time including the friend I can seat at the back I don't mind but asking me to come down in the middle of the road just for his friend to enter I don't think I can take it any more and mind u for those of u that will start asking me to go get my own car if I don't like what he is doing I have my own car it won't be nice going out with different cars on a date since we can easily use one either his or mine

another one is that he is a hard smoker he smokes anything smokeable just name it,he drinks too but not much tho I'm OK with that one the worst is that he stays out late almost every night, I have tried discussing that with him on several occasion he always promised to change but for where he is getting worst everyday I really don't know what else to say or do to change him because I think I have done everything possible to atleast to make him reduce it but its not working,am thinking of quitting still having a second thought about it that's y I opened this thread for u guys to help me out

NB:::if u know you have nothing reasonable to say please am begging don't comment matured advice only

So my fellow NL'ers what do u suggest I do?

walexbiz:
i intially I wanted to reply all of you insulting Buhari but i took a pause to think then i realised it wouldnt have made sense since most of you are less literate than the incumbent president and who in turn is less literate than GMB despite the fact that he brandished a phd certificate he got from a swamp university. lets even accept that GMB is semi illiterate but he is more competent than GEJ. There is nothing more uselss than for someone to be cluelessly incompetent.

espn:
Dis OP is d biggest fool of d year. Seed nonsesnse..farming shit. Or wtf r u listing as dis clueless bastard achievement..u must b stupid and clueless urself..

espn:
Dis OP is d biggest fool of d year. Seed nonsesnse..farming shit. Or wtf r u listing as dis clueless bastard achievement..u must b stupid and clueless urself..

firstEVA:
The Average Nigerian man of today expects his wife/girlfriend to not depend on him financially, she should be an independent woman, she should be like the women from the west who would pay the bills when they both go out on a date.

On the other hand, the average Nigerian man of today wants a humble, loyal and submissive woman a woman who MUST NOT behave like women from the west who would challenge his authority as head, argue with him and even give him a slap when the argument becomes intense, no, mba. In other words they want gender equality but do don't want gender equality.
Isn't this the greatest hypocrisy of all times?

Eeser:

Abeg park well joor. You are not sure of what you're saying. Buh we have all seen what GEJ cannot do. Now is the time for change. Let the APC come in and show us what the can do.
#Buhari2015

ocheu:
this time around we are not voting for any party, we are voting for our leader #Buhari.

lilflipnerd:
Cant Pdp n their goons do sth else apart from Buhari dis, Buhari dat... it's getting boring abeg

mistabiola:
YOU DONT NEED TO BE A GRADUATE TO KNOW THAT; *Am not going to vote for someone who once had no shoes and school bags as a student but now has lots of shoes and bags but made students go on strike for about Eight ( months. *NEVER, am not going to vote for someone who could not rescue about 230 school girls but still has plan to rule a country of about 200million people.

*NEVER, am not going to vote for a grown up man who took advice from a 17year old girl (pakistan little girl) before he could make his own decision.

*NEVER, Am not going to vote for a black commander of Army who brought white marine soldiers to do his job for him and still yet nothing was done.

*NEVER, Am not going to vote for a government who could not provide job for my elder sister who has a Master Degree.

*NEVER, am not going to vote for a man that Boko Haram are killing his own people everyday and has no plan on how to stop the killing but can’t wait a minute when military took over power in Burkina Faso, he went there to stop the killing over there in Burkina Faso but could not stop the killing in his country.

*Finally am not going to vote for anybody who needs One Billion American Dollar to solve an Insurgency (Boko Haram) while the ordinary man on the street no even get (#100) hundred naira to eat.

You can scold me for speaking the truth, dont forget the truth is bitter. All we need is CHANGE and nothing else…. Please we all need to get our (PVC) Permanent Voters Card to vote this Clueless, Visionless and Wicked Government of Goodluck Ebola Jonathan (GEJ) out power. Another four years of Jonathan will be doom for us. Please dont sell your vote cause the money they will offer you can not sustain you for another four years. We should all stand up and say Capital NO to Jonathan.

WhiteTechnology:



You still did not catch the joke


I am mocking APC


Which cocoa-groundnut wealth


Poverty will kill Nigeria when we vote out GEJ and his oil wealth.

WhiteTechnology:





GEJ must go


Tinubu will rebuild Nigeria with cocoa-groundnut wealth

Mama sikiru

Buy me some farm tools

sojjy:


I know your type(stomach infrastruture). If you have not benefitted from the Fashola administration, feel free to go to Ekiti where politics of the stomach reigns. I am glad only idiot like you will say Fashola has not done well but the generality of Lagosians will forever not forget his achievements in office.
EKO O NI BAJE
Akin Ambode 2015

sojjy:


The larger part of you must be rooting for destruction. Do you want to compare Ambode with Agbaje? Get the resume of Ambode and Agbaje, pick the best between the two and Lagos will be in a safe hands. EKO O NI BAJE OOOO.

swezenberg:


You forgot to add cluelessness and grammatical dysfunction

courage54:
These are the kind of sound minds you find in APC such as Dabiri, Fashola, Prof Pat Utomi, Oshiomle, Dr Fayemi, Ambode, Amosun, Ajimobi, Tambuwa, Aregbesola, Oshiomole and the host of others. These individuals have distinguish themselves in their various way not like the PDP were u find ex-convicts, drug barons, looters of our national wealth, and murderers. This is the main reason I love this party call APC


God bless Nigeria
God bless Niger-delta

Sai Buhari

enochogaga:
cos the one(GOD) that create you, and the that is still giving u life has instucted u, not to forsake the assemply

enochogaga:
cos the one(GOD) that create you, and the that is still giving u life has instucted u, not to forsake the assemply

peteregwu:
PLS DON'T BE SURPRISED AT THEM BLASPHEMING GOD, BECAUSE THEY ARE THE CHILDREN OF LUCIFER. THEY HAVE A REPROBATE MIND. THERE HEARTS IS STIRRED WITH IRON AND THEY CANT REPENT. THEY HAVE MADE UP THEIR MIND TO END TO HELL FIRE LIKE THEIR FATHER, SATAN THE DEVIL AND LUCIFER. DON'T JOIN THEM, FOR THEIR END IS HELL FIRE. THEY ARE THE KIND OF PEOPLE THAT DON'T WANT TO REPENT OF THEIR EVIL AND WICKEDNESS, NOW THEY HAVE TURNED AGAINST GOD TO BLASPHEME THE HOLY AND THE RIGHTEOUS GOD WHO LIVES AND ABIDES FOREVER.

Romans 1:28 "And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."

honourhim:


I did not see where you addressed his questions. Why dont you just shut up as you advised us to do? Nonsense. If you call yourself a christian and you want to claim that those questions have no answers then i pity your christianity. There's nothing strange in his questions, nothing there that does not have answers. He addressed his letter to God and he should go through the process of getting answers from God.

Some of you so called christians when you feel that the atheists have raised questions that are beyond you you begin to yap nonsense to win their likes. That you dont have answers to the questions doesnt mean others dont have. Let him meet God whom he asked. Period. Why is he afraid of communing with God

5minsmadness:

1, The bible is not for research. It is for you to have faith and believe. If you cant read the bible with faith then it will remain a storybook to you.

2, the op isn't looking for answers, not from man anyway. He addressed the letter to God. Are you God?

3, All the questions he asked has answers. There is nothing mysterious in what he asked. Which begs the question: Did he ask it to seek knowledge? Or to ridicule? Read through the questions again and the way he addresses the letter in some paragraphs. Would you write a letter using such words to the president of the united states talk less of the Creator of the Universe ?

Yes some christians are shallow...but this guy is just looking to ridicule. Nothing more.

Vanellope:


I like and admire your defense of Tinubu. Many don't know how much he's achieved for his people. Hence, they need to be educated. You're doing a good job.

It's unfortunate we Nigerians often enjoy chewing on our leaders.

pendy179:


Now read all my post to this thread and ask yourself who need to do a swap for the chicken brain you bear in your head.

Tinubu is/was corrupt yet the EFCC and iCPC or Code of Conduct bureau which are Federal Agency haven't been able to link him to any of such corrupt act.

Being convicted for corruption is not by mere gossip and road side newspaper gist. The courts are there, I'm a lagosian I want him convicted of he's guilty but it is quite ironic to see my state growing from strength to strength, richer than ever with Nigeria as a country going poorer and yet believe all the tales about Tinubu.stealing lagos funds yet development on the ground says otherwise and yet no single case against the corruption czar we are made to believe he is.

Use your sensed at times.

philfearon:

Lol.....Unbelief in a thing doesn't make it cease existence!!

smile4kenn:
You are a very dangerous person. It seems you have missed the last 20 years in molecular genetics, molecular epigenetics, systems biology and complex systems and you write from a fundamentally misinformed base. Let’s just get this straight, you don’t understand how genetics works in a developmental context, and that’s a shame because information ONLY WORKS IN A DEVELOPMENTAL context. You have consistently unabashedly demonstrated that you fundamentally don’t understand, and rather will not even consider the probabististic nature of developmental processes. Your 5th grade conception of biological processes does not qualify you to possess the opinions you have which is because you write in pop-blog. The only thing that bothers me is that people with even less understanding might read your misinformed opinions and mistake them with a scientific consensus.

Rhapsodi:
. It actually depends I dnt know from what pespertive u are looking from wat I meant is wen u genuinely love her I mean GENUINELY love her nt because of her shape,boobs,booty or tins like dat den sex isn't an issue

eph12:

that you want to have sex with a girl doesn't mean you love her.

Rhapsodi:
Yea its very true, cos wen real love is involve it comes from the heart, so ur feelings and emotion won't let u have sex nt even think of it. Am in such a relationship

eph12:
Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.