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Culture / Re: 20 Popular Yoruba Charms And Their Uses(With Direct English Translations) by olapam(f): 10:20am On Aug 04, 2015
Wow @Nihi I saw it copy and pasted indeed true @op dnt mislead pple busted
Pets / Re: Pitbull Adult For Sale Ibadan by olapam(f): 5:13pm On Jul 26, 2015
Oh wat is full breed
Pets / Pitbull Adult For Sale Ibadan by olapam(f): 4:23pm On Jul 25, 2015
Call if ure interested in my dog and get a bonus of making money with it . Have not had puppies yet raised it since a puppy . Its now a year old 07055144715 last price 100k

Romance / Re: Should She Tell Her Fiance About Her Sex Video by olapam(f): 9:15am On Jun 24, 2015
there is no video i repeat just a bluff but if she accepts to do something with him now trust me videos plus pictures will be be thete . if i was her i would tell my fiance a man i dated at xul is making advances on me that she has to tel becoz since she exchanged numbers that is the stupidiest thing ever inviting your ex to your wedding for what .he will call her anytime even after marriage so she has to tell her fiance period
Fashion / Wedding Gowns Ibadan by olapam(f): 5:50pm On Jun 06, 2015
for your wedding gown we rent out and sell plis contact for more details 08113070128 anytime ibadan . our prices are reasonable you can also use the space for your preparation changing make up etc

Fashion / Re: Makeup Tips For Oily Skin by olapam(f): 5:06pm On May 16, 2015
good one
Food / Re: Zimbabwean Nairaland Food by olapam(f): 2:46pm On May 14, 2015
the oil is not much wen i mix the stew trust me
thanx
Fashion/Clothing Market / Re: Wedding Gowns For Rental by olapam(f): 10:34am On May 13, 2015
more new gowns

Food / Re: Zimbabwean Nairaland Food by olapam(f): 11:09pm On May 12, 2015
ya from zim y are u laughng at my amala
Food / Re: Zimbabwean Nairaland Food by olapam(f): 10:31pm On May 12, 2015
sorry am eating typing with left hand so ignore my writing
Food / Zimbabwean Nairaland Food by olapam(f): 10:30pm On May 12, 2015
how did i do . i love nigerian food but when sometimes i read ingredients i dont know what they are when i go to market i cant pronounce it lol . so ewedu and amala is my favourate. i did syew with pomo, boiled fish, fried fish , stock fish , snail, one other meat like that its normally sold with stock fish its like sticks, small dry fish like cray but not amyway .judge my pics and correct me i ddnt tek step by step though nex time i will. my husband is yoruba but he loves igbo food so anyone to help me i wil appreciate. hope i tried no rude comments am learning

Food / Re: Step By Step Picture Of A Nairalander Cooking Okro Soup With Amala by olapam(f): 4:15pm On May 12, 2015
those nails though i hev stopped doing manicure self
Fashion / Re: Learn Make Up Artistry For Free Here by olapam(f): 9:08pm On May 10, 2015
thanx see uther
Fashion / Re: Learn Make Up Artistry For Free Here by olapam(f): 6:26pm On May 10, 2015
do u hev a bb channel plis if yes whats the name
thank you
Fashion/Clothing Market / Re: Wedding Gown For Sale by olapam(f): 10:22am On May 01, 2015
we rent out from 10k depends which one email pamelasedze@gmail .com. our shop is by NNPC JUNCTION APATA IBADAN

Family / Embarassed By A Helper by olapam(f): 11:53pm On Apr 25, 2015
yeey guys believe it or not but today i really remembered dont judge a book by its cover. cut story short am married to a nigerian am fro Zimbabwe we are currently living with my inlaws our house is under construction. we live downstairs the stairs are outside. we live in peace they love me i try to do good all the time. now they hired a small girl as helper when she first arrived mum told me she would be helping me too i looked at her and felt pity that this small girl will work here. anyway that same day she looked hungry i fed her and never stopped but i dont use her as helper. when my muum is not around i just feed her. so when i dont have something like salt has finished or this or that i go to my mum. since i do.t speak yoruba i speak english with her and give her signs or show her what i need upstairs. behold today she came witha bottle of crayfish said something i dis not understand i dismissed her. my hubby came with her and bottle and asked me when i went upstairs to take mums crayfish . i say me funny i have never seen that bottle in my life and i dont remember when i last ate crayfish. lol we went to meet mum she was angry. she start to talk to my hubby in yoruba theyask her many times how the crayfish has finished she repeatedly said its me who came upstairs and took it in her presence. guys my God Jehovah is my witness i never saw that bottle before today , could it be that she saw me in her dream and thought its real but then the crayfish is left small. she has been beaten before coz of stealing food etc. she also cooks indomie wth some small kids in the family when mum is not around , i go to shop monday to frid on the day in question she said i took it in the morning chaiiii ther i God wo. she is adamant that it was me .i dont get it but one thing for sure my sympathy for her has died today. she is maybe 10years now. she said it happened on thursday how do i deal with her. just looking at her will want me to give her beating of her life
Food / Re: Eating Mango After Drinking Fanta Or Coke, Is It Dangerous? by olapam(f): 11:23pm On Apr 23, 2015
so funny just finished doing exactly that before readng ths post guess am still alive
Food / Re: Does Anyone Here In Nigeria Eat Mushrooms? by olapam(f): 11:21pm On Apr 23, 2015
am a Zimbabwean and i love them but only my granny would tell m the poisonous and not so nw am here never seen them
Food / Re: Tie Dye Rainbow Cake by olapam(f): 11:19pm On Apr 23, 2015
y did u put popcorn on top
Fashion / Re: largest business network: connect your biz. by olapam(f): 11:47pm On Apr 18, 2015
thanks forthis thread am into wedding gowns mainly renting and sale if you need just email me pamelasedze@gmail.com, col or whatsaap 08113070128 anytime. what do we do in turn @op

Fashion / Wedding Gowns For Rent by olapam(f): 11:36pm On Apr 18, 2015
who says you need a new gown to be beautiful for your special day. let me tell you its not bad but you can still save money by renting and stiill look georgeous. so why not try us .OLAS BRIDAL PARLOR nnpc junction ibadan apata side.col whatsapp 08113070128 or pamelasedze@gmail.com

Family / Re: Pictures Of A Woman That Gave Birth On The Road by olapam(f): 11:04pm On Apr 08, 2015
Birth comes differently pple for me they gave me date that I should come to hospital and true those days I felt pains went to hospital sent back home, after 2weeks 8pm am cooking water broke ate my food went to bed 2am started having contractions was in labour till 12noon, I envy this woman glory be to Jehovah God . And thank you to people who assisted her that is love for neighbour. Am still in awe amazing gift indeed.
Food / Re: New Cocktail In Town by olapam(f): 5:13pm On Mar 28, 2015
Lol am not nigerian bt I like the fruit I want to try it maybe mek it creamy like amarula
Romance / Re: Her Fiance Is Seriously Complaining About Her Boobs by olapam(f): 3:16pm On Mar 27, 2015
I biliv there are things in life we can control like weight but things like height and small booby or small butt hell no is it worth all the trouble to go thru booby implant to please a man hell no. Your real true love will come and love you as you were made. Tek a bath eat good food and wear clothes that fit you enjoy your life make Jehovah God your best friend he made time to make u and was happy with you . That man wil leave you again for a tall or short woman the list is endless . Wrap him well in nylon and put him in a rubbish bin

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Family / Re: Learn How To Beat Your Wife by olapam(f): 12:14am On Mar 27, 2015
Wife beaters kip yo comments cowards
Family / Learn How To Beat Your Wife by olapam(f): 12:12am On Mar 27, 2015
Article written by Charles Oputa. Read below..
When I look back at my life, and all the stuff I did as a carefree, young and restless youth,  I can't help but shudder at some of my very bad habits. Yes, I was once short-fused; blowing off at the slightest provocation. It was pitiful. Over time I have managed to rid myself of such sad habits but that can't be said for a lot of men some of who, even late in their lives can't still get over it, thereby losing their cool in their homes. No be small thing sha.

Domestic violence is an under reported crime in Nigeria, almost accepted as norm. Some  men feel it's their right, some feel it's always the women who bring out the beast in them, while others will readily admit its a way of stamping their authority in the home. Sadly, many don't see anything wrong with beating their wives. How sad! Yes, am aware there are women who beat up their husbands, but those are in the minority and this piece ain't about them. The most guilty perpetrators are usually men and the victims are mostly their wives and sometimes their children too.

Men abusing women is like a defence and coping mechanism for being or feeling WEAK in other aspects of life, sometimes including deep analog beliefs about masculinity. Men who abuse loved ones tend to blame other things or people for their violent outbursts. In some cases, it is a cycle: "my father abused me and my mom, so, it's  normal".
Society doesn't help either, it ingrains in a man's psyche that macho bullshit; how he should be strong and if he can't exhibit that in his daily public life, it's ok for him to go home and prove his strength. 

Abusive men are not limited to a particular status, it ranges from a bricklayer to a CEO or even a President, causing their women to perpetually live in anxiety and fear. Most of them tip-toe around their husbands, not because they respect these men, but because of fear.

A violent man might have grown up in a dysfunctional household but this is still not a reason to be abusive. It is an excuse, and a flimsy one at that.
Some men don't come from humble homes where women are appreciated. Some of us come from homes that expose us to sex, gossip, male macho bullshit. Values for treating women start with where you're coming from, your background. However, beyond these, what bleeps most men up is our BIG FAT EGO. It has everything to do with selfishness or overrated feeling of self-importance. QED.
Ego is the source of many negatives in the world. It is the false 'self' that Jesus said we should let die before we can gain everlasting life. Ego craves to be first, but we must be willing to be last. Unconditional love comes with humility, selflessness, abundant generosity, perfect responsibility, fearless confidence.

I no go brag, am not all that, but I dey try. God knows!

Now, for the man who feels trapped in this mad dance with his loved ones and is trying very hard to rid himself of this very terrible habit, do like me. If you start to feel that your fuse is about to burst, try and say nothing, hold it in for a few minutes and relocate yourself to another space, either in your house, or outside. Allow some time to elapse before you express yourself, never talk or let your fist run amok when you're upset; it doesn't make for a good picture.
Even though I have cured myself of my short fuse, i still get tempted from time to time. What works best for me now is silence. I go and lock myself in my room and will never utter a word to my lady until am sure am in control of my faculties. Since many moons ago, I have discovered that this is a very effective option in dealing with a very bad temper.

So next time you are with your woman and you feel like turning her into a punching bag, change the game, beat her with your silence for the period you feel like blowing your fuse. Na my way be that oooooo.
This is just my take sha, how you see the matter my guys?
Linda Ik

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Food / New Cocktail In Town by olapam(f): 9:59am On Mar 25, 2015
uesday, March 24, 2015

Agbalumo 'Cherry' Mojitos? The drink making rounds on social media

Some Nigerians are daily making attempts to transform Nigerian dishes and drinks around. Check out how the popular agbalumo 'cherry' fruit is being made into a drink. Doesn't look good though...lol. Would you drink this?
Linda Ikeji at 9:25 PM

Jokes Etc / Rich Man's House by olapam(f): 11:10am On Mar 18, 2015
RICH PEOPLE & their wahala. I went 2 see a friend from a very rich family. D maid approached Mε̲̣̣̣̥ & asked.
MAID: What would u lyk to have, fruit juice, yoghurt, tea, chocolate, cappuccino , frapuccino or coffee?
ME: Tea pls.
MAID: Ceylon tea, Indian tea, herbal tea, kericho gold tea,bush tea or green tea?
ME: Ceylon tea pls. MAID: how do u want it, black or white?
ME: White. ...
MAID: Milk or fresh cream?
ME: With milk.
MAID: Goat milk or cow milk?
ME: Cow’s milk.
MAID: Freezeland cow or Afrikaner cow?
ME: Uhm, lemme go with d freezeland cow.
MAID: Would u lyk it with sweetner, sugar or honey?
ME: Sugar.
MAID: Bee sugar or cane sugar?
ME: Cane sugar
MAID: White, brown or yellow sugar?
ME: Abeg, forget abt d tea, jst give me a glass of water...
MAID: Mineral, tap or distilled water?
ME: Mineral water pls.............
MAID: flavored or non flavored?
ME: Infact get me an empty glass!
MAID: Do u want a tumbler, wine glass, champagne flute or a beer mug?
ME: Abeg, free me, i go swallow my spit..." LOL

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Fashion / Re: Do You Have A Beautiful Mermaid Wedding Dress For Sale Or Hire by olapam(f): 10:31pm On Mar 11, 2015
My number 08145424581, what app too for pics am In ibadan though
Fashion / Re: Do You Have A Beautiful Mermaid Wedding Dress For Sale Or Hire by olapam(f): 6:14pm On Mar 09, 2015
I do rent out not everyone wants to buy seriously renting doesn't mean ure poor you can still luk more beautiful than the original owner. Email me pamelasedze@gmail .com wil send you pics

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Fashion / Isn't She Beaurifool by olapam(f): 3:26am On Feb 15, 2015
I want to learn it jor ,I wanna be beautiful like u mama . Pple are wicked they probably told her she lukd georgious let's take u a picture next Send to internet grin embarassed

Health / Must Read And Foward by olapam(f): 4:47pm On Feb 13, 2015
Health alert!!!!!. More people are dying of cancer , most people are in their cars first thing in the morning and last thing 7 days a week. -Do not turn on A/C as soon as you enter car. -open windows after you enter your car and turn on A/C after couple of minutes. WHY ? According to research dashboard, sofa, air freshner emit Benzene a cancer causing toxin (carconogen -take time to observe the smell of heated plastic in your car. Benzene poisons your bones causes aneamia and reduces white blood cells. Prolonged exposure will cause leakemia increasing the risk of cancer. -can cause miscarriage. Acceptable Benzene level indoors is 50g per sq ft . A car parked indoors with windows closed will contain 400 - 800mg of Benzene . If parked outdoors under the sun at a temp of 60degrees f benzene level goes up to 2000-4000mg 40 times plus the acceptable. -people who get into the car keeping windows closed will inevitably inhale in quick succession. -benzene affects your liver and kidneys worse its difficult to expel it. So please open your windows and door of your car give it time for interior to air out the deadly stuff before you enter . PLEASE SHARE we can help save lives just forward I took time to type

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